Parents mostly view holding back the truth from their children as a simple means of protection of their children (Bridges, 2010). Parents seek to protect their children from being hurt by information that they view their children cannot handle (Lott, 2014). Matters such as separation of parents have seen to contribute a significant share of the lies that parents feed children. Parents assume that they can withhold the truth from their children about their marital issues thinking that they will tell the truth to their children later in life when they can understand the complexity of the matter at hand. Taking this example, when the children enquire about where their parents are when they are not at home.
Every child have a very fragile inner qualities that could be affected even if the problem is quite small for us. The experience and incidence they gone through during their childhood period will determine their future behaviour. Back to the case, when parents are fighting, the children will think that they are the cause why their parents are quarrelling and they might have thoughts that if they do not exist, their parents will not be like they used to be and things will be much more better. This thoughts could create a serious impairment in children’s behaviour internally or externally. Besides marital conflict, child abuse could also lead to externalizing problems in those girls.
Living with ill health can be stressful enough but most people are as concerned for the financial security of their families as they are their own health. Parents who still have young children worry about their care should something happen to them before their children are grown. Effect of stress Stress can have an enormous impact on family life. A person suffering from stress may be more sensitive and irritable than normal. He may argue with his spouse over matters that usually wouldn 't provoke such a response.
Positive or negative Peer Pressure defines an individual. As children grow, parents influence will decline and as children are exposed to other individuals, peer pressure takes place because the attachment of children to their parents are unlike before due to the changes in puberty particularly mood swings (Mempin, et al 2003). The difference between negative and positive peer pressure is the result. The result defines what peer pressure is. Because teenagers develop intimate relationships they tend not to share anymore with their parents feelings of intimacy because they believe that only their friends can understand them since they belong in a similar age group (Psychology Today, 2011).
Parental stress is when a parent always worries about whatever life will throw at them. Most parents try to keep their stress over their family and lives to themselves, in this paper we are .going to discuss many stressors for parents. Stress generally refers to two things: the psychological perception of pressure, on the one hand, and the body's response to it, on the other, which involves multiple systems, from metabolism to muscles to memory. (1) Being stressed has so many levels for your body, and mind to figure out how to handle. This will cause your body and mind to be tense.
When teens grow up, they have to deal with a lot of stress in their life and it may seem difficult for them to control all of the life and hormonal changes. Some adults feel their kids are going to do such that things to pay attention. It is necessary to see warning signs as serious. If you are the parent of a suicidal teen, try to understand listen to them. Keeping the lines of communication between parents and teens is also important.
Protective factors are a great thing to have during this process and find those factors. Even during the hardship, parents still have to protect their children through this process because it affects them more seeing their family falling apart. For example, protective factors for the children and parent would be counseling, family resources, family involvement (Demo&Fine pg.21). These are all protective factors that will outweigh the risk
Much of this happens to parents due to bad habits and financial problems and that lead to divorce and communication breakdown. Therefore, to overcome this problem must be looked upon in a positive light to reduce it by learn, Loyal and love. Families are where we learn values, skills, and behavior. Strong families manage and control their learning experiences. They set up an example of home life.
Family ties are arguably the biggest factor that contributes to a person's opinion, mental health, and consequent decisions throughout life. A person could argue that parents can serve as role models that kids look up to resulting in like minded adults, while others could argue that because of a negative experience with their family it could induce the complete inverse reaction. Regardless, there has always been more significance held in parental relations in specific. This paper will dive deeper into the reasoning behind the biological and social aspects around what makes these the most crucial connections in a person's life. Some biological areas of that will be explored are, the effect of parental love on the human psyche and the implications
Introduction Parenting had contain the meaning of parents who are willing to engage and participate in their children daily life activities (The Future of Children 2013). Parenting is very important to raise up a child, poor parenting may endanger the child but the good parenting may probably benefits the child. According to a study that did by Joseph 2007 (cited in Live strong 2013), he stated that children who raised up by parents who with poor parenting, children will probably behave inappropriately such as, anti-social, aggression, depression and have the difficulty to cope with their emotional. There are two parenting styles that are commonly used by the parents, which is authoritative and authoritarian parenting styles. However in a review