I have overcome many things in my life, and I know that I was able to because I was able to flip some negative affirmations into some positive ones. The way we talk to ourselves really does define what we do or don 't do. I am a prime example of that, which is why I feel so much passion about positive affirmations and a positive mentality. I see too many people getting stuck in a negative loop that never allows them to change their life for the better, even though they have the power to do so.
5 Positive Affirmations That Changed The Course Of My Life
A quote about how things you affirm to yourself the most have an impact on your life.
I 've affirmed many positive things to myself, but I can honestly say that the following 5 positive affirmations have had a huge impact on where I have ended up.
1. I Deserve A Good Guy
For years, I dated jerks and losers.
I dated a guy who was addicted to cocaine. I dated a guy who had just gotten out of prison. I dated a guy who stole my money. I dated a guy who would stay out all night doing god knows what. I dated a guy who literally ran off with the circus and never called me again. I dated guys who didn 't want to commit, didn 't really seem to like me, and stole a ton of my self-worth.
I told myself that I wanted a cool guy. I wanted a guy who was bad, which always equaled a jerk or a loser.
Then, one day after having my heart stomped on again, I had enough. I affirmed to myself something positive for
In my life, much has shaped me to be the person that I am today. For example, I am bullied and have been for many years. I kept it to myself and let it grow worse. Then, last year I found a teacher that I felt I could trust and told this teacher everything that had and was still happening.
When I was a kid, I loved being outside and jumping rope. One day was different, I kept falling and was getting bruised and hurt. However, I stayed optimistic and went back outside. I was failing every time, but I was determined to get it right. Therefore, even though I was in a bad situation and kept getting hurt, I stayed hopeful and positive that I would get it at one point.
Everyday I would wake up and read a positive note, affirmation, or scripture. These notes changed my way of thinking and allowed me to invite positivity into my life. It was not until then that I realized my true potential and ability to reach every goal I set. A few months back I set a goal to relocate to Texas before the end of summer. Today, I
High school was a roller coaster ride for me, from the endless fun of parties to the minor breakdowns and panic attacks that would land myself in the hospital. The pressure and stress got to me and the fact that failing out of the school that I’ve been going to for twelve years with long life friends was coming to an end. Now that I look back at it though it might have been the best decision for my well-being because then I would of not been able to meet the people that I met at Chamblee Charter High School. You would think moving from a private to a public school would be a big cultural shock, you are very correct. Atlanta International School, which was the school I went for basically my whole life, was a very open minded, well rounded, and accepting establishment since the most of the students where from all over the world.
5th pd TSI Obstacles Everyday we face obstacles that can be life threatening or just cause a minor incident, and every person has a different way to fix their problems. Some people take these obstacles and try to find a positive reason for them, also finding a way to get out of the situation. This matters because people try to be always in the right mood and happy, so they make this obstacles into something good. Obstacles can be turned into a good thing, you just have to approach it in a joyful manner ,or always have a positive attitude about everything. Although some obstacles can really drain you , they take out all of your happy vibes and just kill the mood.
One instance that sticks in my mind took place in middle school track. Within the first week of practice, my coach told me that I wasn’t strong enough to be a distance runner. This cut me deep but I decided that instead of being disappointed, I would do whatever it took to prove that coach wrong. With the awards I hold today, I feel that I can justifiably say that I am a very strong distance runner.
I had to snap out this mindset because it was taking me nowhere, I knew school would be my only escape so that I never had to experience this pain again. My only weakness was my own self doubt holding me back, If I truly wanted change I had to focus on myself and not the mistakes my mother had made. It took me awhile to get over this part of my life and start focusing on my future , I knew I had to make up for messing up my first two years of high school which resulted in such a low GPA. Although my GPA now isn 't the highest it could have been, I have since then received three honor roll certificates for having a 3.0 GPA for 3 different semesters. Pushing through this obstacle has motivated me to push to be successful.
I learned my lesson. Then in the 8th grade, I started falling for Carrie Clearwater. I finally got talking to her when she started talking to my best friend Shawn Brown. He’s a good guy, but he can be a real player. And I feel bad for Carrie.
Disneyworld is advertised as the happiest place on Earth. I’ve been to Disney World before when I actually lived in Florida. At four years old, I was tall enough to ride every single attraction. After eleven years, my highschool choir was given the opportunity to visit Disneyworld and Universal Studios. I signed up for the trip with my partner Reid and his best friend Lucky.
I took a negative situation and converted it to a positive. Being told by many more superior than I, “my competition season was over”, caused a spark to ignite inside of me. The spark led to my determination to prove them wrong- future lawyer right here!. Truly the only person that could decide my fate would be me, and I disagreed with all those who declared I couldn’t. Originally despair clouded my view on life, later realizing I put that sadness around me, I altered my view and began embracing the negative.
It has shown me that in order to become successful in lives that I got to go through the hardships which means to figure out my solution for the hardships I am
A torn meniscus was threatening to be my baseball ending injury. That is the moment I knew this belief was my only chance to get back on the field. Many people would have reacted and done something different in this situation. All I was doing was sitting and listening to the voice in my head saying over and over, “If you want to succeed as much as you want to breathe, then you will be successful.
In the two books Freak the Mighty, by Rodman Philbrick and The Friendship, by Mildred. D. Taylor, the main characters brought positive change when they were vulnerable. In both of these books, people were vulnerable, but were able to bring positive change, whether it be to either themselves or others. In life, everyone at some point in time is in a tough position, but you can always bring positive change, no matter what the circumstances may be. For example, in Freak the Mighty, one of the main characters, named Maxwell, befriended a peculiar kid named Kevin that was much more intelligent than him, but was very small and was not very mobile.
but I was blinded by love. Luckily it ended because once I saw reality, I felt insane for wanting the spend the rest of my life with him. The love for a couple should be pure, trusting, selfless, and should take time to build into a strong foundation. I’ve personally seen many relationships fail in my life and most of the time it’s because they were lacking on one of those aspects listed above.
Everyone in the world at one point of time, has changed themselves to fit in with a niche, to be similar to the one you love, or for some other reason. Many unlucky people in the world have faced one-way love, or love that is not reciprocated, and have been influenced by it, much like Pip was. Chances are that, just like Pip they continued pinning for their partner because of the dopamine they get when they are with them. However, it is important to remember that you decide your life and your story. If you want something deeply, you can get it.