My worldview is based off of strong morals and beliefs, but also an understanding of difference. I believe that you should stand up for yourself and protect your way of life but at the same time realize that difference is what makes the world spin. I couldn’t have asked for a better family than the one I have today. Sure they are hard on me, sure they may yell or get mad, but in the end they can see the future better than I can. Although, being able see the literal future would be pretty cool it’s not what I mean here.
Awareness can either be ignored or denied, be perceived in distorted forms or be admitted to the self-structure. He went on to emphasize that individuals must make contact with others, a process that begins in childhood, where positive regard is given. Through such one becomes a person and develops a positive self-regard, (Fiest, J. et al 2013). Positive regard can be unconditional (being loved for who you are) or conditional (we behave in ways others think are correct). With the former, the person would be unafraid to try new things or make mistakes, despite consequences.
Saying please and thank you show we do not take people for granted (Traditions). Otherwise, we would not really be respecting ourselves. These same tradition ensure children have at all time good role models to follow. It teaches them right from wrong and acceptable behaviors so that they are ready to enter the real world. Traditions are a balancing act, we can decide to retain them, change them or discard them completely.
A positive approach should always be taken when discussing what is happening to allow a child to talk about their feelings towards the move and to ask any questions if they feel it necessary. This allows the practitioner to address any concerns the child may have early on the reduce their anxiety or worry. Communicating with the parents about the worries a child has is important as they can then be addressed both in the setting and at home to make sure they are eradicated before the transition begins. Theories of attachment John Bowlby: stated that a child is influenced mostly by their primary carer, usually the mother. He said
• These children feel confident that the caregiver will be able to have their needs met. • The caregiver is used as a safe base to explore and seek them out in times of
Everyone has an opinion and different beliefs on almost every topic, in which one of the most controversial topics is adoption. In adoption, people believe that race matters due to their ethical or cultural beliefs; however race does not matter because every child needs a loving home. Additionally, studies of multiracial families show that kids are more aware of their culture, as well as they are more like the community around them, then their ethnic background. There are many adoption agencies, and others with the beliefs that kids need to be with parents of the same ethnicity because it would provide the child with more cultural awareness, as well as it would prevent children from the danger and backlash they might get from others. In
As humans we have limitations in our endeavor and achievements. We can free ourselves from prejudices and blindness, but not to the whole of it. As Michael Morgan has said; our goal is to free ourselves from the distortion and corruptions of our finitude to become rational, active, and free. This is something like to become the whole, which sounds like the highest good, or divine. This is a challenge in life that we should not escape.
Decisions are crucial. Perspective is crucial. Things are not bad or good; things are how we see them. The pleasure of fully living life in society depends in which perspective we see it, as Shawn Achor said, "Don’t get stuck with one reality. Practice looking at your life from multiple vantage points and use your friends to help, and you’ll find there’s more than meets the eye to creating positive change".
Home reared kids will be very comfortable at home with their loved ones, but they will not obtain the quality daycare kids will. The government definitely helps families get good quality daycare for their child. Daycare should be a significant factor in the decision making because kids will benefit from all the activities the children participate in. By admitting your child to a daycare facility you are ensuring the education skills that will impact their future. Children also learn
Also the practitioner would need to work in partnership with the parents at all times because the parents are the most important people in the child’s life and the parents of the children know their child better than you do. Also in a setting I attended before the practitioner and the mother of a chid liaised in order to put a sticker chart with rewards to help improve the child’s behaviour. The idea of the sticker chart came from B.F. Skinners theory which was positive and negative reinforcement: if children were rewarded for good behaviour then the behaviour is likely to continue. (Bruce T, Meggitt C, 2007). Communication would also be essential while planning for the children because if the child is involved with any other professional then the educational and milestone developments must be communicated between multi-agencies to ensure that everyone is aware of the stage the child is at in his/her learning.
When attachment is formed with a loving caregiver or parent who is able to provide support, love, and guidance along with the basic human needs, attachment can be reinforced and healthy (VBH). Educating children and parents-to-be of consequences of ineffective parenting might reduce the incidence of RAD in children (Lehman & Jegtvig, 2004). Children with RAD are not completely lost with their ability to form attachments, those who have been diagnosed and seek treatment early with hopeful learn to be able to recognize and manage their behaviors and feeling as well as creating healthy relationship in their future. It is important to first get the child in a safe house with caregivers who genuinely care about them and are willing to work on developing positive interactions with the child. By using treatment methods like dyadic developmental therapy, integrative play therapy, and parent skills training are all credible techniques to help build trust and attachment.
The childminder need to develop reliable warm, affectionate relationship with children particularly babies, but they should not look for replace the parents. Babies require being with same people to develop social relationship. This is why EYFS require early yearâ€TMs settings and schools to implement a key person system. Parents and the childminder have something in common, they all want best for the children. The roles engaged are not the same but they are complementary.