The same is the case of Tara whose life is also full of marital problems. Her husband Rajaram always demands money from her earning. Frustrated by such a miserable married life, she curses her husband and says: “So many drunkards die ... but this one won’t.”(TLS 53).
The relationship is so weak that a wife can have a bitter feeling towards her husband. But the idea that marriage is the only career and husband is the only destiny is clearly reflected in the thoughts of Jeeja : Jeeja shuts her up saying that husband is a symbol of social prestige because he “keeps the Kumkum” on her forehead, and “what is a woman without that?” (TLS 53)
Mukta Jaya’s neighour, works under financial compulsions as she is a widow caring for her old mother-in-law and teen aged daughter, Neelima. She had to accept the ill-treatment at the hands of her husband, as she could not have a son.
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After reading “Family Counterculture” by Ellen Goodman she implies that today’s world is hostile to children. I agree with Goodman, parents are expected to protect their children from an increasingly hostile environment. For example, Goodman states in paragraph number nine “Mothers and fathers are expected to screen virtually every aspect of their children’s lives”. The word it`s appears four times in paragraph number sixteen.
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As a woman in Japan at this time, Koharu 's social mobility is limited and she is stuck in the role of a prostitute until her ransom can be paid, but despite this, finds herself deeply invested in the impoverished Jihei and refuses to see any other prospective patrons. Complicating this already difficult situation is Jihei 's wife, Osan. Loyal to her irrational husband, Osan must mind not only her children and her husband 's shop, but also mind the stifling social constraints that dictate the manners of women, present at this time. Finally, there 's Mogamoen, flour miller and elder brother of Jihei. More responsible than his brother, Mogamoen ventures to help Jihei when he hears of his increasingly risky behavior in the pleasure quarters.
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Topic: Marriage in “Jane Eyre” In “Jane Eyre” Charlotte Brontë rejects the traditional role of women subdued by social conceptions and masculine authority by generating an identity to her female character. Thesis: Jane´s personality will bring into being a new kind of marriage based on equality, meanwhile her choice for romantic fulfilment will depend solely on her autonomy and self-government. Introduction Charlotte Brontë´s “Jane Eyre” stands as a model of genuine literature due to the fact that it breaks all conventions and stereotypes and goes beyond the boundaries of common romance in order to obtain love, identity and equality. 1.
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