With marriage freely people have a chance to know each other better before marriage, understand their partners’ priority, and last but not the least they can marry with love. Many people would argue that youth make many mistake when they want to choose their life partner and it resulting in depression and lack of confidence. Moreover, they cannot trust their feelings any more. Or in an arranged marriage parents trusts the family they choose for their children so, it is good when parents choose their partners for them because they know their children. It is true that youth may find some of their experiences unpleasant and unsuccessful but, finally, they would find a suitable spouse and their experiences help them in their lives.
The main condition of a good marriage, in Gottman’s opinion, is a friendship between husband and wife. It is a really a healthy marriage if the spouses feel admiration and fondness towards each other. Fondness and admiration prevents them from expressing and feeling disgust while arguing. In a good marriage one spouse supports dreams, interests and aspirations of another, but without sacrificing one’s own. Gottman advocates the equality between spouses in everything.
The relationship between Hero and Claudio are completely different from the relationship between Beatrice and Benedict. Hero and Claudio’s relationship was based off of love at first site, while Beatrice and Benedict’s relationship started out as friends and developed into a loving relationship. Over time people get into the way for better and for worse. Although Claudio and Hero’s relationship is based off of physical attraction, Beatrice and Benedick’s had developed into a heartfelt and genuine relationship. Some people may think that Beatrice and Benedick’s relationship would be more successful than of Claudio and Hero’s due to their maturity, ability to work things out, and powerful attitude towards each other.
We love each other because we share the similar, or same values. Plato’s ideology can be applied in our daily lives: When we are making new friends, or choosing partners; we will see if we can get along with each other well. This can be examined through the conversations, or via the mutual interests between the two persons. If two share the same or similar values and interests, it is more likely for these people to become friends or couples since they can get along with each other. However, if you meet someone’s values or interests that are very different from yours, no matter how attractive or beautiful he/ she is, you will not be friend with that person because one’s “inner beauty” is always more important than his/ her “outer beauty”.
The plot is structured in a traditional way as the end is happy like in almost all romance stories where the lovers end up with being united and married to each other. In addition, the end is significant because the couples who got married are from two different social classes. This suggest that traditions and norms are sometimes vulnerable to the power of love among the young generations. It is true that society would resist such marriages between people from upper and middle or lower classes .However, no one can predict what love can do and how powerful it can be. The story teaches a lesson about individuals and how their behaviors are affected by social norms and morals.
Initially it was in the form of joint families, wherein family members would provide the support and solutions needed. However, with change in time and changing lifestyle the distance between families has increased, and so has a sense of loneliness. This change could be one of the main reasons for the need and coming of counselling (Ravi, 2007). The profession of counselling is however, soon becoming popular. Today we find many more people opting for this field of study as a profession.
According to Buhrmester, siblings of the same gender were more open toward and supportive of eachother and were much more influenced by eachother. The older sibling is often looked up to as a role model, but is difficult in terms of intrests with opposite genders. Sibling bonding is difficult when it comes to gender because of the many differences in their activitys, hobbys, etc. Sibling bonding is important in adolencents because of providing support,
Marriage is the act of individuals getting united in a very close and contractual relation. It is when two different people come together to make a life for both. They have to make adjustments in order to make a happy life with no tension. Additionally marriage is often viewed as a contract that creates normative obligations between two involved individuals. The covenant signed from both sides represents that they will be loyal and consistent to their mutual relationship.
To be charming is to make others feel wanted, making them someone who is significant in your life. By doing this you are making them feel that them belong in your life and not just a stranger that you will soon forget. Imagine a scenario and put yourself as a mere stranger to someone popular and you were given a chance to hangout with this person, would it be better if the person talked to you as if you were a part of his friends and not just a fan? Charm builds relationships, it helps create a bond between people that will make them feel comfortable talking to each
Even though one partner may not like a specific preference, they should come up with a compromise. If both partners are more giving, it can lead to higher relationship satisfaction and sexual satisfaction. Research has shown individuals who make changes in their sexual life to benefit a romantic partner will have a partner that feels more sexually satisfied. Therefore, the partner will feel more positive about making changes for their partner to enhance relationship satisfaction for the couple (Burke & Young, 2012). Because sexual preferences and discrepancies can be such a hard topic to talk about, some partners tend to avoid any conversation.