The link between living near to someone and being friends with them
ABSTRACT
To find a link between living near to someone and being friends with them.Man being a social animal has always wanted company.Our whole lives we keep meeting new people and end up becoming fast friends with some of them.But if we look closely at the present set of friends we have we will realize that most of them consist of those who are always present with us most of the time or live in close proximity to us. Therefore this paper aims to give a detailed study of the association between physical distance and the probability of developing friendship while keeping in account certain other factors related to society and the individual.
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The literature argues that the strength of friendship and social bonds face a decline with the increase in distance between human beings.Those ties that are more dependent on the frequency of interactions often witness maximum decline as the increase in distance creates a hindrance in the regular meetings.(Wellman 1996)
In agreement, Carrasco et al. (2008) state that after accounting for gender, age, income, use of communication technologies and degree of closeness in a relationship, individuals have to be more proactive in seeking opportunities for socialising with those who live more than 35 km away than with those living closer by.
Some research studies claim that with the onset of modern transportation and communication technology,these inventions have only enhanced the magnitude of relations and also diversified social relations.I am in complete solidarity with the findings as in the present scenario we do see instances of friendship being strengthened because of the possibility of reaching and communicating with someone in negligible amount of time. (Dijst,
Facebook Friendonomics by Scott Brown Scott Brown, a writing critique, in his essay “Facebook Friendonomics” implies that social media, such as Facebook, has changed the definition of friendships. He refers how friendships online are distant and lacks the value of a physical friendship. His purpose is to show how Facebook makes friendships expandable and weakens real-life connections. He uses diction to negative connotation to convince his audience that online friends lack the personal growth compare to proper friendship. Brown’s argument effectively motivates people to put aside their devices, met face-to-face, and fulfill the values of a proper friendship.
Even with a world that’s heavily influenced by technology, there’s still a way to make a connection between people. Some people will go to concerts together. Others will go out to dinner. Some just go to the park or stay at home and chat. Technology isn’t necessary when wanting to connect with someone.
People connect through many different types of social media. With social media, you may be friends with or follow people that you don’t know personally. Someone that you don’t know personally is called a “weak tie”. In the short story, “I’m So Totally, Digitally, Close to You” written by Clive Thompson describes what weak ties are and how we use them in our everyday lives. Weak ties are an important part of today’s society because it helps connect people, it gives them a bigger social circle, and it expands their ability to solve problems.
The author discusses the difference in friendships in the years before phones compared to now. The author concludes that the extensive phone usage in today’s society is harmfull for crucial socialization skills. In Sherry Turkle’s “Stop Googling. Let’s Talk.” the use of logos, pathos, ethos, is used presenting her argument to the readers of this article, by presenting research, exclusive experience, and personal emotion to woo the attention of her readers.
Although researchers have tried to defined friendship simply focused on the differences between friends and non-friends, Willard Hartup (1996) cited in Brownlow (2012, p. 239) argues that a whole range of relationship is possible from best friend to good friend to occasional friend to non-friend. Therefore, it is far more complex than just a definition between friends and non-friends. Now that friendship is defined it is essential to define and understand qualitative approach. Unlike a quantitative data, qualitative method or approach involves the analysis of talk, interview material and written text such as transcripts, newspaper diaries or articles and it does not use any measurements nor is in numerical form.
We engage in a greater number of relationships, in a greater variety of forms, and with greater intensities than ever before.” To conclude, this quote suggests that social interactions grow when technology grows, meaning that as technology becomes more advanced and improved, social interactions will do the
In the article, Tarshis makes the claim that technology is extremely beneficial to our society in terms of communication. In the text, it states, “Communication can make friendships stronger. ‘There’s definitely a positive impact. Kids can stay in instant contact, which means they can share more of their feelings with each other.’” (Tarshis. 7)
In the essay, “Isolated by the Internet”, author Clifford Stoll explains that recent research, conducted by psychologists Robert Kraut and Vicki Lundmark, suggests that frequent use of the Internet has had a generally negative effect on the psychological well being of its users. Using examples from Kraut and Lundmark’s previously mentioned research, Stoll asks, “Will the proliferation of shallow, distant social ties make up for the loss of close local links?” The question Stoll raises here is entirely valid, and just as concerning; as the more time one spends online, the more time one subsequently spends alone, away from people he or she could be potentially interacting with. I believe Stoll’s concerns are completely justified as today, (falsely comforted by shallow, superficial relationships,
Cut-off date 27 February. Part1: Essay. ‘Evaluate the contribution of a qualitative approach to research on friendship’. Part2: DE100 project report – Method.
This is the case of contributing writer, Nicole Henry, which wrote “Social media helps build real relationships”. (Henry). Henry states that social communication doesn’t replace traditional forms of contact, but “adds on them, increasing the overall volume of contact (Henry). This is a main argument against Anderson’s problem, furthermore it goes deeper into how technology such as social media is helping people such as young adults achieve a better sense of connecting to each other through such applications online. In the article “Connecting Community: On- and Offline” by Barry Wellman, further goes against Anderson’s claim that such communication applications are used for keeping in touch with long distance friends or relatives that such face to face meetings are impossible.
Not only that, technology has shaped social interaction as a whole. Being able to talk to anyone on the Earth is an important milestone and “One of the areas where computers have had the most impact on our lives is how we relate to and communicate with other people” (Stewart). In a world filled with Skype, social media, and email, no longer do people have to leave their house in order to communicate. In fact, according to a study led by John Cacioppo of the University of Chicago 's Department of Psychology, roughly one-third of romantic relations start by meeting online. This goes to show how huge of an impact technology has had on communication.
Nowadays, technology devices become plays an important role in our daily lives, especially in adolescents’ categories. While there is a very clear argument for how the technology is effected on us and causing social isolation as we know, but in another way is also the argument that these technologies are helping us to become more social in our society. This is very probably because we have a good and perfect ability to communicate with each other. Despite long distances. We all know that the goal of technology is to make our lives easier and more efficient.
Ancient forms of human communication include cave drawings, smoke signals, symbols, and carrier pigeons. During the late 1800’s, communication became more advanced with the invention of the typewriter and the telephone. Roughly one hundred years later, a military project resulted in what we know today as the internet. With a little innovation, the internet made social interactions between people easier than ever, although, the convenience may come at a cost. Some theories suggest that heavy reliance on social media for human interaction will weaken communication skills, hinder meaningful social interactions, and negatively impact personal relationships.
Hook: (scenario)INTRO Imagine this: you are feeling down because you have an issue with your family and you need someone to talk to but there is nobody. The problem will get worse and worse, generating more sadness and self-hate towards your self. This is the scenario of a person who does not have a true friend to talk with. Friendship has a big impact on the well-being of a teenager life.