CHAPTER 9 – LOSE AND LEARN
“You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. Because it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”
― Maya Angelou, American memoirist, poet, and civil rights activist
Oftentimes, people go through life’s troubles. Yet, rather than searching for ways to ameliorate their pressing situations, they escape reality and just live by the hopes that the troubles might disappear eventually over time.
Upon returning, the problem apparently stays. Feeling hopeless and desperate, they continue with their ways of nurturing negative and passive mentalities; and thereby, practically accepting their fate and quitting from moving
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That is no cause for alarm. It is OK. It is as normal as nighttime following daylight. Throughout the ages, it is what people have undergone and done something, which really mattered (overcoming obstacles) along their way to success. You just really ought to manage your mistakes and flip your failures in a more positive way.
Although you have not always heard or read some of the notable success stories of certain people as much as knowing about their successes, it was failure that spurred successful people to strive for the best! You already know how Abraham Lincoln succeeded in life!
The record label of pop singer Lady Gaga dropped her after only three months. When she knew about it, she wept so hard that she cannot utter a single word! That also goes to Theodor Seuss Geisel, notably known as Dr. Seuss, who had his very first book rejected 27 times by various publishers!
Colonel Harland David Sanders had received the ‘pink slip’ from dozens of jobs prior to founding the Kentucky Fried Chicken fast food empire. A similar fate had befallen to Oprah Winfrey and Walt
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–learn taking responsibility for your mistakes. Do not make alibis and excuses; you have no one to blame except yourself.
I AM SORRY! – learn apologizing to whomever became the recipient of the mistake or, to whom the mistake made a great impact. In addition, never forget the importance of forgiving them.
I WILL FIX IT! – learn fixing the mistake, if possible and as soon as possible.
I LEARN FROM IT! – know that learning from mistakes takes time. Never push yourself too hard upon it. The experience alone rather becomes an opportunity for you to grow.
I LET IT GO! – learn letting go of failures. At most, this final step is the most important since it enables yourself releasing all the negative energies you have had from your failure. Focus upon the positives or the lessons, and move on forward,
As I look back and reflect, I see how hurtful those words sounded. It is my hope that my sincere apology will be
Everybody learns from their mistakes it may take a while and it may take help from others to understand why but at the end the goal is
With parallel parking being my new favorite thing I was almost certain I was going to pass my road test. I waited in line for what seemed like hours, I watched as people took off, then came back within 5 minutes of their test time. As more and more people came back, failing, I was growing more and more concerned and worried about how I was going to do, and if I was going to pass. I went through it in my head a million times as I waited, I told myself over and over that I could do it, and that I was a good driver, but nothing could reassure me as I saw for what seemed like the 50th person come out of their cars upset, giving their parents the wheel. It was my turn, as my driving instructor got out of the car, he apologized and said, “i’m
Life Amidst the Darkness Melting wax from the flickering candle drips slowly onto the red velvet tablecloth illuminating the rushing night that blank eyes fail to perceive. The crimson blood drips from the slicing razor onto the glossy pearl bathtub staining it with the source of life which seems like a full wine cup spilling into a meaningless void. Shooting soldiers lay waste to an innocent country, to innocent people robbing them of their future that now seems like a tortured existence without the joys of life. John Milton, an extreme advocate for freedoms, Dorothy Parker, a witty critic that struggled with alcohol and depression, and Maya Angelou, a woman with many talents who became a civil rights activist, transcend time and subject to
"Mistakes are always forgivable, if one has the courage to admit them. " This quote is from Bruce Lee and expresses the concept that we all make mistakes, but what counts is realizing what they are and admitting that. In my opinion, we need to take this a step further and also attempt to fix our blunders once we realize that they are made. This concept was present in ancient Greece as well as today. The playwright Sophocles shows this in his play Antigone through the seer Teiresias.
Once again, Maya Angelou manages to touch our hearts again with her poetic skills in Chapter 19 titled The Champion of the World in her autobiography I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings. She recalls a time in her life where the African American community gathered at her grandmother's and uncle's store to hear a boxing match via radio. The boxing match was between the former champion Joe Louis and a white boxer. Maya Angelou takes the meaning of a simple boxing match into something more complex; she demonstrates the suffrage of her people fighting against oppression during that time period.
In “A Mistake that Should Last a Lifetime,” by Jessanne Collins argues that we should learn to deal with our mistakes, live with regrets, and know we can’t change our permanent situations. The narrator made a decision that made her live with a long regret. She tattooed her left wrist with a phrase that said, “Break to keep fixing.” She made a mistake because she was nervous and told the tattoo artist she was ready when she really wasn’t. Her simple tattoo led to a long time of regret.
Everyone throughout their lives has gone through difficult phases in which have helped them see the world in a different way. For example, people have become better after getting past obstacles, they are able to prepare themselves for what’s to come later in life, and they are able to become successful in life. At some point in life, every person has though tab our giving up due to circumstances that have been concurring frequently during a period of time; therefore, people think that there are no good things in life left. For example, when my mother was younger she had to live with my grandfather’s cousin because my grandparents were moving up north for the season and they did not want my mother to make their trip more difficult than what it would
The feeling of being unwanted seems to cast an ugly shadow on Maya’s early childhood as she and her brother are constantly being shipped from one person to another. From California to Stamps to St. Louis, they can never establish a solid foothold on life as the shuffle is constant in her life. One good thing that lies on Maya and Bailey’s side is that their mother has brothers who are ruthless when it comes to anyone messing with their relatives. Maya and Bailey could depend on them to be there for them in any difficult situation and soon that would be a really good thing. They represented strength and security for Maya and Bailey, what they were lacking in their lives.
Although failure seems dreadful, it is necessary for learning to take place. Whether failing in school or sports, our
Mistakes are made so you could learn from them, so you could do better. Just because a person makes mistakes does not mean he or she is a failure and they are simply worthless, they are literally just
By. Izzy Jokubaitis /Dec/20/2022/ Thank You. Ma´am (By Langstion Hugles) In life it's important to learn from your mistakes, and not to break yourself down over them.
Utilize our slips-ups as a going stone. Allow them to be lessons in how you can do things differently. They mould you to be the best version of yourself. At times when you lie to your closest friends whether intentionally or unintentionally you don’t feel good about it, but when they find out the truth, they are hurt the most as you break their trust. At that time you don’t really realize your mistake but when the same thing happens to you, you understand the real mistake that you had done to them sometime back.
Failure can be a great thing to happen because it is going to teach you many things. I’ve experienced failure many times, but there is this one time where I learned from it. The time when I was learning to drive a manual car, it didn’t happen over night. I kept failing to learn how to drive it, but with me failing, it taught me to never give up and keep on going. If you let failure beat you, you will not achieve anything.
Mistakes are universal, but everyone responds to being incorrect in different ways. The way that people choose to deal with their mistakes defines their integrity. The popular opinion is that apologizing makes up for the inaccuracy, but conversely, I believe that apologizing does not simply make a person ‘good’. A strong person is someone who proves that they intend not to make the same mistake again. An apology loses it’s meaning after it is repeated over and over.