Life is not the way it’s supposed to be, it’s the way it is. The way you cope is what makes the difference.” – Virginia Satir
We all face some though times even now and then . Failures , disappointments , heartaches , and losses are an inevitable part of life . How you react to such situations and the attitude you maintain during difficult times can make a world of difference . Indeed , hard times can build you up and help you to grow and thrive . While it may seem difficult to maintain hope and faith during such times ,the following steps can help you turn your defeat into a growth opportunity .
We all have had one of those days when we felt disappointed , dejected , and hopeless . It have happened so many times . Like that one time when you worked your tail off to achieve a goal _you did your best , you worked relentlessly to make it happen , and you invested much time and energy to turn it into a reality _; and yet, despite all of that , your best does not lead to fruition . Or that time when you prayed for a miracle to happen . You maintained your faith and a positive attitude . You hoped for its manifestation .You keep looking for signs that it is arriving sooner or later .And yet , it never seems to
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Indeed , when you start viewing advertisies and setbacks as opportunities for growth , you will find a way to transform defeat into victory and to benefit from every roadblock you encounter along your life journey . William Shakespeare has once said "There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so." . That is , it is our thinking and attitude about the problem that troubles us , not the problem itself .Therefore , learn to welcome your problems with a growth and learning attitudes and to treat them as valuable lessons
This applies to everyone experiencing a life-altering event, no matter how big or how small. One must Come of Age and learn from all the circumstances that life throws at them. Don’t be the one to fall apart when life changes are made. Keep going. You can do anything you set your mind
Wild Paragraph Three Overcoming adversity requires acceptance that things must change and the determination to do so. Once that adversity has been overcome the feeling of accomplishment is even greater than imagined. In the book Wild, by Cheryl Strayed, Strayed had been hiking for awhile and realized that she started to run out of water and started to get really dehydrated. Her guide book said that there was water nearby but she didn't know if it was close enough to make it to before she might die of dehydration. She started to reflect on her accomplishments and said, “In spite and because of its hardships and I’d gotten myself into this place on my own two feet” (Strayed 195).
“There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time,” Malcolm X, and activist overcame adversity by learning from his defeat. Adversity affects our world today too. With our harsh rules and drive to be better, one must strive to succeed and overcome the hardships. While there are many qualities needed to overcome adversity, having faith, keeping composure, and receiving support are vital in order to overcome adversity.
Not everyone has a perfect life in today’s world. Many of us have gone through hardships or, are going through rocky times. Kelly Clarkson once sang,”What doesn't kill you makes you stronger” and that's exactly what i'm going to prove. Hard times don’t always destroy you and make you stronger as a person. Joe rantz, and Olympic rower for the 1936 Olympics, had many hardships in his life.
My journey through tough hope has affected me in many ways like this one. When I didn 't make the baseball team I really wanted to make. I was really upset and mad with myself for not making the team. I didn 't practice hard enough to make the team.
Life will always bring challenges, so figuring out how to get the greatest possible benefit from it should be the highest of priorities. No matter whether one accepts the adversity, fights back against adversity, or does a combination of both, the sole focus should be to get
“Yes, you can lose somebody overnight, yes, your whole life can be turned upside down. Life is short. It can come and go like a feather in the wind. ”- Shania Twain.
Going through hard times in life is what makes you who you are. Without these things you would be a completely different person. Willa Cather once said, “ The end is nothing; the climb is all.” Cather is absolutely right. Whether it be a sports game, or your sophomore year in high school the work and effort is what really counts.
After the obstacles he has overcame Walt Disney once said “All the adversity I’ve had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me… You may not realize when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.” Everyone has a time in there life where they need to get passed something that is in there way. When this time or times come everyone would find a way to get through it, whether it is asking for help or doing it on their own. When someone says the word adversity one would say you have to be hard working, determined, and strong would pop into their mind.
Learning how to face your hardships and succeed They are negative situations that can compel an impact in your life and could teach you to become better than what you are and push you to succeed in life. Tragedy and hardships act as sources of motivation for betterment and perseverance. Teenagers often have to endure hardship and tragedies that motivate them to better themselves.
The author chooses to detail five different benefits of overcoming hardships, and one quote states: “The result is enhanced concentration, peak performance, and more confidence.” The use of the noun “enhanced” shows that due to overcoming hardship, many things can be enhanced such as resilience, and in this case concentration. This supports the theme of overcoming adversity to be stronger, as you can become a better person, have a healthier mindset, and be aware of or try to prevent future hardships. The use of the noun “confidence” adds on to the statement, supporting the theme of positive self improvement. Moreover, this also proves that over the course of overcoming hardships, you gain skills and change for the
Then the fates will know you as we know you”-Abbé Faria Life has it 's ups and downs. What is important to know is how to react in a constructive fashion to your problems, so you won 't make that same mistake again. “Die? Oh, no,” he exclaimed -- “not die now, after having lived and suffered so long and so much! Die?
When times get tough and adversity is thrown at you like a curveball all you can do is stay positive and know to never give up. Unfortunately I have had to deal with a couple scenarios where I have been faced with adversity. I have had to overcome my parents being divorced, and a family member who has overcame a drug addiction. That was one of the hardest things I was ever faced with going through middle school, but knowing that there will always be a tomorrow and to not give up on someone has had a positive impact in the end. It has brought my family closer than we have ever been.
There are several quotes included in this notebook that focus on resilience. For me, I myself find that quotes also help me when I feel like I want to give up. They’re inspirational and make people feel a lot better and sometimes they even make then want to pursue what they want or need and to keep going. It could make them realise that the the situation they are in right now is not the final destination and that they can change where they are. These quotes are motivational.
In our life, there are periods of challenges that we must face, but the real challenge is how we grow and learn from overcoming them. Being naive children, we believed that life was simplistic and effortless. Well, we were wrong, we can only yearn for life to be easy. Growing up, we continue to face countless hurdles that only get bigger and bigger. My life, in particular, has been filled with numerous up and downs.