This autobiography begins with Jeannette Walls, the author, taking a taxi cab to a party being hosted that day wondering if she had overdressed for the occasion. While in the taxi she sees her mother ‘rooting through a Dumpster’ and panics that she might see her and call her name. Feeling embarrassed by her mother she asks the driver to take her back home to Park Avenue. Back at home, she looks around at her comfortable life. She feels guilty and ashamed as she questions how she can live such a comfortable life in this home, while her parents ‘huddled on a sidewalk grate somewhere’. She worries about them and has even tried to help them ‘countless times’, but both have said ‘they were living the way they wanted to’. Jeannette feels guilty after …show more content…
She mentions how she enjoyed her stay in hospital because of the food and order, and she also had her own room. Eventually, her father decided it was time to checkout Rex Walls-Style, which meant not paying the hospital bills. At home, Jeannette got right back on ‘the saddle’ and started cooking hot dogs like before, however she became fascinated by fire. A few months later, her father decided it was time to leave, in the middle of the night. Jeannette comforted herself by holding the cat, but he was being fussy so Dad just threw it out, and her mother said she should not be ‘so sentimental.’ Jeannette explains how the family often did the ‘ the skedaddle’ to avoid the bill collectors, but even with the consent moving all the children were well educated and had learned many survival skills.The next section explains how their mother loved the desert and how the family ate irregularly. She mentions that her father’s plan was to find gold, the solution to their problems, using his invention the Prospector, which can then fund for the Glass Castle, but Dad had a “small” drinking problem. In section six, Jeannette shows how little she knew about her father’s past. However, she absolutely finds it romantic how her mom and dad met, contrary to her mother who felt she had to marry the guy. Jeannette’s father left the military after the marriage and her mother became pregnant with Lori. A year she was pregnant with Mary Charlene, who died of crib death. Jeannette was born two years later to replace Mary Charlene and Brian was born when Jeannette was one. Jeannette mentions how Mom never seemed to be upset over the death of Mary Charlene, but her father, however, started drinking and losing jobs after this. The section ends with how her father pawned her mother’s diamond wedding ring, and that the family has lived in
Rex and Rose Mary’s persistent laissez-faire attitude towards the children’s basic needs for safety and age-appropriate expectations are evident in stories of Jeanette’s early childhood. When Jeannette was three years old, she badly burned herself when she was making herself hotdogs to eat. Upon being asked by a nurse why she was cooking unsupervised, Jeannette replied “Mom says I’m mature and lets me cook for myself a lot”. (Walls 18). Already, at the ripe age of just three years old, Jeanette knew that if she wanted to eat, she had better grow up quick and become independent and able to care and cook for herself.
One very defining trait of Jeannette’s is that she doesn't want anyone else's pity.
The memoir opens with Jeannette, the author and main character, sitting in a taxi, wondering if she has overdressed for the evening, when she looks out the window and sees her mother rooting through a dumpster. She recognizes all her familiar gestures even as she is at times hidden by people scurrying home in the blustery March weather. It has been months since Jeannette has seen her mother, but she’s more overcome with panic that the woman will see her. She slides down in the seat and then orders the taxi to take her home again. She listens to Vivaldi, hoping the music will settle her down.
Having the feeling of a secure and normal life was more important to the Walls children, rather than having the freedom they were all so accustomed to. The children of the Walls were often faced with many challenges. The family struggled mostly financially, from their parents not acquiring a stable job and income. Most of the time, they could not even afford food to feed the children. Lori Walls, the eldest of the Walls’ children, had always seem to make security more of an important need for herself by the time she was older.
ANALYSIS Jeannette Walls, uses the rhetorical strategies of narration, description and lastly process analysis, to illustrate the idea of independence and her appreciation for the unconventional dysfunctionality of her family. Personally, my understanding of the authors take- home-idea, was how the dysfunctionality she was raised in, fostered the unconventional behavior she exuded as a child. To help with the introduction of the author take home idea of independence, she uses the rhetorical strategy of narration.
As innocent children, we grow up with intentions of being just like our mommies and daddies. We dream that one day, we can wear the same powerful red cape, that we watch our parents wear with courage and bravery on a daily basis. Sadly, not every child is fortunate enough to have superheroes as parents; some children have villains as their mothers and fathers. When the walls of naivety begin to fade away and reality comes into play, certain children have to face the harsh reality that what should be their number one supporter(s) is actually their number one offender. In A Child Called It by David Pelzer, Pelzer learns how to survive abuse from his mother, and isolation from his entire family.
