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Great Traditions And Shape People's Behavior Essay

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HOW TO GET REAL FRIENDS AND SHAPE PEOPLE’S BEHAVIOR Have you ever felt people don’t understand you? You are not the only one. Most people experience this at some point or another in life. The key to avoid this unpleasant feeling lies in positioning ourselves in a different angle, or in other words, putting ourselves into the other person’s shoes. Indeed, it seems contradictory if we know the other person is the one who’s wrong. So, why do we have to see things from his/her perspective? Although it seems it doesn’t make any sense, the truth is this is the best method to get real friends, persuade a person’s behavior, and/or make people understand us better. Changing our perspective will make it easier to ignite in the other person a desire, goal, or path. It will also help us build positive relationships in every facet of our lives such as school, work, church, marriage and so on. BLAMEWORTHY ASPECTS There are factors that …show more content…

Perhaps the education system is not the only one we should blame. What about us? How is our self-esteem and confidence? Do we feel comfortable expressing our opinions? HOW TO OBTAIN CONFIDENCE • Conquer your fear by doing what you fear the most. It sounds absurd, however, it’s the real solution. If you are afraid of spiders, running away from is not going to take the fear away. We need to face our fear to be able to overcome them. • Persevere. Perhaps, you need to cry, scream or run away from spiders several times before you conquer that fear completely. Nevertheless, every attempt is a victory, and little by little the fear will go away. • Keep track of your efforts. Having a journal where you can see your efforts helps you visualize your hard work. Since the results won’t be evident immediately, keeping a journal helps your brain understand you are with your hands crossed, you are actively working toward conquering your

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