In this paper, I will argue and show parents how spanking and physically disciplining our children can have negative and detrimental consequences because it causes psychological damage, a lack of trust between child and parent, and when it is not done in the right mind set it can lead to more serious matters such as child abuse. “In 2012, a national survey showed more than half of women and three-quarters of men in the United States believe a child sometimes needs a "good hard spanking. "” Some may argue that spanking helps the child realize that their behavior is wrong and needs to be fixed, when parents discipline physically it might be a quick fix to stop the behavior, but as time goes on it does not only harm them physically but mentally and socially. While I agree that when a child’s behavior is wrong, we need to help them fix it, but I disagree that it should be done by physical punishment. Studies show that when kids are spanked or physically punished they tend to act out in the same way and choose to be aggressive like their parents.
The Effects of Divorce on Kids Divorce is typically a word of taboo; however, there can be positive outcomes for kids depending on how the parents interact and respond to the divorce. The effect of divorce on children, adolescents, and males or females is a response to a situation that they, themselves, have no control over. “The divorce itself does not affect children in a negative way. The effects result more often from the feeling of uncertainty of what is going to happen after the divorce” (Bloem). Although divorce has become such a regular aspect of today 's relationships the effects can alter a child 's life unexpectedly and produce uncertainty.
To explain, while nora is fighting with Torvald about leaving him although she has no care, all he can think about is “what people will say”(1713). Nora cares for her children and knows she will be criticized for leaving her family. She has to look deep inside of herself for a life changing decision for her sanity, but her fight inside of herself to leave leads her so find some independence in her thinking. Nora’s conflicting thoughts of how she should treat her children also advance her decisions. While Torvald is going on about how “almost everyone who goes bad early in life has a mother who is a chronic liar” she begins to worry about her own children(1685).
. Last year I made a rule that I was going to quit horsing around with girls.” Many parents want to keep their child from that kind of exposure. They think that their child will pick up these bad habits, but what they don’t realize is that they are doing more harm from keeping their child from knowing the reality of the world. Sex is a common bad trait of human kind. If the parent doesn’t allow their child to face the fact of sex.
Faith Pollard Hon-English 3 Mrs. Gallos 21 March 2018 How to Stop Bullying Bullying is the number one issue for adolescents in high school and middle school across the United States. People’s common knowledge about bullying is that they think that it is just a kid picking on another kid, but really it is much more than that. Bullying can happen in different scenarios and types such as, physical, verbal/social, and the most common recently cyberbullying. Bullying causes people to feel like they have no place in the word and it makes them feel so much pain that they believe their only escape is through committing suicide. Bullying has only increased through the years and it is not going to slow down.
Divorce itself has many hardships on the parents as well as the child, but custody potentially creates even greater problems. Child custody can have a positive and a negative outcome on children. Most people lean more towards the idea that child custody has a negative impact because of what caused it in the first place, divorce. When parents can not come to the point where they can agree on where the child should live and other important decisions in the child’s life, guidance is required. This happens in mediation and or going to court.
Married couples encounter a lot of problems during their marriage, which leads to divorce and just accepts it as a way of life. Divorce is now a common act that people do when they no longer want to be married But during that decision making process parents tend to forget that it’s different when children are involved and the damage they are doing to the children and the psychological, social academical and emotional distress they will go through at some point in their lives. For this reason, we need to study the negative effects of divorce on children. Divorce causes children to think that they’re the victim or the cause of their parent’s separation; it will even cause children to think that their parents do not love them. According to an article Effects of Divorce on the family written by Fagan, P (2012) when parents divorce each other, another sort of divorce occurs between the parents and their children.
Pedophilia is a stigma that affects parents decision-making and limiting freedom to their children because of fear. The idea that this potential danger towards their child can make parent limit their child’s freedom to do as they want or to interact with others. The strictness of the parent will increase due to fear of their child is in danger or something happening to their child in the near future. A research will be conducted in which to find whether parents have any prior knowledge of Pedophilia and whether it affects their protection level towards their children. The research would include a questionnaire where around ten parents are to answer a couple of questions about this topic.
Mothers, especially new ones, are pressured so much in their lives, because they have a child to take responsibility for. All of these presumptions may add stress that a new mother is already dealing with from learning how to take care of her baby. Family members and even community members put these mothers to shame by telling them how to do something the “correct”
The characteristics that Adler attributed to people according to their birth order are as follows: the firstborn children receive a lot of attention from their parents, but then they will sadly suffer the dethrone by their siblings, whom they will overprotect; they are prone to further problems due to the loss of prior privileges and to the supposed responsibility for taking care of their siblings. Middleborn children neither lived the dethrone nor were consented, although it is common that they feel out of place or become rebellious. The youngest children are aiming to being arrogant, consented and dependent on others because their siblings have always helped them, so they will have greater difficulty adapting to adult life. Only children never lose their supremacy; they are independent, self-centered and have no problem on being alone, but they find hard to share and compete with others. Finally, the twins; the one who is born first is usually the dominant; they are confident because of their closeness, but they find it difficult to be alone and have problems when they separate.
This suggests both gender roles are not going to be satisfied until they realize they need to make some changes in what they notice in a relationship. Accordingly, how parents instruct their children to act and what they should do as a woman or men causes countless troubles because parents send mixed signals. If they don’t want them to act a certain way they should enlighten them something conflicting as a child so they can grow up how they want them to be when they become older. It all starts at home. Gender roles are very much alive today, but they would not be as relevant if you teach your child gender equality at a young
For this reason, if a child’s parents were severely not getting along, then they definitely would not be putting all of their energy into talking with their child and, therefore the child would have a harder time developing language skills. On the other hand, if a child’s parents were to split up, then that child would have two parents that, while living in different households, concentrated their time on their child. This positive interaction “with caring, responsible adults is an essential ingredient in successful development”
Most of those fairytale marriages end in divorce, because they cannot deal with the hard times, the children and the differences that come about after marriage. The following groups feel that marriage should be dealt with in different manners. The functionalist believe that the incest taboo keeps the family members, from being confused about their role in the family, and it is a way to socialize the children. By feeling and believing this way, it leads them to look outside of the family for a wife or husband. They also believe that the new technology and all of the extra curriculum things for the family to do puts restrictions on the families.
Because it 's all being known they think that the behavior of a person that was in the slightest bit of difference from the rest of the community with bad was not natural and so again they jumped to conclusions and immediately go after what they think would be the safest solution for them and their families. Even just logistically going about this situation would have been a better ulterior because they didn 't consider the fact that they 've known these people . All their lives of young girls say. Even today in less dramatic and drastic ways the LGBT community are facing treatment like this since people are scared because they think they 're going to be punished because other people around them have done something that is against the rules of what they believe in and what they don 't know. Looking at how rational fears are a cause of we can see that there is a develop pattern and primary cause of a hysteria because fear fed directing authority figures to misuse your power in fear of the unknown is exactly what comes from what builds irrational fears and we are able to see that we will believe anything when we are scared and we go for that