In middle school, my younger brother gifted me the book Fish in a Tree by Lynda Mullaly Hunt. In this book, I discovered this famous quote: “Everyone is smart in different ways. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will spend its whole life believing that it’s stupid.” In this novel, the main character, Ally, hides the fact that she cannot read by creating disruptive distractions, causing teachers to think she is a troublemaker. However, her new sixth-grader teacher, Mr. Daniels, can look past and see her for the clever person she truly is. This book, specifically this quote, resonated with me. Having a brother with Duchenne makes it difficult to see bigoted people excluding those within the disabled community. Society tends to unreasonably judge everyone by the same rigid …show more content…
Everyone is extraordinary. We have different approaches to life, and it is senseless and damaging to make others feel insignificant by shaming their differences instead of embracing them. I love this quote because it stands as a reminder that nobody is perfect at everything, and that we should never compare people to a narrow set of standards that everyone will eventually fall short of. We all have a way of thinking and perceiving the world. Everyone can accomplish great things in life, but they will never reach their full potential if their success is constantly minimized. While I do not have a disability, my brother does, and I will never understand what he has gone through. I will never have others underestimate or infantilize me, because they think that having a disability hinders people from being successful. Nevertheless, I am in a unique situation that allows me to see how the world cannot completely comprehend what it is like for those with disabilities. I straddle between never fully understanding and seeing more than what most non-disabled individuals can
Robin Benway's novel Far From the Tree demonstrates that genetics are not the only factor in determining the characteristics of a person but a person's parents and life events shape them dramatically as well. Starting off, a main character named Grace has gone through a teenage pregnancy. This hardship has made their family enter therapy; “‘I don't even recognize who I am anymore! You act like I’m just going back to high school and go to dances and prom and everything, but none of that has happened. I can’t even go to the mall without people whispering about me, calling me a slut!
More recently than ever, the treatment and the representation of the disabled has become an important topic of discussion, with many disabled persons speaking out on the stereotypes of disability and lack of proper portrayal in the media. In her essay “Disability,” author Nancy Mairs describes her life as a woman living with multiple sclerosis, and she examens the lack of accurate portrayal of disability, especially in the media. Similarly, Andre Dubus adds to Mairs’ argument in his essay “Why the Able-Bodied Still Don’t Get It” by elaborating on how his life changed after becoming disabled, an experience that allowed him to understand why the disabled are still stereotyped and how this causes the abled-bodied to not fully understand what it’s
A disability can make someone look at a "disabled" person in a specific way, even though they are just as capable as others of doing things. Some people don't realize the impact someone with a disability can have on the world because they are limited and criticized for their issues. People without disabilities can show what they have, and those with disabilities will never even get past the starting line because of people's biased views on disabilities. After listening to the Ted Talk by Keith Nolan, a private cadet, he established ethos, logos, and pathos through his educational speech on the deaf in the military. In the Ted Talk, Keith Nolan backs up his story with emotion, statistics, credible information, and real-life experience.
Through all this work, Justin Dart came to the conclusion that the judgement towards disabled people created a toxic relationship disabled and abled individuals and decided to end this. In his explanation for why the ADA was so significant for the disabled, Justin said “It will proclaim to America and to the world that people with disabilities are fully human; that paternalistic, discriminatory, segregationist attitudes are no longer acceptable; and that henceforth people with disabilities must be accorded the same personal respect and the same social and economic opportunities as other people.” (Paragraph 7) The fact that at one point disabled individuals were treated with disrespect, really shows through this quote and emphasizes that this was a great injustice that needed to be ended. The injustice that occurred was that people with disabilities in America were treated poorly and did not have equal rights.
