What I Learned When Making Decisions Essay

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We make many decisions each day in our life that we might not even notice. What we mainly remember are the important, stressful, long time consuming decisions. Each individual think differently, which will also lead to different steps in decision making. Some people will consider all the factors affecting a choice they make, some people will go for their personal wants and needs. And, exploring decisions made by others could help us learn how to make a good decision. The first interview was with my high school friend, Yanmin Dai. She is currently a freshman at New York University studying computer science. One of the most difficult decision she made was her decision in choosing her CS major. She told me that she was hesitating between …show more content…

Yanmin focused on what she personally enjoyed and followed what she had in her mind. There isn’t an outside factor affecting her decision. On the other hand, Yukki consulted with people older than her since they are experienced and see a bigger picture of her future. She considered their suggestions in making her decision. I guess this is due to the age difference when they encounter their problem. Yanmin was already an eighteen year old adult, while Yukki made her decision while she was a fifth grader. I learned in making each decision, whether important or not, we should first ask ourselves what do we personally want and then consider other people’s opinion after. This way if we regret our decisions, we could only blame ourselves and learn by our own mistakes. In addition, we should also consider the results of all our options. Each different choice would have a different impact to our live. I’m glad Yanmin and Yukki made the decisions that they didn’t regret in. After the interviews with them, I noticed I sometimes go through similar processes in making decision making as them. For example, when I ask for which shoes to buy, I would ask for other’s people opinion. Sometimes I will go by my own choice and sometimes I would listen to their suggestions. I understand how they feel when making the

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