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Gift-Giving: A Moment Of Self Reflection

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INTRODUCTION A gift or a present is an item given to someone without the expectation of payment. Usually an item is not a gift, if that item , itself , is already owned by the one to whom it is given. Although gift-giving might involve an expectation of reciprocity, a gift is meant to be free. . The memories we’ve shared with others are small gifts of self that we’ve given over the year. This moment of self reflection is a gift we give ourselves. GIFT GIVING OCCASSIONS • An expression of love or friendship • An expression of gratitude for a gift received. • An expression of piety, in the form of charity • An expression of solidarity, in the form of mutual aid. • To share wealth. • To offset misfortune. • Offering travel souvenirs. • Custom, on occasions Often, gift giving is an act of hypocrisy and bluff. …show more content…

You are going to be thinking about what they may like, what you can afford, and that making these decisions is empowering for the gift giver. When you give a gift you feel generous, it makes you feel in control , it feels you self esteem and its good for relationships, because you can come to know the person even better. A gift can give a indulgence, it helps them to feel good mentally and physically. CONCLUSION • To show thoughtfulness, love and affection. A simple gift that comes sincerely from the heart will certainly be accepted. It will create closeness with the man or woman that you love. • To welcome the arrival of a new baby, a member of the family, or a new colleague. • To present a gift of laughter. Imagine the smile and laughter of the recipient. Your gift would bring joy and uplift the spirit of the recipient. • To show cross-cultural understanding. Gifts given to persons from cultures other than your own bring peace and understanding of one

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