Different pathway of mom's inculcate lead different effect In traditionally, parents education perform a most important character , they are our first teacher and teach us lots of skills , absolutely they give our life. Someone believe as a children we should must listen to our patents, while I don't disagree with this statement. Just for instance, in too many family, father always have to go out to make money and the kid's education as a big problem fall to mom's shoulder. Each mother have their own style to inculcate children, but most of them prefer imitate their parents.In "Two Kinds" and " Tiger Moms" , those two mothers 's also have some compare and contrast phases, they are both be severe upon their children but in "Tiger mom" that …show more content…
Firstly, in two texts, two moms both be severe upon their children.In "Two Kinds" there is "
"Why don't you like me the way I am?" I cried. "I'm not a genius! I can't play the piano. And even if I could, I wouldn't go on TV if you paid me a million dollars!"
My mother slapped me. "Who ask you to be genius?" she shouted. "Only ask you be your best. For you sake. You think I want you to be genius?Hnnh ! What for! Who ask you!”? " and in " Tiger
Moms" there is" That's the name of the piano tune that Amy Chua, Yale law professor and selfdescribed
"tiger mother," forced her 7-year-old daughter Lulu to practice for hours on end — "right through dinner into the night," with no breaks for water or even the bathroom, until at last Lulu learned to play the piece." In these texts those two mothers style both severely,the first mother want her kid to be outstanding stringency even slapped her and the second mother was directly forced her daughter , they both severe to their children, but the second mother gave up to do it in the end. As we know at the beginning those two mother both forced to their children but in the end the tiger mom gave up it. In the " Two Kinds" , there is "But I didn't at first. It was enough that she
“It is not true. Blancs are not smarter than I am” (Cadet
This statement explains how the narrator thinks that he is smarter than his family because he has been going to school for a long period of time. This means that he feels that his family isn’t as smart as he is because of their lack of education and how they believe the
Although control over a child may be seen as beneficial, many attributes of parental figures also suppress the natural essence of children. When Hannah moves in with Tante Rose, her life becomes dedicated to mastering Tante Rose’s piano. Despite previously living far more carefree home, when she moves in with her aunt, her lifestyle begins to change, saying, “Tante Rose demanded of me total commitment and devotion” (Horton, 33). Similarly, when Charlotte’s mother attempts to control Charlotte’s life, Charlotte describes her mother using a metaphor. She says, “my mother is a lofty mountain capped by virgin snow.
In the novel Sula, Toni Morrison focuses on the relationship between the protagonist Sula Peace and the foil Nel Wright, as well as their path to womanhood. Yet, Morrison includes details of the events within the upbringing and adulthood of each of their mothers. When the girls became young adults, their conduct within society resembled those of their mothers. The actions a mother takes are noticed by her daughter. In fact, a mother’s demeanor within society, may be inherited by her daughter.
Societies are built to be a safe, welcoming and an accepting environment, but sometimes end up to be harsh, cruel and irrational places. In John Wyndham’s novel, The Chrysalids, we are introduced to a world we can never imagine being, yet we live in a world that is actually not very different. David Strorm lives in post-apocalyptic world as a telepathic who is regarded as a mutant and goes on a tough journey with his cousin Rosalind to escape from their non-accepting community. The Waknuk society is indeed very similar to our world considering that today’s society also fears things they do not know about, do not always accept differences and has major issues with dealing with sexism. By comparing Waknuk to our world, the similarities
Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother Critique Amy Chua, a professor at Yale Law School, has created an article called Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother that intensively describes differences in the usage of parenting methods in Chinese and Westerners culture. The author has personally raised her children in a highly strict manner so her children succeed in life and academics. Chua often refers to the term “Chinese mother” that describes her parenting style apart from Western parents. The main purpose of this article is to show the two parenting techniques and how they affect the child 's success.
Evelyn How Mr. Catrette Lit/Writ 7 September 2015 In Two Kinds, a short story by Amy Tan, it is about a mom who pushes her daughter and strives for her to be some type of prodigy. The mom came from a tough background, moving to San Francisco after losing her parents, her family home, her first husband, and two twin baby girls. She “believed you could be anything you wanted to be in America”, so she didn’t regret her decision.
When her only son was going to school , she said; “ I never though a son of mine would choose useless books over the parents that have you life”(Macleod 18). It shows how the mother was putting so much pressure and guilt
‘No, sir. But I think I’m as smart as anyone else.’ ‘Are you trying to be smart now?’ ‘No, sir. I just tried to answer your question.’
Charlie’s new intelligence reveals how American society values intelligence and education. Charlie says, “I never knew before what it was like to be smart. Now that I am, I don’t like it” (Keyes, 72). This quote demonstrates how knowledge can show the inequalities and biases present in a society and culture, Charlie recognizes the pressure and expectations placed on people who get intelligence and education. Keyes uses verbal irony in this quote.
In addition, Lori once had to be paddled because “she had to punish someone” (75), this event pointed to Mom’s logic surrounding punishment, and proves that she would rather paddle her own child than paddle another
Best of the Worst Parenting is never perfect. Every parents questions whether they are raising their child correctly, and no parent ever feels like they are doing the right thing. With no clear distinction between good and bad parenting, it is usually left to personal preferences and judgements to decide which parents have adequately raised their children and which have failed. When a parent so call “fails,” often it is the children with their strong will and determination to survive that collectively raise themselves. In Jesmyn Ward’s Sing, Unburied, Sing, Leonie, one of the narrators and the mother of another narrator, Jojo, is not the most caring, hands-on mother, but is loving of her children nevertheless.
Unlike “From Childhood,” set within the home of the mother and son, this mother-son-duo is at a party. This mother is persistent in taking her son away from his surroundings and reeling him in to her—keeping an eye on him is simply not enough. Nowlan writes, “The touch of her hand embarrasses him” (Nowlan, 390). Taking the term overbearing to new extremes, the mother is not content unless her hands are physically on her son. While it is completely normal for a mother to have protective instincts and to watch over their children, the level of overbearing the mother in the poem reaches is radical.
But yet they both sometimes don’t respect their mother. Mama is a gentle women, she always has to be honest with her children. Mama is not an educated women her school closed at the second grade. ” I never had an education myself” (Walker, 316, 13).
For the parent-child interaction observation, I decided to use my community park as the public setting. My observation consisted of watching the interaction of a mother and her two sons, who seemed to be twins around the age of six or seven years old. I observed the interaction from afar without them being aware that I was observing, which allowed me to note a true naturalistic observation without manipulation of the situation. The setting of the interaction was a community park, where a mother and her two sons of Indian ethnicity, were approaching a basketball court area. The mother began to strap a helmet on one son because he was about to ride his bike, while the other son was walking alongside them holding a basketball.