We often base our assumptions off of hypothesizing how someone else might feel or react in a certain situation. Yet we do not have the same point of view, or the same feelings which makes assumptions a dangerous thing. The Golden Rule might work in a certain situation and that will give you respect and confidence towards that person. However, you cannot always know what that person feels or want. People constantly “help” others in the way that they themselves would want to be helped, but the other person does not feel helped at all, because it is not the way that they want to be
Lying to someone in a wrong way or for your own good is not right because you would not be the person’s true best friend and plus you are not doing your own work. When you lie to someone and after some while that person finds it out, the trust between each other would not be there. I agree in some cases you have to lie for someone else which is totally fine because that is not good for you but good for someone else. I think lying and using someone else is wrong because you should be doing your own work and also the trust between each other won’t be
PART B Two of my important values are respect and kindness. Respect is where I look up on someone or who have more experiences than me like people who are older than me but that does not mean that I do not respect younger people. To me, whoever respect me, I will respect them. Kindness is when I see and feel that when someone is in need for help but feel embarrassed to ask, I will feel bad for them if i do not help them when they are in need of help. Although some people will not ask for my help even though they need it, I will try my best to help them out or at least try.
Due to the really different backgrounds and cultures among us, some people may think that they should protect their own cultures so that they do not listen to others’ opinions. This is normal phenomenon because nobody wants their culture being offended. If we cannot properly deal with cultural diversity, it may influence the relationship and trust building among people. Additionally, if we visit to other countries, it is better to respect and follow their cultural norms and rules so that we will not give a bad image or impression to the local people. Otherwise, it may cause conflicts between people which is not good for promoting cultural diversity.
I’m studying not because I want to but because I need to. It’s not bad to feel the pressure but too much of it can lead to personal problems. That is why I learned that I should study not because I need to but because I want to. “Follow your dream. Don’t study something you know you’re bad at and follow your passion”.
What is a body language? Furthermore, I believe that my nonverbal language helps me to get attention from others, which is an outstanding strength to succeed in communication job. Communicators never want to lose attention from audience. OWN EXPERIENCE? For instance, when doing a presentation, no ones such as communicators, of course, will fail in their presentations because not many people feel interested in the contends of speech since the communicators lack of expressing the body language.
For me i wasn’t wrong choosing to come to college because i saw a lot of my friends that are decided to get married in a young age instead of going to college. I don’t feel guilty because i am in college right now. If i wasn’t in college i might get married, have a family or live a different life. When your decision that you made are actually happened and looking back to what would have happened if i choosing the different path that i choose right now are so different. I always want to come to college and learn more english and making out with new friends, but on the other hand if i was choosing a different path at that moment i might get married and have a lot kids already and stay home.
In conclusion you can learn to not get judged by understanding topics that your friends like, speaking with confidence, and by ignoring people. If you understand topics that your friend like then they will want to talk to you. If you speak with confidence then people will think that you know what you’re talking about. You can also just ignore people so they will stop bothering you. You shouldn’t judge others so people can feel equal and so they don’t have conflicts with someone because that someone could be your friend.
This phrase does not mean anything. Many people are afraid of death. The will does not die in the human courage and bravery, but also does not show and cowardice. "You really think so. You do not really want to die. "
There is the risk of being ridiculed, because how do I know that someone will not take advantage of this to make fun at my expense and highlight their sense of humor. Although the courage is taking action in a certain way, despite the risk of negative consequences, nevertheless it is the understanding what causes any form of courage. I understand that there is less damage to endure ridicule and criticism than to constantly hide weaknesses and to live in fear of revealing my secrets to the world. Courage is the act originated from the understanding that there is nothing to lose but everything to gain. When you understand that, you can not, not to be brave.