Forgiveness Must Be Within
Very few people are truly happy in life, because we are all a little mad at ourselves. The only way to become truly happy is to forgive yourself. In the book night the author Elie Wiesel tells the story of what he experienced throughout the holocaust. You see how horrible it was and how his life was affected by the atrocity. Although some people say that you do not need forgiveness to be happy I disagree. You need to forgive yourself to be truly happy because you can’t be mad with yourself or filled with guilt from your actions or lack thereof and be content with life. You can't get rid of your own thoughts so there will always be a constant reminder of what you are holding in. People who feel guilt over their actions or something they wished they did differently will be mad at themselves. You can’t feel anger towards yourself and be truly happy. The anger will always be within them unless they learn to forgive themselves for what they have done. An example of this is from my own experiences. There are things I have said to other people that I know hurt them even if that wasn't my intention. No matter how great my life may be going I will still be
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If you are mad at someone else you can always just stop talking to them completely, but with yourself there is no way to get rid of the reminder. Your thoughts will never leave you alone unless you figure yourself out and accept what happened. The evidence I have to support my claim is from the book Night by Elie Weisel after Elie’s father died and Elie felt guilt for not responding to his last words. “His last word had been my name. He had called out to me and I had not answered.” This quote shows that Elie not responding to his fathers last words stayed with him after years. The guilt he felt for not responding to his fathers words never left him because part of him is angry he didn’t respond to his father that
"I did not weep, and it pained me that I could not weep. But I was out of tears. And deep inside me, if I could have searched the recesses of my feeble conscience, I might have found something like: Free at last!... "(pg 112). Elie changed from this day forward, he had lost his father, and he himself got lost with lots of pain in him that he could not cry, nor
And deep inside me, if I could have searched the recesses of my feeble conscience, I might have found something like: Free at last!...” Furthermore Elie tells us that he wants to feel remorse for his fathers death but in the long run there is no remorse because after him depending on his father taught him that when it gets rough you tend to have an emotional detachment, and this led to Elie having an emotional
He had called out to me and I had not answered. I Didn't weep and it pained me that I could not weep”. This quote defines how he could no longer cry, he had no reaction to his own father's death, and perhaps the cause was fear of being killed for simply showing emotion. Inevitably, one must agree that Elie and others were put through torture and saw very terrifying things which lead to a lot of people dying, in savior pain, and or phycological
If you don’t forgive someone it can haunt you for the rest of your life and may affect how you see different objects and
First, Elie has thoughts of leaving his father to die in Buchenwald. Secondly, Elie’s father runs away from Elie and acts like he doesn’t know who Elie is. Lastly, when Elie’s father died, Elie couldn’t cry. Elie even goes on to say that if he looked deep down, he probably would've been relieved that his father died.
Elie’s reaction seems to be shocking since he is blaming his father for being a victim, rather than Idek, who takes out his anger on prisoners who have done nothing wrong. He seems to have no compassion for his old father, instead all he can care about is getting away and saving himself. This lack of
Elie was beloved by his father: “… I understood that he did not wish to see what they would do to me. He did not wish to see his only son go up in flames…” (#33). As father loved his son, Elie showed the same feelings to his father: “As for me, I was thinking about death but about not wanting to be separated from my father. We had alredy duffered so much, endured so much.
Although, not everything/everyone deserves to be forgiven, forgiveness is necessary to be genuinely happy because holding onto something will cloud your vision and overwhelm someone with emotions. If you can never let go and forgive someone, holding onto something will eat away at your happiness or even distract you from being happy. From personal experience, I once got into an argument with my best friend who I would spend everyday talking to. We were a part of each other’s daily lives and would always be there for each other. Until one day we got into a heated argument and began to
”I did not weep and it pained me the i could not weep. But i was out of tears. And deep inside me, if i could i have searched the recesses of my feeble conscience, i might have found something like: Free at last!... ” When his father died Elie wasn't sad all he could think of was the weight that was lifted off his chest, that he no longer had to be constantly worried or tending on his
No response. I would have screamed if I could have. He was not moving"(98).This is an example of how Elie cared about his father and he is feared that he would lose him. Over
Forgiving For What? The book Night, written by Elie Wiesel, is a book about Elie’s experiences in the concentration camps such as Auschwitz and Buchenwald with his father during the Holocaust. Now as we know, they both have had to go through traumatic sightings such as people being sent to the concentration camps, people dying while walking in the cold, seeing a friend give up and soon to pass away, and babies and little kids being burned alive. This is too much to forgive.
First, Elie's relationship with his father changes. At the beginning of the book, he at least has a little bit to do with his father, and he cares about him. However, he gave ‘him what was left of [his] soup. But [his] heart was heavy. [He] was aware that [he] was doing it grudgingly.
I left him alone in the clutches of death. Worse: I was angry with him for having been noisy, for having cried, for provoking the wrath of the SS.” this quote was when Elie realized he had escaped the nazis, but his father didn't, and he felt selfish for being so angry at his father that he left him to
During the final days of Eliezer’s father’s death, Elie’s father completely depends on Elie to bring him food, water, and keep him protected. When Eliezer discovers that his father has been taken away, he thinks to himself, “I did not weep, and it pained me that I could not weep. But I was out of tears. And deep inside me, if I could have searched the recesses of my feeble conscience, I might have found something like: Free at last!...” (Wiesel, 112) When Elie searches through his “feeble conscience”, or weak conscience, his mind is incapable of feeling anything towards his father.
Although he only did so in thought, Elie was aware and it made him question himself as his old mentor Moishe the Beadle taught him to do. Eliezer did not shed a tear for his father, and so he wouldn’t allow himself to dig deep into his feelings because he knew exactly what he would find; a sense of relief. The dehumanization that the Jews had experienced, threw all of their emotions out of place. Rather than feelings sad because his own father died, Elie was happy and relieved when his father had passed. Once dehumanized, the animal instinct to drop the load and keeping moving forward kicks