Modern women’s attitude to marriage has undergone changes. According to Radha, her love affair is nothing more than an act of defiance, and not a betrayal. She wants to express her defiance against androcentric social norms by indulging in adulterous relationships. It is her “loneliness and a funnelling need that had exploded into unbridled passion” (M 399-400). But she never had any feeling that she was committing a crime or betraying anybody by her relationship with Chris. She admits that she has robbed Shyam of his pride and has no love left for him.
Mistress highlights Radha’s courage to stand by her conviction and make her own decisions. So she has to choose whether to stay in her marriage or accept the fruits of extra-marital relationship
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For example, Shyam is not a man of virility. Likewise, Sebastian, the new recruit to the resort, though an impressive looking man is inefficient. Koman and Chris suffer from identity crisis. Chris’s long search to find the identity of his father yields him no result. Koman, though a successful artist, is a failure in life. Thus Mistress is a powerful novel which questions the patriarchal and gender stereotypes of the society.
Radha’s search for understanding and true happiness ends in disappointment. But this act helps her to realise her self and identity without the help of men or to be more precise by the rejection of both men. All that Shyam wanted was Radha’s love and acceptance and for that he accepts her back with Chris’s illegitimate child.
Towards the end of the novel Radha chooses to exercise her individuality and independence by rejecting both Shyam and Chris. She realises that she cannot live with one or the other. To her, both Chris and Shyam stand for the same values and principles and one is a shadow of the other. The desire that Radha felt for Chris gradually loses its hold on her. That is the moment when she is able to experience shaantam or peace. It is “Detachment. Freedom. An absence of desire. A coming to terms with life” (M
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They vehemently protest against their confinement in the family. They object to the traditional system of marital arrangement and value companionship in relationship. Education and exposure to western values and ways of life coupled with their sufferings have given them enormous energy to fight for their rights. They value women’s bodily experiences and are ready to throw away tormenting relationships for their emotional, sexual and psychological fulfillment.
Ancient Promises, Afterwards and Mistress reflect the attitudes of men of the post-1990s Kerala. Men treat women as objects and marital life is characterized by the absence of genuine concern and the attempt to annihilate women’s independence and initiatives. The women protagonists in these novels show remarkable courage and self-confidence to challenge the patriarchal authority. They challenge gender inequality and the patriarchal biases of the
And now he’d slipped painlessly out of Ron Franz’s life as well,” (Krakauer, 55). During this part Chris is leaving Ron. Even if Chris would have made it back we know he wouldn't have tried to keep a relationship with Ron. I think Chris would never be happy without a relationship. I feel that you have to have someone else to lean on and share your happiness to be happy.
In this novel some men are betrayed worse than others, some are dangerous to the girls. “Yolanda makes out an undertow of men's voices. Quickly she gets in
The domination of men over women is often characterized by physical and psychological victimization of women and enhancement of their misery. This male domination is not limited to any particular region or particular period but it is globalised problem of all the times. Many women writers enter the literary scene to motivate women and fight against male domination. Walker is one among these sort of writers. Alice walker in her novels portrays the world view of women and their worthy roles, as mother, sister, daughter, wife and beloved.
According to the society norms, it was very rare that a married couple were actually attracted to each other. The individuals couldn’t have gone against the society expectations so, without caring about what they really want, they followed the expectations and married whoever. This shows they could not make any individual life choices without thinking of what everyone else would have done. Not only are the social expectations based on love but also small, foolish details.
There is a distinguished balance in the relationship of women and men and it is visible in coexisting and procreating beyond themselves. In making decisions that are influenced by mistakes sometimes, one person gets the short end of the stick. In Hills Like White Elephants, the feminine role is displayed by a woman named Jig, whose feelings and thoughts get pushed aside to cater to the main male character’s wants and needs. In this case the “operation,” that cannot even be called by it’s true name or else the objective to persuade would not be met and ruin their lives. Masculine and feminine attributes have been visible in literature from the beginning of language, with the response of love and forcing one’s self to put aside: “me” for “you.”
