Ages and ages past, mankind has welcomed the coming of the new year with merry celebrations, embracing the momentous event with open arms and free spirits. Eventually, this repeated routine was cemented into becoming a worldwide tradition known today as the New Year — one of the most anticipated annual events. Beyond its festivities, the New Year is commonly associated with the coming of unforeseen opportunities. It represents a fresh start, a clean slate, a new chapter, and so on. Furthermore what makes this event so special is the fact that it demands no price nor stipulation; all people, regardless of their age, gender, race, or socioeconomic status, are all entitled to recieving the wonderful gift of a new year. With it being a symbol for …show more content…
To be frank, had it not been for this homework’s topic, I would most probably not have thought of compiling my own list of New Year’s resolutions. This New Year, I find myself longing for these three major changes within my character: that I learn the true value of humility, integrity, and empathy. Firstly, allow me utter a rather bold statement: I know myself well enough to definitively say that I struggle with pride. At times, I am even inclined to think that I am egocentric and selfish by nature. On various occasions, I allow my ego to take control of what I speak and act. This pernicious aspect of mine has rooted itself within very own character and has grown to be quite problematic. Having a great deal of trouble controlling my pride, I have long felt the need for correction, for me to keep my pride in check, if not rid of it completely. Secondly, I long to develop the virtue of integrity. A great number of people often equate integrity with honesty, which in fact is quite correct; however, I am met with a conviction, a belief that integrity is so much more than just simple honesty, similar to the relationship between compassion and kindness. To me, integrity is being firmly grounded in upright moral principles. I believe that it is the foundation by which all other good traits are built upon, and it is a state of character which is indispensable to the Christian life. Being sinful by nature, I sometimes find myself regressing back to an attitude that does not reflect what is expected of a Christian. Nevertheless, I always find myself yearning for a character of integrity. By demonstrating it in the way I live my everyday life, I have better hope for growth, both morally and spiritually. Finally, one of the most important traits I would like to have is empathy. I have long believed that empathy is what
Empathy towards others grows relationships, as Reuven
Lewis described pride as self-conceit and the opposite of humility, which seems like a reasonable definition (Lewis 121). Pride, not to be confused with an excess of self-esteem, is the greatest vice. Self-esteem is a personal evaluation of the self-concept, where a high self-esteem can be held by an array of moralities. A person do practices charity regularly may have a high self-esteem, but so may a bully. Both a truly humble person and a truly prideful person may have a high self-esteem, but the security of the esteem is drastically different.
Therefore, pride is a unattractive quality to possess as a person because you can hurt your family and friends and hurt yourself, and hurt relationships close to
When you are being empathic, you are focusing on the other person from their own perspective, not your perspective. This enables you to be more compassionate. Empathy helps you focus on the ways you are similar to others instead of fixating on differences. This makes it easier to form more positive judgments and let go of the negative ones” (Bradly). Learning to feel empathy will help others form different connections with others, it also can provide more opportunity to obtain an open
Pride is something that must be second when it comes to potential change and
In the book “Across Five Aprils” by Irene Hunt, the author makes a few statements to portray her feelings toward the war, she uses the characters and their actions to show her emotions and thoughts about it. The views on war change throughout the book, in the beginning Tom and Jethro think war is going to be so cool, but as time went on their thoughts change. I believe one of her views from the book shows that she is passionate towards war, she uses Tom to demonstrate this. Tom is a soldier, and he is very passionate about what he does for the Union.
Every individual is born with purpose and passion; however, one is also born with pride. Many people are worrying about this self-image, pride, thus letting their dreams and
“What would you do if you were eight and kidnapped?” Addie Webster knows to well what she would do. Addie was only eight years old when two strangers took her from her own home. She was vanished for half her life and when she returned it was nothing like she expected. Addies life is shown threw the book Zero Day by Jan Gangsei.
Where the Wild Things are by Maurice Sendak is an interesting children’s picture book. The main character is a little boy named Max, who has a wild imagination. He uses all five senses as well as thought and his actions to express his personality as well as how he reacts and interacts with his surroundings. Max’s id, ego and super-ego are greatly shown in this book through the way that the author has portrayed him. Not only is this book a children’s story, but it can also be perceived as a life lesson.
Desire is the need for an object, a feeling or a person. One can have a desire for something that is essential for survival, such as water or food, but desire could be used to harm others or oneself. Through A Long Way Gone by Ishmael Beah, Ishmael’s perspective of desire was altered dramatically. These desires were changed from his surroundings or events that were taking place. In the book, Ishmael was easily manipulated by his desires.
Not knowing how to control our pride and judging others will lead to destruction. So always practice the habit to be kind, listen more and accept our mistakes, in this way we will be loved by people and we will have a delightful
A wise man named Samuel Butler once said ,``The truest characters of ignorance are vanity and pride and arrogance. Does having too much pride trap or serve us? Some believe that having a healthy self-worth means taking pride in the achievements we make. But if value is linked to our self-image or accomplishments then it is built on a tenuous foundation. Pride is a characteristic proven to prevent us from acknowledging our vulnerabilities as a human.
“Two Kinds,” by Amy Tan, essentially revolves around the struggle of Jing Mei and her constant conflict with her mother. Throughout her life, she is forced into living a life that is not hers, but rather her mom’s vision of a perfect child; because her mother lost everything, which included her parents and kids, so her only hope was through Jing Mei. Jing Mei’s mom watches TV shows such as the Ed Sullivan Show, which gives her inspiration that her daughter should be like the people and actors. First her mom saw how on the television a three-year-old boy can name all the capitals of the states and foreign countries and would even pronounce it correctly. Her mom would quiz Jing Mei on capitals of certain places, only to discover that
The play “ A Raisin In The Sun “ wrote by Lorraine Hansberry is a inspiring play about the Younger family. A typical African American family in the late 1950’s trying to make life better for themselves. They’re a family trying to overcome the difficulties and obstacles that comes with being black in America in that time. Obstacles such as lynchings,segregation,racial discrimination and overall the difficulties that comes with being black in America. With external problems within the family the characters also internal conflicts within themselves.
New Year 2017 - It's Time to Celebrations It is that time of the year again where everybody is excited and humbly waiting for new year’s. New year bring so much happiness and new opportunities for every individual. It is an also a time to share your happiness with everybody and party and have a get together.