The novel, The great gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald explores the theme of obsession. In this novel Fitzerald wants us to understand that it's not healthy to be obsessed with something or someone because it only leads to negative consequences. The author wants us to understand that One example is Gatsby loves Daisy more than he loves himself which causes him to stay with her knowing she isn’t going to leave Tom.``And what's more, I love Daisy too. Once in a while, I make a fool out of myself but I always come back and in my heart, I love her all the time.” This quote shows that Gatsby knows Daisy won’t leave Tom and this upsets him which makes him upset and makes him argue with daisy. But in the end, Gatsby still stays in this relationship. This proves that Gatsby loves Daisy more than he loves and …show more content…
For example, Daisy knew how obsessed and in love, Gatsby was with her but she just used him for her own benefit and problems. Daisy used Gatsby to make Tom mad and get revenge despite Gatsby genuinely caring about daisy. This gives me the conclusion that n matter how good your intentions are, or how much you work and obsess over something there are always negative consequences. Being obsessed with Daisy made Gatsby miserable because he knew in his heart Daisy never loved him the same. In the end, he was murdered and arrested for something he did not do. Gatsby practically spent his entire life trying to be wealthy and have Daisy but at the end of the day, Daisy didn't love him and his riches were only being used by other people. When Gatsby dies nobody but nick and gatsby's father showed up at his funeral. In conclusion, the great gatsby was trying to tell us there are always negative consequences just as much as it is good it is
Another factor contributing to the struggle of Both Holden and Gatsby is their obsession with an immature ideal they hold for the future. This obsession is identified in the concluding words of the novel, The Great Gatsby. Nick Caraway writes, “Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that’s no matter—tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther. . . . And then one fine morning—
Jennifer Alfaro Ms. Shoopman English 3 April 3, 2023 Idealization and Obsession “What happens to a dream deferred?” a question and a poem by Langston Hughes. It is a vague question that relates to the vague morals and goals of the characters in The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald. Dreams are a central point in the novel, it is what motivates Gatsby to rise in social status and his need to be with Daisy Buchanan. Fitzgerald uses the obsessive characteristic of Gatsby with Daisy and the harsh social societal climate of the time to show the inner and outward destructive effects of dreams.
Obsession, wealth, lust, and murder. These are just four of the many themes in the unfortunate story of The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald. The Great Gatsby is the tale of a man's obsession with his former love and the length he goes to to try and get her back, even though she is married to another man. Out of all the myriad themes in this tale, two of the most important are wealth and obsession, which work together to prove that once people become wealthy, it is too easy for them to become obsessed with the lifestyle it provides.
Gatsby’s Obsessive and Compulsive Spirit In life, everyone develops the human nature of obsession no matter how large or minute it is. Obsession could be over something like an object or item, a dream, a philosophy, or even someone meaningful. Jay Gatsby finds himself in a parallel situation when pursuing the love of his life, Daisy Buchanan. The psychological lens is apparent in this book because it focuses on the motivation of certain characters.
Obsession is its own form of poison, slowly edging its way in and overtaking your senses until everything is clouded by it. Gatsby experienced this as his obsession with his fantasy ultimately overtook everything else in his life, and when the object of his obsession was gone he was left with a shell of a life, dull and empty without it. However, it becomes apparent that Gatsby didn’t truly start living in a more tragic, shallow way only after Daisy was gone. He already was living that way, but his obsession with the fantasy constructed by his own conscious clouded his vision, providing a romanticized lens to all that he experienced in his lifetime.
Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines obsession as “a persistent disturbing preoccupation with an often unreasonable idea or feeling broadly: compelling motivation” (“Obsession” def1). One crucial example of obsession is presented when Gatsby finally claims Daisy's heart but loses part of his own. Gatsby’s realization of the impending dissipation of his individuality and life purpose is highlighted when Nick comments, “He knew that when he kissed this girl, and forever wed his unutterable visions to her perishable breath, his mind would never romp again like the mind of God” (Fitzgerald 110). Here, Gatsby realizes the extent of his obsession and how its success will ultimately result in Daisy occupying his entire being, leaving nothing for him to yearn for. This is detrimental to Gatsby since claiming Daisy is his sole aspiration in life.
