The general view of the society has always been that a good man is a good provider for his woman and his family. A provider and a protector and thus deserving of the woman’s loyalty, respect and love.
Well there are men who are all that, but then there are men who protest being depended on financially by their women and most would rather date a woman who can provide for most of her needs. They might be earning so much but still wouldn’t spend it on their women. And these are one of the most dreaded species of men by women.
It is a nightmare to be in a relationship with a mean and stingy man and most women would rather not commit to this man once they find out that they are the exact type.
“I cannot date a stingy man that is for sure, because how
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Beware; you have a stingy one for a man.
And the worst is the one who barely sends money to his parents at home or spend on his siblings and immediate family. This one is not just mean and stingy but he is also selfish. You know what to expect as a wife.
We are not saying that you leave him, but if you do…we understand. If a lady decides to hold on to a stingy man, she is most likely just looking on the bright sides of the bad situation, which are mostly that he is not a reckless spender or also not a womanizer (coz no other woman wants him anyway, so it’s the only way he is all yours).
But guess what, even other men hate mean and stingy men.
“Our wives and women should be our responsibilities as men. All teachings portray the man as the provider and that is what we should be. So if a man is not spending money on his wife or woman then it is just wrong and probably just needs to be alone. But then if a woman want to suck out the financial stability of the man then that relationship should be terminated as soon as possible,” Says Josh Mwenda, 43 years old
He seems to believe that taking time to ‘woo’ or encourage love is out of the question. In his opinion, a wife has the duty of having children, keeping the house
Nevertheless, the interviewees frown upon being labelled as someone that values luxury over reasonable spending. Hence, they expressed their emphasis on the importance of needs over wants, and that practicality should triumph over extravagance. They see “limited” consumption as a form of self discipline, where excessive spending was only justifiable when it is spent on the family and invested in the children. If
The Truth About Poverty “Poverty is like punishment for a crime you didn't commit” this quote was said by Mahatma Gandhi and it relates so well with this article “It is Expensive To Be Poor”, answer the question yourself, Is it expensive to be poor? This article is titled like that to get the audience's attention early and have them thinking ahead of reading. The author Barbara Ehrenreich is building a pre thought when she does this which helps support her claim. “It is Expensive To Be Poor” by Barbara Ehrenreich is an article posted on “The atlantic” “which is where you can find your current news and analysis on politics, business, culture, and technology”. Knowing what “The Atlantic” offers for readers this gives Ehrenreich a detailed look at who she is writing to.
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