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Personal Reflection On Self-Reliance

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My results from the Self-Reliance Inventory were not surprising. If I would have tried to predict my results, I would have been correct. The inventory revealed that I am counter-dependent, which means that I withdraw from others when I am stressed. I feel that going to others will make me look needy. I have a fear of being over-dependent. In addition, since I am the oldest, my family raised me to be independent. I sometimes vent to my family and they do not really understand the stress of college. Being involved is essential to developing leadership skills, but it definitely adds stress to college students. Although I know that acting as if everything is perfect is not a productive method of dealing with stress, I continue to do so because it is comfortable. Opening up to others is a revealing task that I would rather not do. Since I am a Blue, according to the True Colors assessment, I never want to feel burdening to others. People are affected by the emotions of those around, so I want my affect to be positive. …show more content…

Dealing with my stress in a constructive way will help me better my connection with those that I am leading. As I continue to develop as a leader, I must recognize my weaknesses and try to overcome them. I could begin by venting to someone close when I feel stressed. Self-awareness is an effective quality of a leader. When taking a leadership role, I sometimes feel the need to be perfect. After gaining this knowledge, I realize that it is necessary to reach out to others during those stressful moments. This assessment helped me see that it is not healthy to take on all the pressure and never ask for help. As a leader, I will need to take control of my emotions and talk to my team or group. In addition, I will need to be able to talk to my friends or family to get an outside

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