If you have a complaint, it can help you see when something is not working out or should be changed. But, when all you do is complain, that 's when things get messed up in life. There are some very good reasons to stop complaining today. Following are 5 big ones. a chihuahua complaining with a party hat on 1. You Can 't Create Change In Your Life Until You Stop Complaining What you 're supposed to do when you don 't like a thing is change it. If you can 't change it, change the way you think about it. Don 't complain. - Maya Angelou When you complain, you limit yourself. You are giving an excuse for your laziness and giving up your power to change. For example, I had a friend who used to constantly complain about her husband. He was a drunk with …show more content…
Instead of enjoying the moment, they are critical of something that they have absolutely no power over and couldn 't change even if they tried. The more they complain, the more time they waste on complete nonsense. There is no use complaining when there is nothing you can do! It does nothing. It won 't change anything. It 's just soaking up precious moments. 5. Happiness Comes When You Stop Complaining Happiness comes when you stop complaining about the problems you DO have and start being grateful for all the problems you DON 'T have. #Gratitude — HalfOurDeen (@babaali) December 18, 2017 (-- removed HTML --) If you can stop complaining for long enough, you will see that your perception towards life will start to shift and gratitude will start to take the place of all those complaints you used to have. And that 's when things will start to get really good. In fact, life won 't give you many situations to complain about! You will find yourself feeling more and more happy! If you haven 't felt happy for a while, then this will be a welcome gift! And, if you do feel happy, it will increase and life will take on a new
If you look at The Shining by Stephen King, Jack Torrance became an alcoholic in his young adult life and saw a need for it during any situation. During one night of drinking, his young son, Danny, made him mad and he then accidently broke his son’s arm because there was nothing being done about his alcoholism. That night became a defining moment in his family’s life, he continued to drink and almost lost his entire family because of his addiction. Luckily, he stopped because he was so terrified of a car ride/accident that happened one of the nights after he had been drinking with a friend, if this hadn’t happened his wife would have most likely divorced him. Every day, Jack’s wife, Wendy, looked and could not forget what he had done to their innocent son because of alcohol and his anger issues.
We all have complaints in life. So what it 's human nature to complain about why did Donald Trump this, why did Nikki Haley that, why did the other team when, why did they get the promotion at work. We all do it, not that complaining is a trait we should be proud of. However, those things don 't matter in 25 years Nikki Haley will not be governor of the great state of South Carolina and Trump will be 94 years old assuming he is still alive.
Arguably, the happier an individual is, the better the quality of their life, and the better off they are. But despite this, there are people who will even argue that lower levels of happiness are the best because you maintain the ability to progress in life and your motivation is still present. Although many people will only see two sides to this argument, there is a totally different view that provides the optimal quality of life and the most beneficial outcome in the big picture; and that is moderate happiness. Cliff Oxford’s essay “High Performance Happy” evaluates the effect that an individual’s happiness has on their beneficiality to society and how you should always strive to be the happiest you can be. Oxford’s main point is that
Positive Thinking and Conflict There are many times in one’s life where a simple positive gesture can make their day. Anne, in “The Diary of a Young Girl” by Anne Frank along with Louise Ogawa in “Dear Miss Breed” by Joanne Oppenheim, display attitudes that not only helped themselves, but gave other people hope. Though some might argue that positivity during a conflicting situation won’t help resolve anything, having a positive outlook on a negative situation can help someone solve their disagreement swiftly and efficiently. The best way someone can respond to conflict is with a positive attitude because it can be a stress reliever, give tremendous benefits to their physical health, and make others around them happier.
When it comes to our world, the real world, the one without the fiction and details, everyone can be dissatisfied. All of us, live in a society where we take for granted everything we have. A perfect example is us, the teenage community. We live our life with tons of unnecessary temper, going day by day being furious, believing the world owes everything to us. Don 't get me wrong, there 's many teenagers that appreciate everything that is done for them, but the majority don 't. We want things made our way, to our liking, and nothing else.
Also I need to find times to handle complaints patiently or else the situation gets angered and gets further complicated. 2. Are there differences in how you handle a patient, family member, or staff complaint? Yes, there is a major difference on how you handle complaints.
It is important to want to obtain true happiness instead of just having it
Lastly, I believe the last key to happiness if to look at everything in the most possible way. If you look at everything negative then you will never be truly happy and you won’t have very many people who wants to be around a Debby Downer. Being happy is a choice, as Abraham Lincoln said,” Most folks are happy as they make up their mind to be” you have every right to be happy, its just up to you to make it
So stand up and let your voice be heard because it might change
People miss the fact that happiness comes from within. In an attempt to find joy – we must also be cautious about over excessive desire to acquire material objects and wealth. There is a delicate balance that must be reached between the pursuit of happiness, satisfaction, and contentment. While there are many conditions that fulfill ones emotional wellbeing, happiness and how we acquired it, depends upon the
I believe that pursuing happiness as a goal has detrimental effects. As a society, we tend to believe that we need to be full of joy at all times, but that isn't realistic - life happens. By attempting to be cheery all the time, you will never be genuinely content. You will always be searching for more and won't be satisfied with what you have, creating a permanent cycle of gloom rather than bliss.
Not many achieve happiness in their lifetime. Either they do not live long enough to witness it or they are not prepared for what their happiness is. Happiness is very subjective. Each person’s version of happiness is different. This version of happiness is universal.
Recovering People Pleaser It took me 32 years to realize pleasing everyone is impossible. I am a recovering people pleaser. When I try to please everyone, I end up pleasing no one. On my road to recovery, I realize I have a choice to say no.
Happy people are more open and easier to approach in public. Additionally, as Susan David states, “In some cases, they even help broaden how we think and act by directing our attention to new information and opportunities” (David 124). By being happy, one is more likely to listen to other people to learn the way they think or feel about a certain thing. Someone is even more likely to accept what is said or even start to feel that way about that particular topic as well. Happiness has other benefits as well.
Do people complain too much? When nothing goes right the way you plan it, you start to think that you don’t belong in this world. Then you start to complaint and pin out all the negative stuffs that had happen in your life. You complain about the negatives in life without looking at the positives in your life.