Whether you've been in a relationship or not you know that love is complicated. Love can make you feel like you're on top of the world, but in those times where you're just not sure how you feel it can be so confusing. The Great Gatsby demonstrates this perfectly by displaying multiple love relationships with those confusing moments. Love is very confusing. You can feel like you’re at the peak of your life,and then you can also feel like you’re at an all time low.
In The Great Gatsby, Fitzgerald proves love can be very confusing by showing us Daisy and Tom’s relationship. Tom leaves to go see his side piece in New York. “‘Hello, Wilson, old…around the garage.”. (Fitzgerald ). Tom claims he loves Daisy the whole book, but yet he cheats on her. Tom even has the nerve to get jealous when Daisy talks about Gatsby like he isn't doing something much worse. Tom also selfishly breaks apart Wilson and Myrtle, he puts on this nice guy act with Wilson while he’s slowly destroying his life. But Tom apparently still loves Daisy.
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Gatsby and Tom are going at it about who Daisy truly loves. “Oh, you want…physically into Gatsby.” (Fitzgerald 132). It seems like Daisy is confused, she doesn't know what she truly wants. She loves Tom and Gatsby just as much, but it's difficult to choose one person when you love both so intensely. So many loving memories can't just be let go. Daisy cant leave Tom behind for a love that was lost long ago. Gatsby’s obsession blinds him, he goes into these fits of craziness when things with Daisy don't play out as he
‘I did love him once[Tom]-- but I loved you too. ’”(Fitzgerald 132) Daisy’s indecisiveness reveals that she will remain with Tom, regardless of her prior commitments. Gatsby had thrived off the idea of Daisy never being in love with Tom, by stating that she had loved the both of them solidified the idea that she opposed Gatsby’s main intent: her absolute and individual
She informed Gatsby that she loves him, but can’t help what happened in the past because she had loved Tom as well. Gatsby was shocked because this has been his true love and Daisy can’t even decide between himself or Tom. It also show how Daisy’s love for him isn’t as extreme as Gatsby’s for
It’s not like Daisy never loved Tom. She did. She just loved Gatsby more. But sadly no one had heard from Gatsby for weeks. Because of that she married Tom.
Gatsby takes it so far as to force Daisy to “tell [Tom] the truth—that you never loved him—and it’s all wiped out forever” (132). Gatsby desperately wants to return to the past where Daisy only loved him. In retaliation, Tom says “Why—there’re things between Daisy and me that you’ll never know, things that neither of us can ever forget” (132). Although the cause of this argument seems to involve Tom and Gatsby fighting over a woman they both love, Fitzgerald uses this argument as a representation of the potentially milder consequences of the stigma of divorce. Daisy knows about Tom’s affair with Myrtle Wilson but has no choice but to remain in the marriage, as divorcing Tom would ruin her image.
“‘Even that’s a lie,’ said Tom savagely. She didn’t know you were alive. Why- there’re things between Daisy and me that you’ll never know, things that neither of us can ever forget.” (Fitzgerald 132). Even when Tom knows that Daisy is cheating on him with Jay Gatsby, he contends his marriage and fights for her.
Love is an intense feeling of deep affection. In the Great Gatsby, true love seems as if it is a prevalent theme. As readers take a closer look, however, we are able to uncover that all this love, these characters long for, is unrealistic and a fantasy. Throughout the book F. Scott Fitzgerald uses the relationships of Daisy, Tom, Jay, and the rest of the characters to help readers understand the significance behind what others refer to as true love. Fitzgerald sets his story in the 1920s, an era of excessive entertainment, prosperity, and greed.
He wants Gatsby’s life but doesn’t want to admit it. Tom was jealous of Gatsby because he had Daisy and then Gatsby stole her from him. “ “Your wife doesn’t love you,” said Gatsby. “She’s never loved you. She loves me.”
When Gatsby confronts Daisy about her love for him, Daisy is unable to deny that she didn’t love Tom. She quotes that she “loved [him] now—isn't that enough? I can't help what's past,” (132). Her love for Gatsby causes her to act without thinking. She doesn’t care who she hurts.
Within the novel, Tom chooses worldly desires over his relationship with his wife. Instead of being a loyal husband to daisy, Tom takes part in an affair with another woman. This claim is supported when Tom says to Nick “I want you to meet my girl.” ( Fitzgerald 24) Tom says in front of Gatsby, Jordan, Nick, and Daisy “ Once in a while I go off on a spree and make a fool of myself, but I always come back, and in my heart, I love her all the time.”
Gatsby is constantly trying to revive his past relationship with Daisy, which ends up taking him away from reality. Gatsby’s obsession with living in the past and daydreaming about Daisy shows when he is talking to Tom and mentions that, “Your wife doesn’t love you … she’s never loved you. She loves me” (Fitzgerald 130). Gatsby needs Daisy to tell Tom that she never loved him so they can make up for the past time they lost together. Later, finding out the true reason “Gatsby bought that [mansion is] so that Daisy would be just across the bay” (Fitzgerald 78).
This obsession is seen when Gatsby wants to erase the past that Daisy had lived and start over with him as if nothing had happened, “He wanted nothing less of Daisy than to go to Tom and say: 'I never loved you.”. Additionally, it is also demonstrated how Daisy is incorporated into Gatsby's perception “If only it'd been enough for Gatsby just to hold Daisy. But he had a grand vision for his life and Daisy's part in it '' Nick describes how Gatsby is not satisfied with his relationship with Daisy and he wants her to quit her current life and just be with him to fulfill the perception he has created. Gatsby may have loved Daisy but she had a bigger part in his dream.
(99) In this moment, Gatsby makes it clear to Daisy that he could easily provide her with the same lifestyle she shares with Tom. Once Gatsby captures Daisy’s affection, he becomes full of greed and doesn’t want to believe she ever gave any of her love to Tom. “He wanted nothing less of Daisy than that she should go to Tom and say: ‘I never loved you.’” (118) When Daisy states “‘Even alone I can’t say I never loved Tom,’ (142), Gatsby begins to feel a “touch of panic” (142). All of his parties, stories, and entire persona were all fabricated to win Daisy back.
Throughout the novel, Gatsby never comes to terms with Daisy marrying Tom. He believes that he is Daisy’s only love interest, despite her being married. Tom and Gatsby start to quarrel over who Daisy truly loves and Gatsby believes “[she] doesn’t love [him]. . . she’s never loved [him], she loves me” (Fitzgerald 81). When Gatsby says that Daisy has “never loved” Tom, he implies that Daisy’s marriage to Tom was not based out of love, but rather to
In the book The Great Gatsby by Scott Fitzgerald portrays and image of love versus infatuation. The relationships between the characters shows the struggle of an emotional connection in a world driven by societal pressures and money. Gatsby’s and Daisy’s relationship with each other is intertwined with each other’s love and lust, and is complicated with their other relationships, such as Daisy’s and Tom’s marriage. Gatsby is the “fool” in love throughout this whole endeavor and his week with Daisy, because of his constant search for love to fill the void in his life that no amount of success can. Gatsby’s complete infatuation with Daisy started out with them meeting five years back, and surfaced into a love affair.
“And what's more, I love Daisy too. Once in a while I go off on a spree and make a fool of myself, but I always come back, and in my heart I love her all the time” (Fitzgerald 138). These words, spoken by Tom Buchanan in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s classic novel The Great Gatsby, exemplify the personality traits that are omnipresent throughout the novel. Tom is Daisy Buchanan’s husband whom she marries after her first love, Jay Gatsby, leaves for the war.