They also do not show any negative feeling directly but they convey these feelings indirectly by procrastination. Also, they hate those who are in the authority and use procrastination as a way to challenge them. Defier procrastinator are slowly with work they don't like or task they don't interested in. 5.Crisis-Maker Procrastinators: people who belong to this type turn every situation into a drama. They ignore their task until the last minute and then they feel the risk and start working on them.
Furthermore, some female words, such as, “approximately”, “probably”, “may be”, “nearly”, which are seldom used by men, otherwise, they think it will leave others the impression of vacillation and lack of resolution, losing dignity and face. And importantly, people generally have an impressive impression on these decisive men who make decision candidly and make comments directly, on the contrary, the mass look down upon these men who are irresolute and hesitant. And men are not accustomed to seek views of others and generally make direct statement of certain issues, if not, they think it is possible to show that they do not have their own opinions or cannot fully express themselves and will be looked down upon, so that in some degree, male language tends to be more aggressive, and controllable, and they are inclined to use imperative sentences with peremptory and determined tone to show their dignity and authority, which is closely related with their strong sense of maintaining their
Being different from society often leads to exclusion and the over complication of even the smallest things. Due to a constant existing fear of society 's response to what an individual may feel, an individual may maintain a feeling of isolation and would not want to demonstrate their feelings. When someone is different, they question every move they make because of how everyone else might react to the situation. T.S. Eliot’s poem, “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock”, is about a well educated and modern man who wants to ask a woman a very significant question.
The third thing with my personal experience is you can’t be friends with everybody especially if God didn’t send them your way. Last thing I would say being distracted can interfere with a lot. Speaking Up When it comes to speaking up its kind of hard sometimes, because people will really try to walk all over and act like you don’t exist. You can’t always be quiet because they will try to play you and treat you as if they didn’t hear you. I go through this a lot still people will ignore what I say and pay attention to the next person.
Change can be both good and bad. While some individuals may be open to new opportunities because of change, it can also create disapprovals from individuals who are defiant. According to Heathfield (n.d), resistance to change is taking action to resist adaptation or transformations that changes the status quo in the workplace. Employees can show that they do not like or want a change and become resistant publicly and verbally. Some employees feel uncomfortable about change and make it known during conversations at work.
On the other hand, in public view, it feels soothing to give responsibility to one mind. People mostly do not stand for taking responsibilities in serious times. Also, opponents of autocratic leadership claim that everyone has right to share ideas. They argue that autocracy obstructs to birm of better ideas and further, the ones who disagree with their leader gets pushed out. However, those arguments are mostly irrational.
Your body and mind are connecting each other, we know that a terrible mind will affect your bodies comfort too. Have you ever been in the situation when you really didn’t believe what someone was saying? Did you have a sense that something didn’t ring true or a gut feeling that all was not right? Perhaps they were saying “Yes” yet their heads were shaking "No”? The difference between the words people speak and our understanding of what they are saying come from non-verbal communication, otherwise known as “body language”.
This example clearly shows that freedom of speech is being compromised as people are unable to voice out what they truly feel and are mostly forced to keep their opinions to themselves as voicing these opinions will make the rest of the society think in a different way and steer them away to generate other ideas or thoughts. Another example that compromises the freedom of speech will be allowing the younger generation to understand and think on their own about certain subjects such as pornography or homosexuality. This example clearly shows that freedom of speech is being compromised as the younger generation are unclear or sure of what to think about such topics as they are unable to think for themselves and decide. The younger generation, most likely from the age of 12 and above, should be able to think on their own as to why it is not safe and not being told to think they are not safe as this would be controlling what they are thinking. Hence, Freedom of speech is being compromised as they are unable to think with
Concerning to the fear of making mistake, it is very much influenced by the students’ fear of being laughed at by other students or being criticized by the teacher. As a result, students commonly stop participating in the speaking activity (Hieu, 2011). With respect to this issue, Juhana (2012) also stated that the fear of making mistake is largely connected to the concern of negative evaluation and correction. Students are very much concern on their images as they are unwilling of looking foolish in front of others and that they are worried about the judgement from people as how other will see them. Most students are afraid to try to speak in a foreign language they learn because they are avoiding negative evaluations and do not want to be laugh at by their peers in case if they make mistakes.
With a myriad of extensive relationships, it is virtually impossible for one to satisfy each and every person. That explains why people are frequently subjected to unavoidable criticisms from the others. In popular thought, criticism is considered as the disapproval and objection made by other people towards one’s unexpected mistakes. As a result, people may make a choice whether to pay attention to or merely ignore criticisms. In fact, almost everyone tend to turn a deaf ear to critics and make an attempt to create an invisible shield in order to stay away from them.