Jeannette’s life was hell from the time she was born until she grew up and started realizing what she wanted to do and that was to be successful. Jeannette gets asked if she owes her success as a child or did she become a women because of her childhood. Jeannette became the women she is because of her childhood no in spite it these are the reasons why? Her Education from her parents are not school, the freedom they had, and hardship. Her education I think changed a lot she went to school , But she knew sooner or later they would move again, without her dad she wouldn’t be able to know as much information as she did going to school
As Jeannette matures her connection with her parents, particularly her father begins to diminish. Jeannette didn’t grasp that the way her parents raised them or viewed the world wasn’t normal and as she got older she recognized how selfish her parents were. Jeannette was constantly close with her father, and always showed compassion for him, but when they relocated to Welch it appeared as if her father had changed. Jeannette eventually obtained work and began to save up money so she and her siblings could survive, but her father didn’t approve and eventually sabotaged that plan. Eventually, Rex went to Jeannette and requested money from her, he did promise to pay her back.
When Jeannette tells her mother: “I was too ashamed, Mom. I hid.” (page 5) she means this in two different ways. One being because she is ashamed to say her parents are homeless while she is not. Another is because she realizes that she felt this way during her childhood because there was a way they could have prevented it, but they chose not to.
Jeannette described that this experience made her feel used by her father and gave her a sense of self-worthlessness. Rex knew that Jeannette had a soft spot for him and he took advantage of this. Jeannette has a psychological scar from this for the rest of her life, and it produced long-term effects of distrust and diminished self-worth. As a child she had been through more than most adults, and in one case she even wakes up in the middle of the night with a child molester in her bed. “One night when I was almost ten, I was awakened by someone running his hands over my private parts” (Walls 103).
She realizes what it could mean if he had found out that the Walls’ children were being neglected. “But if the child-welfare man got it into his head that we were an unfit family, we’d have no way to drive him off. He’d launch an investigation and end up sending me and Brian and Lori and Maureen off to live with different families” (Walls 194). Siblings are very commonly separated when put into the foster care system and Jeannette was scared that she would be separated from her family. Jeannette and her family would all be separated from each other and would lose family relationships which they had.
Jeannette Walls’ Memoir, “The Glass Castle”, tells a story of a dysfunctional family who uses magic, fantasy, and life lessons to get through their hectic lives. Jeannette starts off her book with such a story about seeing her mother ramming through garbage in New York City. Jeannette feels a sense of shame about her Mom’s life and begins to reflect on her childhood and how her parents’ choices affected her. If you ask me I would say it was very dramatic, which grabs your attention knowing someone is telling about their own life intrigued me to keep reading.
She struggled with how the society and her family shaped who she was. She was exposed to her family first which made her behave the way she did under her family’s house. Jeanette struggled with her family by taking care of the house, beings told bending the rules is okay and the acceptance of her Mom’s and Dad’s homelessness. When Jeannette left her family and went to live in New York, she becomes an individual. She fends for herself and gets her life together.
In her memoir, the Glass Castle, Jeanette Wall’s discusses and explores many different concepts that affected her family dynamic and her development. One of these matters is homelessness. Individuals are able to live in a stable environment, sleep in a warm bed, wear clean clothes, and enjoy proper meals; but not all of these basic needs are enjoyed by everyone and their families. This undesirable situation is portrayed in Jeannette Walls novel. Jeannette vividly depicts homelessness by exploring its causes, its impact on daily life, and its effect on her family.
After graduating middle school her friend lost touch with her and eventually left her life for good: “By the time she got to Welch High Dinitia changed.” Jeannette was also sexually harassed by one of her friends in Phoenix while playing hide-and-seek: “Billy smushed his face against mine… ‘Guess what?’Billy shouted. ‘I raped you’” Lastly, while going to school in Phoenix Jeannette was bullied for being smart and skinny: “The other students didn’t like me much because I was so tall and pale and skinny and always raised my hand too fast… A few days after I started school, four Mexican girls followed me home and jumped me in an alleyway…”