Have you ever been going through a terrible time in your life and just felt like giving up? How did you overcome this rough patch? For most people, the answer is that they stayed resilient and kept their head up with faith. Resilience is extremely important in an individual's life. An example of resilience can be shown in "The Cellist of Sarajevo" by Steven Galloway. Kenan is a fairly young man with a wife, and 3 kids. Kenan and his family reside in Sarajevo, a once vibrant town, torn apart by a civil war. Kenan witnesses tragedies and loss during this time, and has to show resilience. Kenan always has cowardly and fearful thoughts which end up making things worse for him, but he puts those thoughts away later in the novel and stays resilient …show more content…
While Kenan is filling the jugs up, he is caught in the middle of a shelling. Kenan himself is barely hurt, but around him, he sees many people severely injured, or dead. He wants to help, but his body is frozen in one spot. He sees people crying out for help, running, looking for loved ones, but Kenan cannot move a limb. In his heart, Kenan wants to help people out, but in his brain, he knows how risky it is, so he stays still. This contributes to Kenan thinking he is a coward. Kenan thinks about how his children were asking to tag along to the canteen. If his children had tagged along, they would have been put in grave danger, and Kenan would have never been able to live with himself. This ignites something inside Kenan which Kenan hasn't felt before. For the first time instead of being sad or scared of the war, he is angry. He is angry that he can't take his kids out of the home for some fun. He is mad that all these innocent people are losing their lives, and he is mad at himself for being scared after the shelling, when there are men like Ismet who on the front lines fighting to keep the town safe. Kenan wanted to go back to the canteen and help an old man who was looking for his dog, but he does not have the energy, so he heads on his way …show more content…
When on the bridge, he hurts himself and becomes enraged. He leaves Mrs. Ristovski's jugs in their hiding spot and heads home. He is tired and done dealing with Mrs. Ristovski's nagging and complaining, even after all he does for her. On his way home, Kenan happens to run into Ismet again. Kenan tells Ismet what happened, and he convinces Kenan to come to the market with him to take his mind off things. Kenan agrees and accompanies Ismet to the market. While at the market, Kenan hears the sound of an instrument, and is led to the Cellist. Kenan listens to the sound of the Cello, and his mind is cleared. He is no longer enraged at Mrs. Ristovski, the men on the hill, or the shelling. Kenan feels at ease for the first time in a very long time. Kenan realizes that Sarajevo is going through a terrible time right now, but it won't be forever. If everyone comes together as a community, things will get better for the people of Sarajevo. Kenan goes back and gets Mrs. Ristovski's water jugs and makes his way home. Although Kenan was tired of everything and everyone, he stayed resilient at the end and came through on his promise of delivering filled water jugs to Mrs.
When they feel lost and deal with the traumas that come with fighting in the war, he quickly engages himself with their troubles and conducts a free therapy session by lending an ear, and checking in on them regularly while fighting in the war at the same time. For example, when Tim killed the young Vietnamese soldier during the war, he started to contemplate about the life that the fallen soldier could have had if it wasn’t for Tim taking his life. While the other soldiers carried on with their lives, Kiowa was the only one who stayed back and said to Tim, “It wasn’t you man. It wasn’t you.” (O’ Brien 145).
Throughout the entire novel Tim O’brien depicts how each of his fellow platoon members are controlled by their subconscious mind. In this specific chapter, through O’brien’s use of imagery, we are allowed to see how traumatizing and brain picking the realities of war actually is. Rat Kiley, the protagonist of this chapter, has finally had too much, from witnessing people die at war to being placed in the darkness, and he’s reached his breaking point. Everyone knew that Rat was losing his mind and, “it was a sad thing to watch” (221). It was sad because they were aware of the reason behind his actions, which was the war itself, but it was also sad because his fellow troops knew there was nothing that they could do to help him and that they were just as susceptible to falling into the same madness that captured Rat Kiley.
There are so many countries in the world that face many hardships. In the book “A Long Walk to Water” by Linda Sue Park, a character faces many obstacles while living in Southern Sudan. These hardships include family loss, water issues, and ongoing war. Salva faced a lot of hardships, but family loss sticks out because he is only eleven and he has never been without them for a period of time like this. For example, A Long Walk to Water states, “As Salva walked, the same thoughts kept going through his head in rhythm with his steps.
