Good Parent
“When the woman realized that, she did what she had to do.” In “How Far She Went,” by Mary Hood, a grandmother sacrifices the life of her dog to save her ungovernable granddaughter. Being a good parent involves more than just physical care, it involves making the right choice for the child, even if it hurts them in the process. If a child is unwanted, who should take care of them? Should they go to the next of kin or someone who can love them? The granddaughter lives with her grandmother in a house, yet it is not a home. She is taken care of physically but her emotional needs are left unnurtured. The walls in her room are empty, there is nothing but a bed and the suitcases that she will never unpack. “She forgot why she had gone in the girl’s empty room, that ungirlish, tenuous lodging place with its bleak order, its ready suitcases never unpacked…” She feels unwanted by her own father, as well as her grandmother, these relationships are broken... but the granddaughter has no
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In the end, the grandmother realizes she needs to put an end to the destructive behavior that seems to occur in every generation. The grandmother driven by her selfish mistakes of the past, tries to change the destiny of her and her granddaughter. In a time of desperation, the grandmother murders her beloved dog to save the life of her granddaughter. The granddaughter, in shock, has a newfound respect for her grandmother. The grandmother steps into her new role as a good parent, and the granddaughter follows along, and in this act their lives are changed forever. As the grandmother accepts the task of being a parent she realizes something that every good parent should, you can’t change the past… but you can learn from your
The structure of AGMIHTF by Flannery O'Connor is interesting and is a good place to start the discussion. It is divided into two different parts. The boundary between the first and second part is when the group has their accident. As this is the moment when the trip suddenly becomes extremely unpleasant, it is a significant event that creates a sharp difference in the tone and the mood of the story. In the first part, the focus is mainly on the family and the personalities of everyone in the family.
She tells the misfit “Why you're one of my babies. You're one of my own children”. The grandmother reaches out to touch him, as if to comfort him and recoiling
White realizes that he can no longer be the child. He has the responsibilities of an adult and a father. He becomes aware of his own aging and it frightens him because he has not control of it. It almost seems that White
Have you ever wondered what your mother had to go through when you were still a little kid? Well, It came across my mind a couple of times. I believe that women deserve more credits than they are given. In order to interpret my point of view on this specific topic, the image that I designated as being linked to this question is one about a woman that is on the verge of giving her sleepy little baby a bath. It’s a painting made in the United States, in 1880, by artist Mary Cassatt.
She was reading angry at her brother because he destroys the family making the parent suffer emotional and mental. She explains how the brother addiction turns her house outside down with this attitude. However, the brother addiction makes the parents to never give up on him even though his negative behavior toward them. Parents love him unconditional because it was their son. Even though he was not on the best path, they still support him and be on his side because they believe that he can change.
Towards the ends the puppy is finally put up for adoption and is handed to his new owner (Budweiser Brasil). As they are driving off however, his friend horse runs for him and cinematically leaps over the fence enclosing him (Budweiser Brasil). The Puppy is then escorted back the farm by him and all the other horses on the farm (Budweiser Brasil). This is the climax in the story where the audience really starts to wonder if the puppy is going to be taken away forever or not. However, the conflict resolves to a happy ending with him getting to go back home.
The Duties a Parent Has Towards Their Children What gives humans the right to create life? Moreover, what responsibilities does a parent have to his child. Multiple philosophies have been formulated that address this question; communism and Christianity being two of the most prominent in the western modern world. In the novel Frankenstein, Mary Shelley uses Frankenstein’s monster to convey her belief that a parent's most basic duty to their child is to be present in their live while caring and nurture them. She does this through a multitude of literary devices.
Without balance in life the scales can tip and a child may not develop in a healthy manner. Some parents can never be classified as “good” simply because they let their problems or outside issues obstruct care for their
In order for a person to learn, they have to either make mistakes or learn from others mistakes. Jeanette 's parents mistake was that they didn’t think about their future and they did whatever they could to survive their hardships. Similarly, Jeanette leaned from her parents mistakes that in order for her to be successful she needs to make a sacrifice and that sacrifice will lead her to a purposeful and a brighter future. She discovered many things about her parents as she was
She has a daughter. She calls herself worn-out, balding, arthritic mother. She has low self-esteem. “Maureen allowed this thought in self-mockery, to make herself feel young, but it did not have this effect”(1). Maureen is heartbroken.
Sometimes people don’t realize how much their decisions and choices can effect others around them. Parenting is one of these such cases. The thought of having to raise children is loved by many people, but it is often a feared reality. Many people don’t see themselves as being capable of being a parent, even though they are very capable of being a good parent. Some of the best examples of good parenting fall into the book To Kill a Mockingbird.
Grandmother is obviously grouping herself in as a nice person, despite how she has treated her family in the little bit of time that the readers have observed her. This shows her ridiculous lack of
Throughout the story, the grandmother shows herself to the reader that she looks at herself
In her eyes a good man doesn’t have to be a good man as long as she gets her way. The grandmother’s life is centered on herself. She is a very self centered woman and doesn’t care about anyone but herself, including her family. When the Misfits men take them away all she is worried about is herself.
In other words, don’t pass down the same values if they are promoting gender inequality. The multi person perspective in this story allows the reader to fully understand the feelings and viewpoint of culture/gender roles from each characters. There is a one generation gap between the Grandmama and the girl, of which you can bluntly see through the different viewpoints. Near the beginning of the story the narrator describes the summer as the one where “Grandma taught Nonso how to pluck Coconuts”, but “didn't show you because she said girls never plucked coconuts”.