Glenda Riley

83). Although it is a relatively common occurrence in today’s society it is still a stressful situation and entails a number of changes for children and their families. The impact on the child/ren’s (family’s) microsystem may have a ripple effect; therefore the stressors need to be addressed. Information has been included on how to help their child/ren with divorce in general and the types of behavioral changes parents and/or caregivers can watch out for. Children need structure especially during a time when the world as they know it is undergoing such a drastic change. Which means that helping the child/ren feel loved, minimizing additional changes and, maintaining a routine is critical. Finally, while we as early childhood professionals offer our support what we are able to do is limited to a certain degree; therefore, the list of external local resources is readily available to help the child/ren and their families adjust to the

Disregard towards divorce rates that was prevalent in the 1950’s is no longer as in 2009, “10% of the United States population was divorced/separated.” (Knox, D., & Schacht, C. (2010)) Modern times ushered in a new opportunity for individuals facing the decision of divorce: cohabitation. Unlike the idea that families need to be defined by permanence and child birth, cohabitation is the alternative to establishing a family. Cohabitants experience similar benefits of those that are married, but without any of the legal binding in a

Beginning with the essential historical and social context of divorce, the authors go on to provide some interesting trends and facts about marriages and divorce rates. This book also contains statistics on the distribution of separation by the duration of marriage in the United States. It additionally examines the effect of marital breakup on children, adults, and society. The author asserts that children from divorced families are two times likely to see their marriages end in divorce. Furthermore, the author says adults from divorced families are much less likely to trust, and constantly feel unsure to engage in romantic relationships which can lead to problems of not getting married in the future.

Life is full of choices, choices here and choice there. some are small like what you’ll have for breakfast and others are big like whether you’ll finish high school. But are they really your choices? Are people really in charge of their life like they claim to be ? A statistic shows that 40% of children in America are raised without a father and 50% of children have experienced divorce by the age of 18. Studies also show that children who have gone through divorce are more likely to get lower grades and are considered less pleasant to be around by their peers and teens who live in a single parent or blended home are three times more likely to need psychological help within a year. These choices are already made for the children and they have

Research involving divorce and child custody disputes shows that it has numerous effects on the child’s development and adjustment. For example, children who are in a good relationship with their parents while still remaining in contact with them prior to the separation or divorce, transition better into adulthood . Children who tend to be avoidant Children who rely on avoidance or suppression of emotions tend to display less satisfactory adjustment (Greenberg, page 8). Due to these issues involving child custody, there are services available to assist families and to help reduce the amount of conflict.

Since the inception of the no-fault law, divorce rates in America have increased. Wardle found that twenty-five of the thirty-five states with no-fault divorce laws in effect before 1980 experienced increases in divorce rates. In eleven states, the rate of divorce was more than twice the previous rate of increase (Wardle). Michael S. Berger, a Columbia University graduate with a Ph.D. in Philosophy of Religion, believes the entire family suffers when the parents are unhappy or are in conflict. However, the parent’s respective happiness should not be the sole basis for the decision to dissolve the union (Berger). Of all parties involved in a divorce, children have fared the worst. Jennifer Tyree, who received her B.S from the University of Tennessee and her J.D. from The American University, believes the innocence of childhood evaporates the day the parents announce divorce (Tyree). Step-families, a decline in income, a stressed single parent, or a family move are all dramatic adjustments for children. Today, the high school drop out rate of children with divorced parents is thirty-one percent, compared to thirteen percent for children with married parents (Wilcox). When divorces are handled in court, it is not uncommon for the judge to make biased decisions on factors such as child custody and property. An unjust divorce leads to bitterness between spouses. In many cases,