The narrator felt responsible for K.’s actions, even though he could not have influenced him to come behind the breakwall for protection. “They are family members, their own children, of sorts, who have been entrusted to them. To fall short of unconditional care is experienced as a kind of perfidy, a failure to be faithful” (Sherman 155). This is how the narrator felt, as though K. was like another brother to him, and because K. was so frail, he thought that it was his duty to always watch out for K. Soldiers who have high rankings often feel this way, as though the ones below them they must salvage. The narrator had a sense of parenting, to make sure that K. was always cared
To begin with, Kenan remains hopeful by taking on the role of a provider for his family, staying optimistic in the face of pessimism, but eventually loses his hope after a near death experience. First of all, Kenan’s need to care for his family gives him strength to overcome his anxieties. Before Kenan goes out to fetch water from the brewery, he reflects how exhausted and afraid he is to go outside and face the horrors of the war, until he reminds himself “If he doesn’t return home today he
There are two phases to Kiley’s reaction: torturing a baby water buffalo and writing a letter to Lemon’s sister. The former conveys loss’ ability to corrode a victim’s mind, while the latter reveals a barrier between the soldiers and regular members of society. By
Many people believe that resilience is only about survival with strength, but really resilience can be surviving through any means. In the story, "Unbroken" a man named Louis Zamperini and his friends crashed a ship during World War II. After the crash, Louis, and two others by the name of Mac and Phil survive and must use resilience to survive in the ocean and to get back. Louis Zamperini's most essential characteristic of resilience however is strong problem-solving skills, with him being able to fix most problems they come in contact with and with the other two being the opposite and needing their problems fixed.
Resilience in The Break The Break is a novel that has constant conflicts and issues occuring, from mental health issues to addictions and death to gangs, there is always conflict. Many of the characters find a way to deal with this conflict with various skills, one of the most occurring is their quality of resilience. Laura Vermette demonstrates all the seven C’s of resilience - competence, confidence, connection, character, contribution, coping and control - in her book, The Break, through different characters and situations while showing how individuals would be unable to survive and grow without resilience.
Paul visits Kemmerich’s mom who is dying of cancer and tells her that her son’s death was instant and painless. His mother lost a son who was still young and had the potential to have a future. The soldiers that Kemmerich was friends with have to go through his death and think about the loss they just went through. They had lost hope of any future for themselves and excepted death at a young age. The most impactful cause
“None of this matters to Kenan anymore. He stares at the cellist, and feels himself relax as the music seeps into him,” he feels as through the music becomes one with him. Kenan is inspired by the cellist's song, so much so that as he listens, he sees his broken and war-torn city rebuild itself. The music affected Kenan so much that he now has hope his city can be saved and restored to what it once was. Kenan, who was once stuck in the past, has now been shown the reality, and he is willing to work past it.
She tries to imagine how it would feel to live in a house with electricity with a family, which you would lock when you leave. Her thoughts help to support the message that humanity desires returning to civilization. Kirsten desperately wants the world to go back to the way it once was, and to experience what her old life would have been like. On the other hand, not unlike many other people who have suffered through traumatic times, many of the survivors old
In the midst of all of this he finds a balance by focusing on what really matters. At the same time this keeps him focused on his main goal which is education. Education will be his family's way out of poverty. Through seeing his younger brother that is unemployed and will be having a child soon he looks beyond this and is genuinely proud of where he comes from. He realizes how strong his family is when he seems them fighting through poverty and making things.
Krebs life is forever changed. He needs to move on but has a difficult time doing so. He lives in his childhood home when he returns home. Krebs battles a sort of depression, staying in bed often, never going out, and just being detached. At one point when asked by his mother if he loves her he says no.
What does resilience really mean to you? The literal definition to resilience is the ability to cope with problems and setbacks. In the story Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand, she shows us all different kind of ways that the characters in her story used the skills that Kendra Cherry was talking about, to help them out of every situation. In this story it shows how certain situations affect people in different ways and how each person goes through seven skills. The characteristic that Louie undergoes is the skill of Strong Problem-Solving.
Hemingway uses the story to painfully highlight the internal conflict that leaves an individual veteran like Krebs questioning his peculiar heroic status after fighting in the war. The protagonist of the short story, Krebs, is drafted by the state into the U.S. Army fighting in Rhineland having been uprooted from his home. The character traits of Krebs can be defined as rebellious, detached, and stressful. The creation of the character Krebs has been the epitome in the realization of the devastating