Throughout the book Maus II by Art Spiegelman, you can see examples of father and son relationships when they are more distant towards each other and don’t talk. Other times they are closer and more comfortable around each other and more. In the book, we see that Art struggles to understand his own identity because of the horrific Holocaust story of his dad, Vladek. Art goes to a therapist to help him cope with the weight of Vladek’s stories. He describes himself as being “burned” by the guilt of not going through the Holocaust. These actions lead to weak conversations with his dad as Art struggles to meet his dad’s expectations. Another example is when Art gives a picture of Anja, who is Vladek’s dead wife to Vladek. Vladek and Art try to
When a child is born they go through the process of figuring out who they really are, as well as who they want to be. Society in many ways negatively impacts the freedom a child has whilst exploring this phase in life. It dictates what to do, and what not to do. Strong parental figures help shield young kids away from society at large and allow them to make their own decisions without any fear. Through reading the pieces “My son is Gay” and “I like to wear dresses” and Ivan Coyote we see how hatred directed towards children for just being themselves often discourages children from exploring their gender.
As a child I never understood why dad was always so angry. Whether it was him becoming enraged over tiny things, such as hearing the noise a ball makes when it bounces, or not being able to drive with cars behind him. As a seven-year-old living on Mannheim Army Base, Germany in a small apartment with my mom, brother, and dad, I could not comprehend what was wrong. When my dad walked in the door at night after a long day of work he was not happy to see his family. He never played with us, or helped with our homework.
In the memoir Night by Elie Wiesel, he talks about his life alongside his father during the holocaust. As he and his father are separated from the rest of their family and forced to jump from camp to camp we see the harsh treatment put on to them from the SS soldiers in charge of the camp(s). The book surrounds father and son relationships greatly as well as highlighting the danger of indifference and of course the holocaust. We can see that through this novel the purpose is to bring awareness to the horrors of the holocaust and how in the end the indifference of the SS soldiers as well as that of the Jews in the camps was more dangerous than Hitler himself. Very early on in the camps the SS soldiers had begun to force the Jews to take the side of indifference towards one another.
Maus also shows a strong family connection but more with husband and wife as opposed to father and son since Art did not experience WWII. Vladek and Anja were able to stay together for the majority of
I was expected to comfort him!” (92) Even throughout the book they slowly grew closer, at the end, Artie grew extremely upset with his father. Artie’s father had burned Artie’s mothers diaries, all of her memories. Artie would call his father a murderer for killling all remaning traces and anything left of his mother. To Artie, his mothers voice was forever silences, all her experiences in trauma erased from history.
At the end of the novel, Artie calls his father a murderer due to the fact that his father had burned Anja’s diaries—the ones which had offered the recounting of her life and experiences throughout the Holocaust and WWII. While accusing his own father of being a murder, Artie’s claims are certainly justified to a certain extent. This is due to the fact that, in a sense, by burning her memoirs and the only accurate account of her life, Vladek essentially “murdered” Anja by destroying the only objects that served as a representation of her existence. According to Vladek, Anja once stated, “I wish my son, when he grows up, he will be interested by this” (Spiegelman 159), and since Anja had unfortunately passed away, the diaries were all that were left to be passed on to Artie. However, Vladek decided to burn them despite Anja’s wishes, thus “murdering” her by erasing the only remnants that were able to convey her story.
However, once they both placed within a Nazi death camp, the two become inseparable. Nevertheless, throughout the novel, the bond formed as father and son that begins as a necessity for comfort slowly becomes a burden as
Another father-son relationship that was affected was between inmates that were on the train. Everyone was starving on this train, so each piece of food was very important, and because of this people were willing to do anything for it: “Don’t you recognize me… you’re killing your father”(Wiesel 101). The father had a piece of bread in his hand, so the son was willing to do anything for it, even kill his own father. This would have never happened if they weren’t that dehumanized in the camp. Killing your own father and feeling relief when your father dies just shows how long they haven’t been treated as humans and how this affected their relationships with
However, with the number of loved ones lost, countless exhausting days, and violent, degrading camps, there is bound to be a connection between both the survivors and the victims of the mass execution. Families, especially, may find a way to relate to one another. In both Night and “Life is Beautiful,” both fathers have unique personalities and love languages, and each son displays a gap in maturity and understanding of their reality. Even considering each individual trait, the four still demonstrate a correlation in their behaviors. Shlomo and Guido may seem worlds apart in terms of parenting styles, but they shared a thoughtfulness for their sons.
The Father-Son Relationship For both McCandless and Krakauer, the combination of trying to please a difficult-to-please father, resenting authority, and discovering their fathers’ own great failings leads to an almost insurmountable rift. Krakauer was able to forgive his father only once he was no longer the same man. McCandless died before he had the opportunity to grow out of his anger.
In the novel Last of the Mohicans, there are many varying examples of both father daughter relationships, and father son relationships. One example of the father daughter relationship is that between Colonel Munro and his daughters. An example of the father son relationship is the bond shared by Chingachgook and his son Uncas. These are the main examples of each respective relationship in the novel. In both relationships the reader can see the varying degrees of parental interaction that these men have with their children.
Additionally, the way the two stories are narrated and dep Villa 2 Artie’s father Vladek was not a nice man, quite the contrary in fact. He was controlling, mean and blunt to his own son. One of the times when Artie went to his father’s house to have dinner, he hung his coat in the coat room and when Atrie was not there, Vladek threw it in the trash can just because he did not like it. Instead, he gave him a new one that he did approve of. Artie does not have too many feelings for his father because of the way Vladek treats him.
Most of the times that he wants to speak to his son peacefully something that Artie does has to bother him because during the Holocaust he had to be conservative with everything he used. One example that Artin and Vladkek’s relationship is bad because of the communication that they have because they have not been together and talked to each other in 2 years. With Mala, it’s even worse,he doesn’t support her and she doesen’t support him because they never communicate and more importantly they don’t have a meaningful relationship with her.
From beginning to end, the son calls his father “Baba” to show his affection and admiration. Despite the father’s inability to come up with a new story, the son still looks up to him. This affectionate term also contrasts with the father’s vision of the “boy packing his shirts [and] looking for his keys,” which accentuates the undying love between the father and son (15 & 16) . The father’s emotional “screams” also emphasize his fear of disappointing the son he loves so much (17). Despite the father’s agonizing visions, the son remains patient and continues to ask for a story, and their relationship remains “emotional” and “earthly”--nothing has changed (20-21).
Throughout Maus, Vladek is telling his son Artie about how he survived the Holocaust. He explained to Artie that before the war, life was good for him and his family. He tells him everything about his experience during the war as well, from the relationship he had with his family and Anja, to his friendships with both gentiles and Jews, to things he might of found or kept throughout the war. However now, a few decades after the war, Vladek’s lifestyle has changed drastically from during the war, and even from before the war. Vladek’s friendships, relationships, and everyday life has changed due to the Holocaust and WWII.