(Al Gharaibeh, 2015). The most susceptible in a parental divorce are the children. Some children respond to divorce with aggressive or withdrawn behaviors. These behaviors in turn have emotional impact in their social lives. These children are left to feeling anxious, sad, lonely, and experience low self-esteem. Their anger can be displayed towards themselves or others. They have difficulty learning to make new friends and have poorer relationships with same aged children. All these children seemed to be less involved in extracurricular activities. Children of divorce may be less likely to learn how to cooperate, negotiate, and compromise. If children are exposed to high conflict from parents, they may learn to model the poor communication they have

Children being raised in a single-parent household has become more common over the past decades. Parents, whether married or single, should always try their best to make the most for the benefit of their child’s future. However, children sometimes experience obstacles that are tough to overcome due to the type of lifestyle they are in. One of the factors could have been caused by the type of household the child lived in. The child could have been heavily affected because of living with married parents or with single parents. Any child’s future depends on the type of environment the child was raised in, specifically the family structure. Living with divorced parents or living with married

With divorce comes many negative reactions and coping mechanisms. Famous psychologist John Bowbly, who introduced the Theory of Attachment between parental figures and children when born, attributed two main emotions that come as a package when divorce is present: anger and hostility. Negative emotions are directly linked to how the adults in the situation handle the divorce. It is stated that if parental figures show anger and hostility before, after, and even during the divorce, the children involved will learn from their behavior and replicate it as a “normal model”. This is what Bandura called “The Social Learning Theory”. This can, in turn, reduce interpersonal outcomes in future relationships down the line. Also, when clinically

Divorce has become a worldwide phenomenon. Parent divorce causes many problems and affects children negatively. It is also a behavior that has many implications for those involved. This situation becomes more consequential when children are considered. As divorce has become more common place in society, millions of children affected by separation of the nuclear family. For children, it is very hard to lose a parent because they just a little children that did not known what the situations really is. Also, a child 's life becomes more stressful because of the losses of parental support and economic. Significantly affect the child 's welfare. Since many children do not adapt well, their behavior is affected. These changes will affect their

“Some people believe holding on and hanging in there are signs of great strength. However, there are times when it takes much more strength to know when to let go and then to do it.” – Ann Landers. This quote by Landers hits close to home for me. Being a child of parents who divorced in my adolescent years, I understand that it took them more courage and strength to separate instead of sticking it out for my siblings and I. Also, this quote is a perfect example of the way people view divorce today than the way they did in the 1900’s, where it was frowned upon and nearly impossible to survive without the husbands’ financial support. Divorce is defined as a judicial declaration dissolving a marriage in a whole or in a part, especially

Comfort. What does this word mean to you? An even better question is where does this mean to you? Everyone strives for a sense of comfort, whether that means what job you are at, who you are around, or what you are doing at the time. The game of baseball includes millions of people striving to find comfort in what they do between the lines, and that is demonstrated by the rituals and superstitions that surround the game of baseball. Certain people need to take the exact same way to the ball field every day, they need to tape there right wrist a certain way, but there left wrist needs to have an Evoshield, and these are just a few examples of the constant superstitions. For example, Turk Wendell would brush his teeth between every inning that

In a previous class I took, I saw classmates debate whether divorce is good for children or bad for them, but I did not learn much from the debate. The lecture on lecture 9 helped get a better understanding of the outcomes of divorce. I was able to learn that divorce can be good for children; if their parents’ marriage is full of conflict then the divorce has better outcomes for the children. However, if a child’s parents were in a low conflict marriage, then the divorce results in greater difficulty for children. This makes sense, since a child believes that their parents are fine since they barely fight, and then they are filing for divorce at what feels like was out of the

In the modern world divorce is no longer abnormal. In fact, many might say that it’s becoming the norm. As the number of divorces escalates, the experience of those who deal with it on a regular basis also evolves. Laws change. “New” solutions become standard. And additional solutions are designed to address problems that become apparent as more and more go through the divorce process.

In this book, our purpose is to make the world a most habitable place for the children- the future leaders of this world. We must be able to temper heated emotion with a not so heated temper. We must be able to walk away from volatile situations to prevent crisis.