Do we give kids too many trophies?
Winners should win and losers should lose. There is no middle ground in winning and losing. Kids these days are being rewarded just for going out for a sport or school activity. I agree that it’s okay to tell them good job or try again next time, but it isn’t fair to those who won the activity if those who lost are also awarded a prize. After studying whether children should be rewarded for losing, it is clear that people who think it is okay to give awards to losing teams should take a second look at the effects it has on children. Awarding losing teams has a bad effect on a person’s future and how they deal with hardships in life, it also rewards the wrong team, and it costs too much to award all
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They all deserve the right to get something for doing something. If people want their child to go out for a sport and get something in return, they can count on that, they are already winners. If kids know that they are going to be getting a winning trophy or a participating award, more kids will go out because they would be playing for something not just losing and not getting anything in return.(Zadrozny) Showing up, having a good time and socializing is winning so kids should be awarded for that. It boosts their self-esteem and appreciation for sports. Also when children lose an activity or sporting event, they get upset and not happy(Winning isn’t Everything). Giving children trophies for those who lost, make them feel good about themselves. It doesn’t make them feel like they didn’t do a good job, it makes them feel like they tried their best and got a reward for it. Lastly, all trophies don’t have to be made out of expensive equipment. Not all trophies are made out of gold, silver or the good stuff. Awards and trophies can mean the same thing just made differently. If they are made out of paper, or plastic, or ribbon it will cost less so that everybody can have an award with no
Other people are defending the claim of children should not get rewarded with a participation trophy, while Vivian Diller says in his article, Do We All Deserve Gold? " Perhaps if we offered the gold, silver, and bronze for actual achievements, kids would learn lessons that better served their needs as adults. Perhaps if we let them lose and teach them to congratulate those who win, we would help them build the motivation and endurance needed to face real-life challenges. " Having motivation for the winners to keep on trying is needed when playing a sport; In that regard, that idea is being forgotten as we give away more participation
I think that we should not hand out trophies for trying because it helps you realize that you are going to lose in life. It will teach you how to deal with losing so you don’t have to when you get older. Another benefit is that it will keep you humble. Losing will keep you humble and help you realize that you are not good at everything. Last but not least it gets you motivated.(source one)
These trophies send the message that they don’t have to work hard, they can succeed in life even when they do not put the effort into it, and that they should look to society to judge them and tell them if they are a winner at something or losers. If these are not the
A better way to acknowledge participation other than a trophy is a certificate or a ribbon .I think when a child gains a trophy they have a better sense of accomplishment and appreciation for their hard and dedication.
Life is Not Given You're in the semifinals if you win you go to the championship game, but you lost. Should you really get a trophy for trying your best, but still losing?There is a heated debate between rather kids should receive participation trophies or not. I think that kids should not receive an award for showing up. You should not be rewarded for trying at something you signed up for.
If some kids receive a trophy for winning and the others don't, then that makes kids try even harder to win the trophy next time. Knowing that someone is better than you makes you want to work harder and achieve a higher level, and if it does not make you work harder, then maybe you are playing the wrong sport. When your child wins a trophy, they will find it as a reason to not practice because they believe they are at a high enough level. If your child did not receive a trophy, they would most likely get sad, but if they truly want to win, then they will want to continue practicing and get better so that they receive a trophy. Parents that disagree with participation trophies want their children to play because they want to, not because they will get a trophy.
There has been a recent controversy on whether kids should get participation trophies. People say that they should, but others disagree. The person to start the debate was James Harrison linebacker for the Pittsburgh Steelers. He thinks kids shouldn’t get participation trophies, and I agree. I think kids need to learn why getting a trophy for showing up isn’t good.
You want to raise your kids right, right? Like letting them win something for what so claim that they don’t deserve. Like giving them a participation trophy for not working as hard as they could or just sitting on the field watching the others players play the actual game. The two sides to this debate are for participation trophies because they give them positive influence and against participation trophies because it lowers the child's self-esteem. I am against participation trophies here are my reasons.
If you join a club or team of course you will have to participate, and you should not get a trophy for it. Participation trophies are dangerous because not only do trophies overlook true achievement but it sends a dangerous message. In the article it states that, “Trophies for all convey an inaccurate and potentially dangerous life message to children:
While it is true that becoming a champion could be pressurizing to a younger child, wanting to be the best around at something is something that carries on even outside of sports, into life. We should be expecting kids to want to compete to win, not just to be participating. To be the winner of a sport will give you the mental mindset to be the best at other things later in life, such as being the best at their job, or being the best in school. One way that participation trophies could actually work is if each award was given to the child player with a purpose. The coach stating each players strength on the team as they hand them the award could give a powerful message to the children, showing them that they have control over their success.
However, coaches believe participation trophies could be worth a few bucks to bring a smile to kids' faces. No, I do not think all athletes should get a trophy just for showing up. Participation trophies give kids the wrong idea that everything in life is just given to you. If kids want a trophy they should have to work hard and earn one. While I know some kids aren't as skilled as others, it does not mean they are unable to put in an effort to earn an award.
Mrs Wooley’s AAU basketball lost the championship but still got a trophy Children should not receive participation trophies. In the passage “Participation Trophies Send a Dangerous Message” by Betty Berden she talks about why children should not get a participation award in a sport or activity. Berden explains and reasons why children should not get a participation award and we should take in consideration that children should not get a participation award.
The question people are asking is, “Are participation trophies good to give to kids?.” Getting them trophies makes them feel like they are winning something and it is showing them to work hard to achieve greatness. People have been talking about how NFL Linebacker James Harrison and his Instagram post. In the post Harrison talks about how his sons got a participation trophies from their football coaches and how he decided to give the trophies that they earned back. This is wrong, the kids should have the trophies so they can showcase what they earned in a sport that they love.
Should Children Receive Trophies Just For Participating? What are trophies? They are memorable tokens that symbolize hard work and excellence. They are symbols of winners who worked hard to try and reach their goal.
The thought going through most children 's minds is, "why try if I know I am going to get a trophy anyway." A trophy is always secured in their mind. Trophies today have a whole new meaning. They do not symbolize a victory or achievement; they are merely reminders of childhood. Betty Berdan, a junior in high school says, "When awards are handed out like candy to every child who participates, they diminish in value.