Have a kid, they said". It will be fun, they said!" Becoming a mother at 19 was the most challenging moment in my life. I absolutely adore my beautiful 19 month old son, Kasen. He is truly a blessing to me. I also believe that he will be a valuable asset to the world in the future. However, I would be completely misleading you if I were to paint a picture of my first six months of motherhood as total rainbows and sunshine. When in reality it was challenging and eventful. It definitely took some maturing, practice and support to overcome the obstacles of parenthood at a young age. Friday had finally arrived. The first day of Fourth of July weekend. It was even more exciting because by the 4th being on Monday, we got a four-day weekend. …show more content…
Between feedings every 3 hours, and 12 diapers changes a day, I was exhausted. That was just the first month. With such a small baby, there wasn’t much contact with the outside world. Our house was pretty active as I still lived home with my mom and four siblings. Kasen being the first grandchild, everyone was excited. He was the first baby in the house in sixteen years. It was the ideal life of family support, yet I was still trying to balance my days as a new mother with the demands of being a college student. I was like a car, running on fumes. As three months approached and milestones such as teething and rolling over began to surface, He still preferred nighttime conversation and day time naps. Honestly, I didn't know if the baby had his days and nights mixed up or if I had just became accustomed to life becoming one big long day. It was as if there was no way of telling where one day ended and another began. Those moments that use to be marked by rest filled pauses of unconsciousness, accented with the tranquility of peace and quiet. This road-runner lifestyle was only compounded marking the passing of time through the messy joys of Kasen learning to eat solids, being diagnosed with reflux, contracting 4 colds,3 ear infections, learning to sit-up and throwing
Higgins and her daughter moved in with her family for a year or so. Even with family available during the day to lend a hand, the nights were particularly tough. “There were many nights when I didn’t sleep at all because I was the only one there, and then I would be up all day with her,” said Higgins. “The sheer exhaustion was overwhelming.
The happily-bland day started of with people rushing around like a colony of ants working in chaotic harmony, each doing their own separate task. Busses were running their routes and taxis the same. Always in motion following a perfect routine. All of that would end with a flying crash like cymbals colliding in the air before ending on the floor with a never ending ring. “That was my first day back to work” stated Pam.
My mom and dad switched out so my dad could take a nap. After everyone finished their snacks they went to sleep. It was a quiet as a nursery at nap time. The fifth hour was nothing but “are we there yet” and excitement. We were all talking about what we would do when we got there and what there would be to do.
The awake time is considerably increased at this age. By this time, most babies take just 1-2 naps a day, which last for 1-2 hours and they sleep for about 10-12 hours through the night. Babies become really active during this age and crawl around to explore new things. Physical activity is very important for their development and for them to have a sound
Jason 5 The Worst Hard Time The Worst Hard Time The Worst Hard Time, written by New York TImes’s Timothy Egan in 2006. The book takes place during a time called “The Dirty Thirties” or “the Great American Dust Bowl” a time which spanned about 10 years with very severe dust storms and drought, which estimated to have caused over $30 billion dollars worth of damage by today’s standards. The dust storms, however, were not the result of mother nature but rather the result of the industrializing world and surplus of crops which flooded the market, soon after farmers were unable to make the profit from selling their crops and slowly lost money until they could not afford to keep their land fertile. Thus causing a barren wasteland where their crops were.
Motherhood feels like a prison sentence. I can't wait until I am paroled when my son turns 18 and hopefully goes far away to college.” The mentioned secret confessions explain the reason for many parents, especially mothers, to regret having children. Mothers require to devote all the leisure time to taking care of children, so they do not have time to enjoy different things in their lives. As a result, stationary life makes many mothers feel stressed and
Victoria was an overall great child although we did experience some bumps in the road. Luckily I chose a great style of parenting in which Victoria and myself could grow and learn in a healthy and positive environment. I also realized that parenting is not such an easy thing and that there are many things that go into helping a child develop and grow. Victoria had some bumps in the road growing up. Victoria had almost gotten off on on the wrong foot because of my job, but I quickly changed
As time passed, I seemed caught in a rigid routine. When I woke, my crazies made it hard to shower. During the day, I worked as an accountant for two small businesses in town. After work I came home, got high, and sat alone in my house. At night I watched Johnny Carson, and on the weekends, I visited my Aunt Claudia.
Most transformative moments in life can be caused by the smallest of occurrences in life. Often people do not even realize that a pivotal moment in their life is happening. Someone may realize when they are mature enough that there was one special moment during their childhood that ultimately determined their lifelong goal. For others, they probably realized an “aha” moment right when it happened and from then on decided that they knew what they want to accomplish later on. I actually have taken from both sides of the spectrum from realizing that one special transformative moment but also not even knowing that it would end up steering me towards my current career choice.
It’s difficult to pinpoint a specific moment in one’s life in which your life is transformed. We often realize that this moment is so signingagent when looking back on personal experiences and don’t realize it at the time. For me, this moment occurred when I realized that I had taken what I love most for granted. It all started back in 2004 when my family suggested that I get into a sport at a young age.
Becoming a father in my life was the best thing that has ever happened to me. Living for someone else and not just yourself is a special feeling. Knowing that it is your sole duties in life are now to love, provide, teach, mentor, discipline and love some more. I always hear people say “ Im don 't think I 'm ready to be a parent.” and to be honest I do not think anyone is ready to be a parent.
I am so happy to be a mom and Damonte is so happy about being a dad. We have fallen more in love with each other
Then 9 months later on February 16, 1999, at 3:10 am my precious son came out of my womb and placed on my chest. It was the most amazing experience ever, but also extremely exhausting thing ever! I was in the hospital for about another week till the doctor told me to go home, funny thing is that I got discharged on my birthday February 21, 1999, which I turned 16. At first, it felt like being a mother was easy, but in reality, it wasn 't because I also had to go to school plus he would always wake me up in the middle of the night, and be in an extreme of exhaustion. I started missing school more and more till I finally dropped out.
Babies have REM sleep and not deeper non-REM sleep, meaning they wake up easily, besides they have not adapted to the night day system and so tend to sleep more during the day and active at night. As a mother, you have to make sure that the baby has a quiet sleep for good health by creating a good, clean and quiet environment. Behavior Babies cannot talk but still in case of any discomfort or need for attention, they will communicate. They show different behavior to express how they feel. For the first one month, the most common is crying, it could be out of irritation because of the wet diaper or hunger.
Raising a child is full of surprises. No matter how many books, parenting forums, and Dr. Sears articles you read, nothing can completely prepare you for becoming a parent. If I could go back to before my daughter was born and tell myself what I didn’t know I would experience, this is what I would say. 1. Making a Baby Isn’t as Easy as It Sounds