Poor adjustment in children may partly be due to high conflict and other problems in the family before the separation. Children who blame themselves for their parents’ fighting have also been found to be at greater risk of poor social and emotional adjustment following their parents’ separation.” Parents’ separation will not only give a negative result but it also gives a positive result. Further information about the positive and negative outcomes of parent separation will be explained as we continue to elaborate the effects of parental separation. The article explains that the things the children see affects their emotion, that leads to a bad/poor character. Making children feel that they are the reason for the break up without explaining to them how things go risks a child’s inner
Child abuse leaves him/her feeling neglected, which can cause serious health problems. Most children who are punished like adult are left feeling emotionally neglected. Neglect doesn’t come from having a bad childhood; it comes from a bad family member or even society. Feeling neglected has a huge impact on kids because this could affect them their whole life, and it would also cause some unwanted behaviors, such as beating, is a one kind of child abusing or example of a bad behavior. When people are abusing children make them think that everybody will be treating them in an ugly way, so with this they will stay away from others to avoid violence, and bad treating.
Bullying is an undesirable, aggressive behavior among school aged children that involves actual disparity of power. According to Megan Brooks bullying is a serious public health problems, with significant short-and long-term psychological consequences for the child who is bullied and the child who is the bully. This only tells us that bullying can lead to difficulty that a certain children may experience and will have either short or long term problem. “Bullying has long been tolerated as a rite of passage among children and adolescents, but it has lasting, negative consequences and cannot simply be ignored.” Committee chair Frederick Rivera, MD. Experiential studies and some high profile communicative cases have demonstrated a connection
As the result, children may loss their self-esteem which is a critical development in their emotional aspect. According to some studies, when parents separate, children especially five to ten years old results to be one of the most unlucky persons by the fact that they lose the chance of having a happy family. People cannot blame a child who has no respect, low self-esteem, having a bad attitude, and dealing the world unjustly because we do not know their background. These children might have an ignorance of being a rightful people. They maybe not nourished by their parents well.
So, they always do some bad thing to refer that they are out of control of their parent and teacher and insult them such as smoking in school or house, having an unprepared sexual intercourse before age, or fighting against their rival school. Moreover, the evidence of Paul C. Hlinger, which support that the corporal punishment sends unacceptable effective on behavior to the punished children, has been descripted that: ‘Physical punishment is associated with an increase in delinquency, antisocial behavior, and aggression in children, and a decrease in the quality of the parent-child relationship, mental health, and the child's capacity to internalize socially acceptable behaviors; adults who have been subject to physical punishment as children are more likely to abuse their own child or spouse and to manifest criminal behavior’ Hlinger (2009) Although the corporal is very effective on children negative side, it does not help teachers to establish any beneficial discipline. For example, Josalin Saffer, ex-volunteer teacher in Thailand, demonstrated the behavior of children in Thailand who have
Parents that aggressively fight, portray an unhealthy affiliation with their spouses and this sets a bad example for others. Violent parents or violent relationships cause pain to those near and those in the relationship. Violence is seen in both books, but is greatly touched on in Hillbilly Elegy by J.D. Vance. Since unhealthy parent relationships happen when a child is young, the connection could be made that the people in Evicted, had violent parents and is a cause for their situations they are in when Desmond writes their
This is certainly not good for the development of a healthy society. Children who are brought up from this relationship as mentioned above are always problematic compared to children who are brought up from married couples and there are many evidences to show that unhappy children will be having difficulty at schools which lead to truancy and later gang up with gangsters and be involved with evil activities such as stealing, drug related problems, alcoholism and other social problems. All these problems, if not attended to, will bring more serious problems to the society such as rape, clashes and
In addition, it might cause deterioration in the family relationship. When parents are in complete control over the daily life of their children, they would cause resentment towards their parents. Family conflicts would eventually exist and children might become more rebellious which is contrary to the original objectives of applying authoritarian parenting. Therefore, it suggests that this parenting style is not effective and authoritative parenting would be a great substitute to replace
With many laws protecting unfair and hurtful treatment of individuals, it is easily to forget that most children overwhelmingly receive this questionable and unjust form of correction. Thus, when we think of corporal punishment our minds would probably jump to the extreme forms of it, like severe beating, torturing, and hanging. Though Corporal Punishment isn’t constantly elaborate however, no matter the level; it is still hurtful producing long term effects that are not always beneficial for the children. Corporal or Physical punishment affects more than one aspect of a child’s development– emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. Significantly it causes difficulty in coping up with problems and socializing, it also alters a child’s way of thinking and emotional quotient.