Roles In Interpersonal Communication

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3. We as humans are attracted to other people because it is wired within us to do so. The brain is wired for sociability and connectedness. With relationships, it allows us to do just that. We seek out interpersonal relationships because we hope to achieve our need. These needs can include pleasure, affection, inclusion, escape, relaxation, control, and health. Pleasure is the act of engaging in conversation because it is thrilling, while affection involves hugging and touching which is a one-to-one emotion. Inclusion and escape sound contradicting in this concept but they are not. Inclusion is basically wanting to be involved and escape is talking to someone to leave the realities of life. Relaxation is similar to escape because some people …show more content…

Your roles and relationships affect your communication because a bad past relationship could lead you to guarding your emotion. I have a friend who relates to this question but I am going to change the names to Person A and Person B. For example, if Person A had been cheated on and lied to by Person B; Person A would feel betrayed and most likely not trust Person B anymore.This leads Person A to thinking that all relationships are going to end in heartbreak. By having this mindset, Person A is setting themself up for failure in the communication standpoint. They are likely to not self-disclose any information about themself to a potential partner because they do not trust them. Therefore, without any self-disclosure, a relationship cannot move further. It shows that relationship can affect …show more content…

Some elements of a good relationships are verbal skills, emotional expressiveness, conversational focus, nonverbal analysis, and conversational encouragement. More specifically, by using verbal skills a relationship is more likely avoid conflict. This is because each person is communicating what they want. Emotional expressiveness is similar to verbal skills. This is because it may involve discussing feelings during a conflict. Conversational focus is what a couple chooses to talk about. According to the textbook, females are more interested in talking about feelings than men. Nonverbal analysis is judging the other person’s nonverbal cues; while conversational encouragement is interest in the communication. Men tend to listen without expressing emotion while women use verbal

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