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Essay On Fatherhood

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A man is made for a woman to be a partner in life and one of the great role of man is to become a father with a responsibility of being head of the family to support all their needs. Through this, many men say that being a father deeply affects their identity and outlook through transformative experience (Percheski et. al, 2008) that serve as an important transition period in men’s lives (Cooper, 2005; Sansiriphun et al.,2010), which seeks to realize the self as a sign of change in his formation and role of being a father. In this case, as they enter the fatherhood they have left their single life and become more responsible for a child. Historian John Demos (1982) has outlined a description of “Pre-Industrial father involvement by delineating a numerous of paternal roles including pedagogue, guidance counselor, benefactor, moral …show more content…

al, 2012). The breadwinner is still part of a man/father: beside the desire to be a good breadwinner, the father also intends to be “a good father,” thus showing no contradiction between the two ideals (Miller, 2011; Dermott, 2008; Doucet, 2006; Bosoni, 2014). Although historically fathers are becoming more involved in their children’s lives, fathers still identify with “breadwinning” (Mauer & Pleck, 2006; De Garmo, 2010), Some fathers consider breadwinning their primary contribution to parenting (Yarwood, 2011). Although breadwinning may still be an important piece of fatherhood, more and more men seem to be feeling the pull of care giving as a central component of fathering (Daly & Palkovitz,

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