And in the end, Amir brings Sohrab to America with him. The most important themes were: ● Forgiveness- Despite knowing what Amir did, Hassan still forgave him. But through the entire novel, Amir couldn’t learn about the nature of forgiving. ● Betrayal- Hassan thought Amir loved him. Maybe he did in his own way.
“Life has a funny way of working out just when you start to believe it never will.” This is a quote I found on Pinterest, but I’ve already experienced this feeling. The bad things that happen do get better; even if it takes time, I know it because I thought it wouldn’t but it did. My experience with bad times made me feel extremely bad, but I have people in my life that have given me their help to become a stronger person. I’ll try to explain how I emotionally overcame my hard times. First, I’m going to tell you a story.
In the beginning of the novel, Baba was seen as a hero and a courageous person because he was always helping others and lived by his own moral code, but once his secret was out and Amir realizes that Baba was filled with remorse, Amir saw him differently. To Amir, his childhood seemed like a lie but at the same time, made more sense. An example from the novel is in chapter 18, when Amir says; “How could I have been so blind? The signs had been there for me to see all along [...] I remembered the day we were planting tulips, when I had asked Baba if he’d ever consider getting new servants. Hassan’s not going anywhere, he’d barked.
Despite their obvious differences, they are closely bound by their friendship based on trust. If there 's someone he would entrust his life with, that would be his two best friends. Although at one point, he hated the idea of them risking their lives for him but that just shows how much he truly cares for them. The story might be basically about love and friendship, but it is also rife with literary deaths. Rachel Blum Spencer identified in her article Harry Potter and Running from Death how our instinct for survival is similar to the book 's darkest wizard, Lord Voldemort 's journey in conquering death.
They will never do anything to intentionally hurt you and are the ones who look out for you. They are almost considered family and they carry meaningful qualities. They are very important to us and since we share personal information with them, they know a lot of our profound secrets. They protect us in a way no other friend ever could. For example, they will tell us how things are, not to make us feel bad, but to support us and to make sure we are not doing anything that could potentially hurt us in the long run.
The process involves one friend pulling back in ways that are not always obvious, such as failing to defend the other friend from insults or fight, according to Brene Brown in the book “Daring greatly’: “How the courage to be vulnerable transforms the way we live, love and lead”. If one of you think that things can’t get back to normal or one can’t forgive then you have to find ways to move on just like now Amir tried to flee to USA with Baba. One can learn a lesson from this and allow to grieve the good memories one had and his friend, relying on other friends, or family for the support. Once you get betrayed, its not likely that one will start talking to the betrayer once again and start trusting them like you did earlier. Therefore the trust can be lost and can’t be won once again.
A true friend is someone who is always there for a friend no matter what the circumstances are and does not look for anything in return. A true friend can be best described as someone who is always willing to help their friend and will even sacrifice their own things to help out. A true friend is someone who can always be counted on. If a person has a true friend then he or she knows that their friend will always be there for them; it does not matter what time of day or night it is. A true friend is also trustworthy.
One of the further development of Harry Potter’s character can be seen when Tom Riddle’s diary goes missing. Harry decides that he and his close friend Ron are to talk with Hagrid about the circumstance, although Harry doesn 't believe that its Hagrid. I think, this is a significant scene because generally Harry doesn 't do bad things and breaks the rules. Harry has never a problem to grab what is right or wrong. However, sometimes he breaks the rules to achieve his purposes when the issue is about his friends, beloved ones and even Hogwarts.
At first he thinks that there is no harm in envying your best friend. That is until he realizes that jealousy is not an easy thing to handle and sometimes, it can be the biggest harm in a friendship. Gene’s jealousy starts off with a tiny bit of envy and gradually moves on to making him want to get rid of his own identity. In the end, Gene has to face the consequences of jealousy between him and Finny. To start off, Gene is not aware of the amount of effort he puts into his relationship in order to be friends with Finny.
Memories with your love one is very important so as long as you can, you express your feelings, love and dedication to them. I therefore that “Love is blind”. Love is you love your person with no reasons and you can’t explain it. I’m very touched and emotional to the part on how they become happy, by loving their weaknesses and trust to each other. In a relationship, no matter what happen you will do your best just to protect your love one.