Because of the bullies and the kids who are getting bullied are getting involved in violent behaviors Even being out of school bullying still happens. “The greatest risk for engaging in violence related acts was found among boys who bullied others when they were away from school”. (Brodyjan,2). During break or the weekends kids still get bullied. That’s not a surprise, but who would’ve thought that the parents would teach them right from wrong.
When the bully takes it too far, the victim snaps and retaliates by fighting him/her back physically or verbally. Not many victims does this for fear of retaliation; nonetheless some victims are brave enough to fight back. The effects of bullying will affect the victim’s future as they grow up to become adults. If this issue continues, he/she has a right to report the incident or fight back their bullies. All forms of bullying, including cyber-bullying, are considered intolerable and criminal at school.
Some of the kids tell people about bullying to an adult Some keep it to themselves. As “Pete” says teens worry about they have to handle it by themselves(2). The kids also feel scored to tell anyone because they might get bullied more or they feel like no one will listen to them. If kids hold in the emotion it changes the way they think. It makes them a shell.
To begin, face to face bullying is more hurtful than cyberbullying. For example, the bullies target the students who stand out, due to their ethnicity, weight, and other characteristics, which makes that child the bullies main victim. Also, children spend more time with their peers, which could lead to a negative relationship, the effects of this are long lasting. In addition, face to face bullying causes trust issues for the victim, due to how bullies bring down their victims
Don’t just stand there stick up for the person being bullied, don’t be afraid make the person doing the bullying be afraid for you and others around you. Unfortunly I have been bullied, I did stand up for myself so did others. Yet the one thing I did to was go speak to my teacher and principle. To me at that point there was nothing left for the one who was bullying me to. Instead he was one made out to look like bad person he was.
This is due to their previous experience with adults who abused or molested them. A child who has been sexually assaulted will feel insecure in the society and feel that everyone is going to hurt them. They will have a little self-possession, feel lonely and irritated. Moreover, the child can sense helpless, fear losing control and lack of respect and trust in authority. It is impossible for them to trust anyone that easily because of the past experiences that they had.
Many kids get bullied at least a few times in their lifetime whether it be in elementary, junior high, high school, or college. Kids and teens are constantly told that they’re ugly or not good enough by bullies when, in fact, that’s not true. Sometimes people contribute to the bullying by not speaking up or by agreeing with it just because someone else said it. In the book, the goldfish “gurgled in agreement” (Yaccarino 11). Some people may just agree with the bully so that they don’t get picked on instead.
Bullying is unwanted, aggressive behavior among school-aged children that involves a real or perceived power imbalance. There are many types of bullying, which include: verbal, social, physical, and cyber-bullying. All of these include name-calling, teasing, spreading of rumors, and breaking up of friendships, hitting, punching, shoving, and Internet harassment. Bullying is a very serious action that happens every single day in the United States. Over 3.2 million students are victims of bullying each year.
These days’ children are causing more harm than good in their communities, and it isn’t their fault. In the Time Magazine article, “Children without Pity” by Nancy Traver, Traver provides examples of corrupted children performing acts that healthy kids wouldn’t do. Their misguided past has affected their present causing them to react in violent behavior. For this reason, I believe that children should not be tried as adults. Kids have only seen and grown up around violence, so violence is what they result to.
It does not just affect older people, it starts at a very young age. An example being bullying. In schools young children are bullied because of their skin color, hair, or they way they talk. Many children see this as a gateway to bully them about their ethnicity or their lifestyle. With all of these hate messages coming into the young brain, it is easy for the child to loathe them self.