Although I feel like families fit multiple theories at any given time, I agree most with the Family Systems Theory. This theory takes a look at the entire family and how it functions as a complete unit as opposed to the individuals. It takes a look at the interconnected relationships within the family unit and how they function together. This theory makes me think of an engine. When all parts of an engine are working properly the engine runs smoothly or purrs as a mechanic might say. Should any part of the engine fail to function properly you will have issues and run the risk of it failing to function as needed and eventually breaking down if the issue is not addressed.
Within my family we all function in various ways with both communicated
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I struggled to remember that mental illness was not a cookie cutter illness and that additional help was needed to find functionality again. I felt out of control and that was a clear breakdown in the way my family would function as now two parties were not doing their part. I was able to seek the help and accept it readily as it became available. My husband however, had a different reaction. Having lost his brother when he was a teenager he thought and felt the family needed to privately "fix this". His experience with family trauma and dysfunction lead him to believe the proper way to deal with this was without the help of outsiders. He felt it was my job as the matriarch to correct the emotions of our daughter. It was my job to deal with the emotional upheaval that was causing the breakdown. He was of the belief that emotional issues were handled by the Mother. These blinders were on for him as this was his personal experience from childhood. This is how he was raised to deal with emotional trauma and how he thought all families handled similar
To determine the families role, the Social workers should assess the various roles family members play in order to better understand family functioning. Understanding Families: Family Assessment (Page 339). Gathering information about family structure, function, and needs does not have to be restricted to structured interviews. Getting to know your clients family and the role they will play in each other 's lives will save a great deal of time in the long run.
but as soon as he overheard that his parents were going to get a divorce it upset him greatly and it affected him emotionally in a negative way. “In moments of anger, one or the other often threatened divorce... We learned to count on each other when Mom and Dad weren’t getting along.” (Krakauer 107) shows that because
They know not to talk to their father when the mother crazy. They are afraid of her "bitter look." (P. 171) when his father made the "bad thing", drink the dole money, follow the practice of adults to make him suffer, do not talk to him. (P. 171)
After the father breaks the bind that kept him to his trauma, it could be assumed that he lived the rest of his life with his
The Family Systems Theory Family systems theory is a framework for understanding families and their strengths and dysfunctions. The strengths identified among family relations can be used to help solve existing problems. The same applies with problems identified. The family system theory is based on Bowen’s theory which argues that people cannot leave independent of each other’s network of relationships. People within a family are connected emotionally, which affects their overall well being and social relations and behaviour.
When his younger brother came along it got worse as he fell into his father’s footsteps and did “typical male” activities, such as throwing a ball around. He grew farther away from his father and grew to dislike even more. Later in life he realized that his father’s “ways” helped shape who he was today, “Dad does have his ways, but if I’m a product of them, they couldn’t have been all that wrong”(p.2).He came to understand that him and his father are two vastly different people, and that his father only wanted him to be successful in his life. When he was younger he couldn’t understand his father, but as he grew older and had time to think, he realized the importance of his father in his
From the three main sociological perspectives I think the functionalist views on family fits the American family and how it’s changed in the last fifty years. The family creates well-integrated members of society by instilling the social culture into children (“The Functionalist Perspective.” Boundless Sociology, 21 Jul. 2015). Functionalist understand that times have changed over the last fifty years and you have to be willing to change with society. American families can’t be stuck where families were fifty years ago.
The theory looks at many aspects of the family such as atmosphere, constellation, and goals, plus, respect is given to both children and adults. In this system interventions are suggested for children and adults. The limitations of the Family Systems Theory are, too much is focused on homeostasis at the expense of change and patterns at the expense of unpredictability. Moreover, on the system at the expense of the individuals.
He talks about how his mother looked cheerful within “two hours” of his father 's death clearly still angered from his mother’s speedy marriage
This essay discusses how the family is viewed by two different sociological perspectives- functionalism and conflict theory. Firstly, ‘family’ is defined. Secondly, the main ideas of functionalism will be discussed followed by how this theory perceives the family. The main ideas of Conflict Theory will then be examined and how conflict theorists perceive the family.
Family systems therapy is basically evaluating the family system functioning as a unit and there are a few types of family therapy that uses this approach such as “structural family therapy, intergenerational family therapy and strategic family therapy” (Family Solutions Institute MFT Study Guide). The approach I think most useful would be structural family therapy which examines the family relationships, styles and common attitude during a therapy session. This allows the therapist to get a better understanding of what is going on in the family and the best way to solve
Family theories have been used throughout the history of nursing to help guide patient care and provide the best patient outcomes. Certain theories may be more applicable to the specific patient encounter; however, each theory has benefits and drawbacks to their use. The purpose of this paper is to examine two selected theories, comparing their strengths and weaknesses. I will also discuss a theoretical family in relation to one theory, and how that theory can be best integrated into the care provided by an Advanced Practice Nurse (APN). Description of Theories
This essay will inspect and discuss the components of individualisation and its effect on families and relationships. This essay will focus on the advancements of the traditional nuclear family. Beck and Beck-Gernsheim (2002, p. 27) described individualisation as the dissolution of previously prevailing social structures. This means that traditionally, an individuals’ destiny was once shaped by structures such as social class, gender roles or religion. This means that people’s lives were already laid down and their individual origins chose which line to take after and which “destiny” they prompted (Brannen and Nilsen 2005, p. 415).
He would hurt my mother and if she were not there, he would hurt my brother’s and I. When my dad was away, we would sleep secure as we didn't have to worry about my dad getting everyone up in the middle of the night to stand at attention in front of him while he was mad about something we had been disciplined for weeks before. My mother would defend him, he would slap her right there in front of us if she didn't. We would look down as though we didn't see anything. We stood there in that line at attention, in our minds, we prayed for the “parade rest and dismissed” that would eventually come.
I believe that every family has their own roots, essence, uniqueness, beliefs and thoughts, some families have both parents, some just the mother, just the father, two mothers or two fathers, they might have an only child or two, or maybe 5 or even 10, therefore, those children start learning all these things from their family and surroundings, they ask questions, they imitate each other’s actions and are constantly learning and trying to catch as much information and experiences as possible. Children are growing fast, their parents are their role models, they learn mostly from them; parents have the tremendous job of forming good citizens that provide to society, healthy and happy beings that keep growing as humans in every stage of their