Life, Sadness, and Recovery
In the year of nineteen forty-nine, I experienced the saddest time of my life. I did not even know it at the time but my father had a stroke in May. He had been taken to the hospital. We later found out, that he had passed away. I could not believe it. After we got the news, we sat around in silence. One of our neighbours visited our house. Together, my siblings and I sat with her in our front room. She said that we should express our sorrow and let go of our emotions. This brought us to tears at our father’s loss. My father’s body was brought into the house. I was stopped when I was being led to the room to see his body. Someone thought that it would not be suitable, for the younger me, to look at my father in his state of death. The body was then taken out of the house and cremated. The loss of my father left behind a void in my life. I never talked about it with anyone. I do remember one day though; my mother was bringing in some clean clothes from the clothes-line. I don’t know why but I asked her whose clothes she was carrying. She told me that they were my father’s clothes. I grabbed them close to me and hugged them. I didn’t speak of my feelings about
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I remember being called in to bless and give my goodwill to the new-born baby. That baby boy, later became great form of entertainment for us. I tried to keep him with me and away from others. Sometimes, we would end up pulling him in opposite directions. We loved having a baby in the family. When we were young, most of us had experienced the Chickenpox illness. Additionally, I was also hit by the disease of Smallpox. I remember lying on some leaves on a stretcher bed, without clothing, and painful spots appearing on my body. I somehow managed to recover and had to refrain from touching the spots. After that incident, my body was never to be troubled by Smallpox
Sorrow is an emotion that every family stumbles upon, whether it is death of a loved one or an absence of money. No matter the immensity of the sadness caused by these things, however, family is a wall there to hold you up. When terrible things happen, it is normal to want to break down and grieve. A family’s job is to stand by, pick up the pieces and make sure that you are able to move on. It may be tough but “anybody can break down”, (Steinbeck 193) and a family will be there to pull you through.
For the next few days, I kept on thinking what would happen to her and what my cousins would think about this. When my mom and I went to the hospital to visit my aunt, she looked exactly the same as when I last saw her, only in a hospital bed this time. As soon as we walked into her room, she started saying how bland the food was and how boring it was which was ironic because she worked at a hospital herself.
My family was murdered and, I became lonely. My father works a lot, so I never get to see him unless it’s a special occasion.” “You must talk about this a lot.” “What makes you say that? I’ve never talked about this before.”
The transition from eighth grade to ninth grade is one of the most difficult but unforgettable things a student must do in his adolescence. For me, it was filled with new opportunities of taking Ap classes and joining clubs. One of these cubs was Youth and Government (Y&G). For as long as I can remember my brother, Riad, has boasted about how amazing Y&G is and how it has changed his life. My brother is three years older then me, so as a freshman he was a senior in Y&G.
I was out of the building just as it was about to collapse. My dad, My dad’s best friend, and the firefighter were not out of the tower. A paramedic came over to me and carried me over to the ambulance to check me out. My wrist was broken but I didn’t care because all I could think about was my dad, my dad’s best friend, and the fireman that didn’t make it out with me and the others. I saw my mom and ran to her and she was in tears and heartbroken like me.
I’ve gone through hardships and trying to keep my own family together. Someone very dear to my family has passed on and it was one of the most horrible things i’ve experienced as a young child myself. I was 12 too when i’ve experience loss, at the time I couldn’t cope I was in denial and agony. But eventually I had to learn to grow up and accept what has happened and help my family in the process.
It was a taciturn gloomy morning, the year of 1862. The 12th of September. At the end of it, I might be with my family again or buried someplace underground. It was my time to go into battle as soon as I finish saying goodbye to my loved ones. The tears slid down my wife’s face and my daughters lingered into their mother’s arms to cover their dripping faces.
By constructing lists of people, foods, books, and musicians that bring him happiness, Junior finds a unique way to grieve for his losses. He reflects, “I keep writing and rewriting, drawing and redrawing, and rethinking and revising and reediting. It became my grieving ceremony” (Alexie 178). Junior’s ceremony forms hope out of a bitter misery surrounding him. In this adaptation, Junior confronts sorrow with the positivity of his disposition and strength of his character.
Max Miller Nelson English III 11 May 2023 Beyond Tears The Protagonist Stanion’s journey through grief and heart break gives the reader a clear understanding of the human experience of grief. The story is about a father who is trying to parent his kids without his wife who died. In Larry Woiwode’s short story “The Beginning of Grief,” the theme of living with grief is is demonstrated through the setting along with Stanion, Kevin, and Jim.
My brother eventually got smallpox since he was around us. We had to stay in isolation, so we didn’t get anybody else sick. It was already bad that the tribe leader had smallpox, so we didn’t want anybody else to have this disease. My older brother wasn’t doing any better than me. He started showing symptoms of smallpox just like I had.
In my brief life, I have overcome a lot of adversity. My mom fled Mexico with her three young children to escape domestic violence. When we came to this country we had only a few personal belongings and the promise of a better future. We came to this country and lived in a small trailer with no toilet other than a bucket, and no shower except for the one that was lent to us from the kindness of a stranger, our new neighbor. As a single parent, my mother had to work day and night to support us.
Everyone had the same pain I had--losing a great person. Outside, the rain pattered lightly down as if it were my tears on my face. Like my grandmother’s last few breaths, I huffed and puffed profusely at my grandmother’s funeral; the clouds gathered. The bright flashes of lightning crashed down on Earth as I yelled at my withered-looking grandmother. And thunder diluted the “sorry for your losses”, “it’ll get betters”, and “you’ll get through these.”
After a death or loss of something close, people usually react similarly by going through the five stages of grief. These stages include denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. During a death of my Great Aunt, my family went through the stages of grief. I was close with her when I was younger, but I do not have many memories I remember with her so I did not experience much grief. On the other hand, my Great Uncle went through a lot of grief since she was his older sister.
Essay to “The Stone Boy” Death is something that awaits every living being. We are born, we die and between them, we live. Some die once they reach old age and wither away, whilst some people are murdered. Dying before one reaches the old age, can occur as an accident, although sometimes when someone dies young it is caused by murder, and where death appears, so does grief.
“Here is the tragedy: when you are the victim of depression, not only do you feel utterly helpless and abandoned by the world, you also know that very few people can understand, or even begin to believe, that life can be this painful. There is nothing I can think of that is quite as isolating as this” (Andreae). I began to struggle with depression when I was in my second year of middle school. People always assume a major life event is what caused it, but nothing had changed: my dad moved out of state when I was in the fourth grade, I was friends with the same people I had been friends with the previous year, and I had never been very close with my step-father. But none of this was new to me, so what had caused this change in my mentality?