As with all human nature characteristics, worry is amazingly complex, but we need to recognize in our daily business ventures that it does exist. This is especially true when there is a corporate change, a restructuring, or anything that might involve “change.” Probably nothing drives humans to worry more than change. Let’s be clear about this – worrying about change is a human trait no one is going to eliminate, and often has validity, but if there is nothing you can do about the change occurring, worrying about it will most likely only make your situation worse. In other words, as we discuss the nature of “worry” in this chapter, we need to talk about managing feelings in the right way in the business environment. This includes communicating …show more content…
Progress needs to be made to address criticism in a mature and organized fashion and to facilitate productive discussion between the employee and supervisor. It takes cou-rage to conduct constructive criticism, and a great foundation between the supervisor and the employee consisting of loyalty, trust, and respect to hold that discussion in a successful manner. Then, that discussion must include ways to address the criticism correctly and solve whatever problems exist. The supervisor, unless extenuating circumstances exist, must make it clear to the employee that he or she wants to help the employee solve problems in an expedient fashion. No one likes to be criticized and our natural human reaction to criticism is defense. The first thing any of us do when we are criticized is throw up our defense. We want more information immediately and we often feel offended by the criticism. This is not news to anyone, and is just normal human behavior. The question then becomes, “How do we proceed in a productive manner to solve the problem, move forward, and preserve or hopefully even strengthen the supervisor and employee relationship?” We do that through the use of examples and through communication, which again, is the foundation of all successful endeavors. Communications is so important, as is documentation and effective and professional work between a supervisor and employee to achieve …show more content…
That’s when a supervisor must be proficient in communication and counseling. Perhaps, the jealous employee will have an opportunity for a promotion again in the future, but, once again, there must be trust and loyalty between the supervisor and the employee to hold a conversation such as that. The jealous employee must be made aware that their jealousy is noticeable and can be self-consuming if they are not careful. I have witnessed conversations with jealous employees whereby they have successfully recognized the problem, addressed it, communicated well, and the employee was still unable to adjust their feelings of jealousy. Sometimes the jealous employee changes positions or even leaves the company. Sometimes those actions may be the only visible answer if the situation becomes critical from a performance aspect. Hopefully, this will not be the case. Hopefully an employee will be able to recognize, following consultation with his or her supervisor, that their actions are noticeable, and there is no need to be jealous which may be causing self-destruction for the
An example may be chatting online or over Skype. The reason why this does not fulfill the need for communication is because we cannot fully get to read someone’s body language and understand the tone of voice they have when they speak to us. By communicating with others we are also showing selflessness and consideration for
Change Irish statesmen Edmund Burke once said, “ We must obey the great law of change. It is the most powerful law of nature.” Change is an inevitable aspect of life, yet many people are terrified by the very prospect of any change. They believe that is is all bad, and that it is best if things remain the same. In reality, change is neither inherently bad nor inherently good; but all changes have both positive and negative aspects, and the way a person views change depends on their perspective.
Firstly an individual should identify early signs of possibly problematic challenging situations and report accordingly. For example if an individual does not understand what task is asked of them they should seek advisement of someone who will be able to understand the information. Secondly they should also identify actual constraints to effective communication and resolve using appropriate communication strategies and techniques. This can include when an individual having a poor understanding of English and requiring an interpreter to have good communication. Finally an individual should use communication skills to diffuse and resolve situations.
It is in our nature to be jealous. Humans, like any other creature, have the basic instinct of protecting themselves and others who they care about, and jealousy is a response because of that. Jealousy is very powerful, as the article states, “In its most extreme form, Buss says, jealousy can be exceedingly damaging— it’s the leading driver of homicide of romantic partners, particularly of wives, girlfriends, and exes. It can also compel people to attempt to control their partners in unhealthy ways.” In addition, jealousy can be a guide that a relationship may be weak because, “ it could indicate a power imbalance in a relationship.”
Some instances, almost everyone understands things differently of how jealous people can become. Friends with jealousy and pride issues make you constantly have a chip on your shoulder. They constantly anger us. It may not be as shocking to know that many people have these issues to deal with. In any situation, it’s difficult to keep them from becoming insane.
Change is something we go through everyday throughout our lifetime; your life doesn’t get better by chance, it gets better by change. Often when change occurs, individuals will resist it because the change will threaten their established way of life. However, once people see the other benefits change brings, they will often learn to accept and even embrace it. Pleasantville suggests that everyone need change in their life, or else things would just keep repeating like if you’re acting as a role for a movie. In Pleasantville, everything is perfect because everyone has a role, and always know what to do and what will happen in the future.
Jealousy has been around for a long time, since the beginning of time. It starts the very moment an individual is born. Jealousy stems from insecurity, strife, envy, bitterness, and obsessive caring. Jealously also comes from someone else wanting something that another person has something that is in another individual's life to balance everything out. Most people have experienced it sometime or another during their life, they may not think they have but in reality they really have.
Johann Kaspar Lavater once said, “The jealous are possessed by a mad devil and a dull spirit at the same time.” People who have become jealous are taken over by an evil greater than themselves, but are also taken by a insecurity they have inside of them, strong people taken over by jealousy so much- that they change so horribly no one wants anything to do with them. William Shakespeare’s Othello teaches us that in jealousy as either envy or fear, the only thing that could come out is the monster deepest inside of someone that even the best people wouldn’t want anyone to see.
Self-reflections on communication skills It is inescapable to have interpersonal conflict in any relationships and situations. (Solomon&Theiss, 2013) Yet, we should be able to handle conflicts with skills. Regarding the conflict I encountered, there are some communication skills I should have known and
The post office was experiencing serious economic turmoil and overall poor performance and as a result, the change generators ventured into a process of change management. Change management according to Lewin's Change Management Model states “Change Management is a broad discipline that involves ensuring change is implemented smoothly and with lasting benefits, by considering its wider impact on the organization and people within it. Each change initiative you manage, or encounter will have its own unique set of objectives and activities, all of which must be coordinated.” This model is divided into three (03) phases unfreezing, changing, and freezing. In the case these phases were adapted as Generating change, Implementation and Adoption.
Having good communication skills is not only important in the work place, communication skills plays a huge role in life. Every relationship has to have good communication. Friendships, the work environment, and marriages are just some examples to where communication and listening is crucial. I believe this unit has great leaders and we
For example, in a game of soccer to score a goal, team members need to communicate and relate to each
Similarly, if a manager verbally says he is interested in the employee’s opinions but never creates a way for them to express their thoughts, this leads to confusion and frustration. When employees and co-workers are able to communicate effectively needs and listen, mutual trust develops that often leads to innovation in work. Therefore, it is important in every decision to encourage employees and coworkers to share opinions, ideas and thoughts and make them feel more part of team
The better you can communicate the more likely you are to be able to effectively reach those around you or to solve the problems that we all encounter each day.
Managers have to understand how to engage employees and be able to assist in their development by setting goals and expectations. Using the feedback Julia has received from executives helps her development as well. Being able to use the feedback she has received will assist her in developing employees. Communication is essential in the management role as well. Communicating expectations and holding not only the employee