Abstract women have been living very miserable lives throughout the history somewhere because of gender differences and somewhere base on lame excuses of religion. They do not have equal rights, freedom, opportunities as men and have been suffering gender-based violence perpetuated towards them in the male dominated society. Afghan women show great strength and resistance in the face of adverse circumstances. They have developed traumatic problems and in reaction to their problems, they have grown very resilience to the Afghan tradition and men harsh treatment. The research entitled “Trauma and Resistance of Afghan Women: A Critical Study of Khaled Hosseini’s Novel “A Thousand Splendid Suns”, was intended to critically analyze the novel to explore trauma and resistance of Afghan women.
The topic I chose to conduct my research on is the short story “The Story of an Hour”, by Kate Chopin. While reading this story the deeper meaning may not be initially apparent, but after some careful analyzation it is clear what led to Mrs. Mallard’s demise. I have chosen to conduct my research on “The Story of an Hour” because I previously studied it in my Intro to Fiction course last semester and it’s impactful message stood out. The deeper message being communicated through “The Story of an Hour” by Kate Chopin is how oppression by patriarchal forces hinders female independence.
Relationships are complicated, but can you imagine what it would have been like back in the late 1800’s and early 1900’s? Women were still expected to live in the stereotypical role where men were in charge. Men still have a lot of power, but women are becoming more and more independent. However, it is interesting to differentiate how a woman author and a man author portray relationships. In Kate Chopin’s “The Story of an Hour” and Ernest Hemingway’s “Hills Like White Elephants” there are different relationship dynamics portrayed.
Gender Inequality: A Woman’s Struggle in “The Yellow Wallpaper” In “The Yellow Wallpaper”, Charlotte Perkins Gilman captures the lives of women in a society based on societal expectations during the late nineteenth century. She focuses on the issue of gender inequality where women were often discriminated against and expected to fulfill the role of a perfect wife and mother. The narrator is based on on Gilman’s personal experience of suffering from her treatment for postpartum depression due to the social restrictions on women which represents a reflection on women's social status in society. The narrator, who remains anonymous, is depicted as a depressed and isolated prisoner who is oppressed under her husband’s control and struggles to break free.
According to this theory, nature of love is changing fundamentally and it can create either opportunities for democracy or chaos in life (Beck & Beck- Gernsheim, 1995). Love, family and personal freedom are three key elements in this theory. This theory states that the guidelines, rules and traditions which used to rule personal relationships have changed. “Individuals are now confronted with an endless series of choices as part of constructing, adjusting, improving or dissolving the unions they form with others” (Giddens, 2006). For instance, marriage nowadays depends on the willingness of the couples rather than for economic purposes or the urge to form family.
The Mimic Men (1976) has been written by V.S Naipaul with so many characters that has so many good and bad values that we can learn from it. The relationship among each characters and their attitude towards each other can be explained clearly in this novel. The protagonist and the narrator of this novel is Ranjit Ralph Singh, the main character in this novel. He is a politician and a businessman who born and raised in Isabella.
The role of women in literature crosses many broad spectrums in works of the past and present. Women are often portrayed as weak and feeble individuals that submit to the situations around them, but in many cases women are shown to be strong, independent individuals. This is a common theme that has appeared many times in literature. Across all literature, there is a common element that causes the suffering and pain of women. This catalyst, the thing that initiates the suffering of women, is essentially always in the form of a man.
This novel is also autobiographical. Throughout history, women have been locked in a struggle to free themselves from the borderline that separates and differentiate themselves from men. In many circles, it is agreed that the battleground for this struggle and fight exists in literature. In a
According to the famous sociologists Sylvia Walby, patriarchy is “a system of social structure and practices in which men dominate, oppress and exploit women”. Women’s exploitation is an age old cultural phenomenon of Indian society. The system of patriarchy finds its validity and sanction in our religious beliefs, whether it is Hindu, Muslim or any other religion. For instance, as per ancient Hindu law giver Manu, “Women are supposed to be in the custody of their father when they are children, they must be under the custody of their husband when married and under the custody of her son in old age or as widows.
Women have less to say about what they need or want but they have to pay much and also to face the results when the men around them botch. It is dreary to see these frail willed men delineated in the novel who failed to stay up for women, who recognize an overall population where women are set backs of their