Lena Duong
ENC 1101 Fall B
December 4, 2013
Research Essay
Same-Sex Marriages You want to know what I think about gay marriage? I think that people should be allowed to marry whoever they want to marry, whether it's man to woman, man to man, or woman to woman, whatever the case may be. It is not fair to ban something that means nothing but love. "It is love- not biology- that makes a family" (Roleff 44). Marriage doesn't have anything to do with the gender of the couple; marriage is about two people, who love each other, coming together and being able to share their life together, and creating something beautiful. "It is no one else's business if two men or two women want to get married. Two people of the same sex who love each other should
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"One proposal in Washington state would take children away from their gay parents and place them in foster care- an astonishing cruelty in the name of family values" (Roleff 42). Is that what you want for children, for them to be separated from their family? What kind of sick, cruel act is that? Oh, yeah, let's just repeat history, and do almost exactly what Hitler did: split children up from their parents. "Studies show that children raised by gay and lesbian parents are as emotionally and socially healthy as children of heterosexual parents. Children of homosexual parents...are often more tolerant and open-minded than other children" (Roleff 41). Ahh, there it is: proof that no matter what household a child is raised in, they still are just as smart and stable as other children. "Gay and lesbians make excellent parents because their children are more planned for and truly wanted" (Roleff 41). Heterosexual couples a lot of times seem to get pregnant accidentally and cannot care for, or in some cases do not care for, the child. They can become neglected, abandoned, or abused by the parent(s) because, well, they were/are not wanted. "Lesbians and gay men don't become parents accidentally" (Roleff 43). "If marriage is about reproduction, then infertile couples shouldn't be allowed to marry" (Gay Marriage). But with the legalization of gay marriage, more gay and lesbian couples will be
When debating the legalization of same sex marriage, religious reasoning and accusations of bigotry often provoke obstinance. Instead of reiterating those arguments, William J. Bennett, a prominent cultural conservative, former secretary of education, and author of The Book of Virtues, focuses on societal effects in his op-ed article, “Against Gay Marriage.” Though Bennett’s piece conveys partiality, it also attempts to discuss this issue scrupulously to ensure readers will consider his argument and perhaps accept his implications. While some of Bennett’s word choices convey tolerance of the gay community, his rhetoric incites readers to accept that preserving society requires marginalizing homosexuals.
The United States legalizing gay/lesbian marriage and adoption was a huge step for the LGBT community. Even though people of LGBT can both marry and adopt, some people believe in the myths and stereotypes which suggests that same-sex couples are unfit to be parents. A growing interest in research studies involving LGBT couples and the wellbeing of children leaves people questioning if gay and lesbian couples can be appropriate parents for children. There are many research studies with evidence as to why same-sex couples are or are not fit to care for a child. One study stated that children growing up with same-sex parents fare just as well as those who grow up with different-sex parents.
I am against the idea od gay marriage. When going against gay rights, most people bring up topics on thing like children, civil rights, and the major topic, Religion. I do agree that gay marriage does have an affect on a child, it denies them either a father or a mother, and when it comes to religion, I guess it questions how much faith you have in your religion. But the thing with society is that they have to get their point straight. We live in today’s society, which looks down on abortion, but then at the same time, treat teenage parents as failures.
The debate around same-sex marriage was is a good idea to legalize it. I believe that same-sex marriage should be legal. I don’t think there is anything wrong with people of the same sex getting married. Now the concept of traditional marriage has changed and the power of love is more important than gender in my opinion.
The essay written by Katha Pollitt, titled, “What’s wrong with gay marriage” is an intriguing one. At first, the author, explains the notion that marriage and procreation do not necessarily go hand-in- hand. And later, she carefully interprets the true meaning of marriage; by stating there is a separation of church and state. Most importantly, the author speaks to her audience in a clear and logical manner; without adding personal biases. Although the essay may seem to have deterministic view on social behavior.
III) Homosexuals can provide the love, care and home that a child needs (Reason). A) Homosexuals work and know what it means to provide a home not only for themselves but for a child (Warrant). B) According to the article “Gay Parenting Pros and Cons” by Crystal Lombardo gay parents are about the benefits of the new family unit and its impact to society, they are able to help in focusing on the child’s welfare and are able to give the child they adopt the opportunity of living in a loving family which they have not yet experienced (Backing). 1)
One male with a lesbian mother openly stated how he felt more accepting for how he was raised: "I feel I 'm a more open, well-rounded person for having been raised in a non-traditional family, and I think those that know me woul agree. My mom opned me up to the positive impact of differences in people." With the parents of the child being, what some see as, 'out of the ordinary ', the children are raised with a positive outlook on people of all backgrounds and upbringings and taught from a young age to accept people for who they are. My second reason for believing gay people should be allowed to have children is that children with gay parents are much less likely to be forced into gender stereotypes.
Marriage is a contract between two people and honestly I think that the society should not be interfering this bond. Not permitting the right to marry another human is a severe violation of the human rights and freedom. James Carville “I was against gay marriage until I realized that I didn’t have one.” The statement is self-explanatory: “You don’t get to judge because you don’t have the
This type of problem isn’t really one with causes, effects, and solutions, but one with pros and cons. Like any other adoption situation, a parent prove themselves to be responsible and capable enough to raise a child on their own, or with a spouse. This problem or issue is one that is proving to be a bigger one than many people most likely expected. In Today’s more liberal society, homosexuality seeing more acceptance than ever before. Homosexuals and heterosexuals alike have parental instincts and are as interested in beginning families and raising children.
This type of marriage is seen as acceptable because they believe it is a better future for the children. On the other hand, gay marriage is seen as a sin and it is impossible to properly raise a child. The result would be that homosexuals will not marry because they are forbidden to do so. Government just cares about their increase in population rather than the happiness of its citizens. Another institution that regulates sexuality is education.
In conclusion same sex couples should be able to adopt children no matter what. The first reason behind gay adoption is happiness is expressed through children. Same sex couples cannot produce children with the spouse. Therefor, they need adoption to help with this process.
A big issue with gay couples not being legalized is being in able to benefit from one’s life insurance. With life insurance there would not only be fewer physical or health problems but being able to claim their partner’s social security after one of them has passed away. Legalizing gay rights will absolutely no affect on heterosexuals. Marriage is always being redefined
The author shows that gays and lesbians adopt more then heterosexual parents. Although LGBT people make up 2 to 4 percent of the U.S. adult population, Andrew Flores, a public opinion and policy fellow at the Williams Institute, said same-sex couples are about six times more likely to raise foster youth and four times more likely to raise adopted youth than heterosexual couples.(Davis,2016). If they aren’t allowed to date then a lot of As many as 2 million to 3.7 million U.S. children under 18 are estimated to have had a lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender parent and about 200,000 were being raised by same-sex couples as of fall 2015 won’t be loved because they take away their chances of having a good life. Heterosexual parents have way more rights then gays and
¨I believe that marriage isn't between a man and a woman, but between love and love.¨-Frank Ocean. It doesn't matter whether you like the same gender. Love is love. You still get married, have kids, buy a house together, etc, just like any heterosexual couple would. Many people all around the world have strong feelings about gay marriage and some believe that the LGBT community deserves to have equal rights just like heterosexuals but the rest believe that gay marriage shouldn't be allowed for many reasons.
Life is too short to worry about if people should or should not be married. They should be able to be equal as god created us equal. Therefore love sshould be left alone and people should let the people love who they feel