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A Fridge And A Bride Analysis

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A Video, a Fridge and a Bride by Nirmala Aravind deals with the financial difficulties and the resultant mental stress experienced by every middle class Syrian Christian family, especially in the early eighties, when their daughter is denied a good marital alliance due to their inability to provide the exhorbitant dowry demanded by either the boy and his family. The situation becomes more frightening if she has a dark complexion and is not beautiful. Elizabeth Cherian, called Lissy in the novel, is twenty one years old and has a BA Degree. Like all parents, Kunnmpurath Abraham Cherian, known as Cheriachen, and Kuttiamma are worried about finding a suitable alliance for their daughter. Kuttiamma is more worried about the future prospects of her daughter as she is not very fair, though not too bad to look at. Her father can only offer the dowry that is possible for an ordinary LIC officer. His savings of a life time which after a great deal of addition and subtraction comes up to Rupees One lakh. Even though there is only one girl to be married off, they find it …show more content…

Like a dutiful daughter-in-law/sister-in-law Kuttiamma takes charge of the kitchen to prepare Christmas breakfast and is assisted by her well-groomed daughter Lissy. They stay back at home while all others go to church to attend Christmas ceremonies. Such occasions are most prized by everyone. Kuttiamma acts in line with the traditional role assigned to the daughter-in-law which bestows upon her the obligation to fulfil the needs and demands of the relatives. The family would consider her ‘the right woman’ for the family only when she discharges her responsibilities as a good host. According to Devika, “Women were assigned active supervisory roles within modern families and female education was treated as an instrument to produce efficient home makers and attractive wives”

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