However, as the story progresses, he begins to realize that his image of Daisy is not entirely accurate, and that their relationship cannot be the same as it was before. In chapter seven Tom and Gatsby get into an argument over Daisy. Gatsby begins to claim that Daisy never loved Tom, but everyone in the room knew that was not true. During the argument Daisy says, “Oh, you want too much! I love you now-isn’t that enough?
His dependence on Daisy’s validation blinds him to the flaws of Daisy’s careless, self-absorbed character. Gatsby’s desire for validation stems from the belief that his fictitious backstory, filled with wealth and status will tempt Daisy. Gatsby’s unawareness of Daisy’s lack of character is similar to Finny’s inability to see Gene desperately clinging to him for emotional guidance. Regarding these two examples, it is vital to recognize that codependency only exists when one party in a codependent relationship is oblivious to the other’s lack of identity without them. Daisy’s obsession with Gatsby’s wealth influences his increasing dependence on growing his wealth to constantly engage Daisy, and not his character as he has become entirely unaware of Daisy’s placed importance on materialistic values rather than taking an interest in Gatsby’s personality, “It had gone beyond her, beyond everything.
Gatsby pressures Daisy into telling Tom, her husband, that she has never loved him and that she is in love with Gatsby. Daisy reacts to this by feeling overwhelmed, she sees Gatsby as a man that is trying to use her and break up her marriage. Once she sees an argument brewing between Tom and Gatsby, she states ¨Even alone I can't say I never loved Tom, -- it wouldn't be true.¨ (Fitzgerald
However, in chapter 7, during the confrontation, Daisy quickly rethinks her decisions and states, ‘I did love him once – but I loved you too’. As Gatsby hopes and expectations of them being together breaks the audience starts to comprehend that Daisy contradicting statements is purely because she is afraid to leave Tom. Tom came from a wealthy family and was highly respected in society. Daisy knew that life with him would be luxiourous and entirely satisfactory in terms of respect and wealth. In addition, the author is trying to convey to the audience that Daisy is too secure in her marriage with Tom to even consider leaving it.
How can obsession with the past affect someones way of thinking? Jay Gatsby from “The Great Gatsby” is a wonderful example of building a life based on the past. Jay Gatsby is a wealthy self-made millionare who rose from poverty. He known for extravagant parties at his mansion located on West Egg, the new money part of Long island. Jay Gatsby has revolved his whole life around Daisy Buchanan, Nick Carraway’s cousin.
Greed and love, in most cases go hand in hand. People will sometimes become jealous when a loved one show affection or chooses someone else over themselves. This in many cases can drive a person to horrible or outrageous things this fact is one of the main parts in the novel The Great Gatsby. This can be summed up by one sentence and used as a theme statement and that sentence is “sometimes people will do anything to get what they want. Daisy is a prime example of how sometimes people will do anything to get what they want.
In the novel “The Great Gatsby” by F. Scott Fitzgerald, what Jay Gatsby feels for Daisy Buchanan is obsession. Gatsby revolves and rearranges his entire life in order to gain her affections. Gatsby’s obsession with Daisy resulted in him buying a mansion across the lake from her, throwing huge parties, and spending years of his life trying to become rich. Gatsby bought mansion intentionally across the lake from Daisy just to be closer to her.
Jay 's Obsession in The Great Gatsby There is a fine line between love and lust. If love is only a will to possess, it is not love. To love someone is to hold them dear to one 's heart. In The Great Gatsby, the characters, Jay Gatsby and Daisy Buchanan are said to be in love, but in reality, this seems to be a misconception.
They both love Daisy in their own way and do not want to lose her. Gatsby states, “Both of us loved each other all that time” (Fitzgerald 138). Gatsby wants Daisy to tell Tom she never loved him so that they can be together, but she cannot because it would not be true. Daisy says to Gatsby, “I did love him once-but I loved you too”(Fitzgerald 140). Daisy used to love both of them but chooses Tom because she is used to life with Tom and does not change.