Having a disability is challenging. It’s hard to watch others do certain activities easier, it’s hard to make friends, and it’s hard to be considered not “normal”. While these are all valid challenges with having a disability, it is also hard to be on the outside. Being the sibling of a disabled child has many of its challenges and disadvantages, and siblings of disabled children develop and mature much faster than siblings without a disabled sister or brother. Keren Landman’s article “Growing Up Alongside a Sibling With a Disability,” (https://www.nytimes.com/2020/05/11/parenting/children-sibling-disability.html) highlights the positive and negative effects a sibling with a disability has on one without a disability.
Empathy is a very important trait that I believe everyone should strive for. Working with people of all ages with disabilities is both eye opening and humbling, as we often forget how fortunate we are for the simplest things. I personally feel as though I’ve discovered a passion for helping others, as it is apparent that not many others will. I have spent the majority of my high school career stepping up in instances where there was little support. From those experiences, I’ve learned how to manage my time extremely well, communicate with adults in higher powers, and how to lead other students and faculty to be influential members of the community.
But that was a long time ago when they had things different”. This quote tells us how our world has changed. When we were younger we were not afraid to be ourselves to be unique or special. But now when society tells us to be our
For many, their physical disabilities have shattered their lives. For many Americans, they have suffered. They have been exposed to stress, confusion and as O’Brien says
Stella Young's "I'm not your inspiration" video portrays to her audience that disabled people are not to be looked at as inspiration objects, but as the human beings that they are. "We are more disabled by society, then the bodies we live in" and what Stella means by this is that society thinks of disabled people as less fortunate and the non-disabled people being her audience perceive disabled people as a motivational figure for living their lives with disabilities. Stella is trying to accomplish that the disabled want recognition not for being disabled, but for being themselves, because everyone is a human being and should be treated like any other individual. Disability shouldn't be looked at as a bad thing and what Stella means by this
When someone thinks of someone with a disability, they usually feel bad for them. They will also associate the word disability with a disadvantage. What if that wasn't true? What if instead of being at a disadvantage, people with disabilities just have to look at the task differently? As Oscar Pistorius, the
This quote means that you never know somebody fully, unless you take their place and adapt to the person's life characteristics. This matters because you can never know what somebody is persecuted about, praised for, expected of, and stuck with. So, you shouldn’t judge someone because you can misinterpret them for who they really
“Single-Handed Cooking” by JJ Goode speaks about his disability and how although he acknowledges it as an obstacle it isn 't one they aren 't continuously ready to overcome. He uses the example of cooking. It 's a task that for most does not require the intense focus that he needs ,yet it doesn 't stop him from cooking dishes ranging in difficulty. With each dish he successfully creates its a way to prove himself, while the mistakes no matter the cause are a failure. Which is why he continues to tackle demanding recipes because each time he achieves a great end result its another accomplishment.
Imagine moving to a new school, unable to read and write, without friends. The book Fish in a Tree by Lynda Mullaly Hunt is about a girl named Ally, who recently moved to a new school. Ally doesn’t have any friends, and she cannot read or write. Her teacher doesn’t see this and always sends her to the principal’s office. Throughout the book Fish in a Tree, Ally has changed in many ways such as her abilities to read, make friends, and behave.
ften children are found with difficult decisions when it comes to entertaining themselves. Some may settle for simple methods of entertainment while others may choose something more safe and reasonable. In the classic children 's book, The Cat in the Hat, by Dr. Seuss, a brother and a sister are looking for something to keep them entertained during a rainstorm. They are torn between listening to a fun-loving cat who visits them while their mother is out, and a sensible fish, who warns them not to do what he says. The children should listen to the fish because he is more responsible, smarter, and is a better influence than the cat.
As the statistics shown above say, disabled people are considered an embarrassment to be around and considered unproductive people, and therefore are excluded from their society. This group of people is socially excluded in many ways: 1) Excluded from leisure facilities Disabled people are usually deprived from their rights of having fun and spending their leisure time like normal people. Have you seen cinemas with special seats for paralyzed people for example? The answer would be no probably. Disabled people find it difficult to enter leisure facilities like swimming pools, bowling centers and cinemas, although with simple adjustments these places could be suitable for