Mad Hot Ballroom, directed by Marilyn Agrelo, is a documentary filmed in New York City. Throughout the film, students and faculty of elementary schools teach a ten-week ballroom dancing course in preparation for a city wide competition. Unbenounced to the children, simply by being themselves, they would be teaching their audience a valuable lesson about adolescence, socialization, and institutions. Throughout the film there were a handful of behaviors that one would consider typical for the age group portrayed; since it was elementary students, likely fifth grade, the majority of the children were 10 and 11 years of age. The more typical behaviors of children these age that were noted upon in the film include the hesitancy to partner up with the opposite sex, the uncertainty about looking their partner in the eyes, the biases in picking partners, …show more content…
Watching this film allowed me to compare and contrast my experience with those of the children. Regarding sexuality and opposite sex partners, my class was composed of all girls; we were called the Light Body Dancers. Like these kids in New York, we practiced rather frequently, but we didn’t have to prepare for any competition at the end of it; all we had to prepare for was a performance. In some ways, this was a better experience than the children had in New York; although I do realize that some of the kids’ families, the ones at the Washington Heights school in particular, can’t afford to be sending their children to a private dance class. That being said, I believe a lot of the children in New York were extremely proud of their work and their performance, until they were labeled as a winner or a loser. It seemed by the majority of their reactions that they dismissed how well they did once they found out they hadn’t won. Simultaneously, I believe that the competition, especially not winning, prepares them for adult-like life
When you are dancing, there are many things you can channel; emotions, memories, people, experiences, stories, the list goes on and on. These properties can be portrayed through movements, facial expressions, and music. Dancing can also portray conflict; such as the conflict between Ponyboy Curtis and Darry Curtis in S.E. Hinton’s beloved novel, The Outsiders. In our dance piece, titled, Hard to See, both the music and movements work in harmony to illustrate Darry and Ponyboy’s maturing relationship.
In the sentence before, the author mentions how the skilled players get slighted in terms of treatment because they get the same rewards as everybody lower skilled. The message “We are all winners” will become ingrained into kid’s minds because that
Other people are defending the claim of children should not get rewarded with a participation trophy, while Vivian Diller says in his article, Do We All Deserve Gold? " Perhaps if we offered the gold, silver, and bronze for actual achievements, kids would learn lessons that better served their needs as adults. Perhaps if we let them lose and teach them to congratulate those who win, we would help them build the motivation and endurance needed to face real-life challenges. " Having motivation for the winners to keep on trying is needed when playing a sport; In that regard, that idea is being forgotten as we give away more participation
After attending a children’s talent show, Sone became enthralled by dancing. So much so that she wanted to take lessons, her mother agreed with her that it was a good idea. Her father had a different opinion, he strongly disapproved as he associated dancing with immoral and scandalous behavior, telling her mother “ ‘I’d die of disgrace if my daughter were to appear that like in public’ (p. 45).” Her life was impacted by his preconceived ideas of what was appropriate for a young girl, and since he was the ‘man of the house’ his ruling was
The adults in Salem, Oregon in Stephen Karam’s Speech & Debate had good reason to treat the teens as if they were children. If Diwata, Solomon, and Howie were an accurate representation of the other students at the school, it is no wonder that the parents, teachers, and school board sought to exercise an abundance of control and provide too much guidance in their lives. The three teens dealt with “grown-up” issues throughout the play, but they tried to tackle them in characteristically childish ways. In the opening scene of the play, viewers are introduced to Howie, an openly gay 18-year-old.
Life is Not Given You're in the semifinals if you win you go to the championship game, but you lost. Should you really get a trophy for trying your best, but still losing?There is a heated debate between rather kids should receive participation trophies or not. I think that kids should not receive an award for showing up. You should not be rewarded for trying at something you signed up for.
If some kids receive a trophy for winning and the others don't, then that makes kids try even harder to win the trophy next time. Knowing that someone is better than you makes you want to work harder and achieve a higher level, and if it does not make you work harder, then maybe you are playing the wrong sport. When your child wins a trophy, they will find it as a reason to not practice because they believe they are at a high enough level. If your child did not receive a trophy, they would most likely get sad, but if they truly want to win, then they will want to continue practicing and get better so that they receive a trophy. Parents that disagree with participation trophies want their children to play because they want to, not because they will get a trophy.
In Amina Gautier’s “Dance for Me” an African-American adolescent girl that attended a private school passed through different physical and emotional changes to fit in society. The girl is the narrator, her name is never mentioned clearly, she said that her first name was a last name. At the beginning, she started describing uniforms from different schools, and also how girls from other schools were classified. One day, she was in the bathroom trying to roll her skirt like the other girls in the school when a girl called Heather, who was a white girl, started to talk to her and asked her to show a famous dance called the Running Man. Weeks later, many different girls requested her to teach the dance, and she never rejected because she was becoming
There is a lot of controversy on whether or not participation trophies send a powerful or dangerous message. The truth is they send a dangerous message. In the article “Participation Trophies Send a Dangerous Message” by Betty Berden, the argument highlights how participation trophies can send the wrong message to young athletes. Young athletes should not get a reward for doing the bare minimum.
Therefore, their grades in school should be honest in order to reveal what their strengths are and what they need to improve on. No matter what age, society must tell the next generation that winning is not a healthy goal. Instead, when learning, children should focus on making milestones and steps rather than just reaching the ultimate goal. Grades and trophies are just part of that process and are only useful if used with thought and
My sister and I were put in ballet classes, an extracurricular activity fit for females, while my brother was taught karate lessons. My teen years, however, changed the way I perceived sexual discrimination. Suddenly, I realized how
Although, Betty mentions that both las chicas and the preps were sexually active, only las chicas were seen as too sexually active. In other words, their performances became to be reduced as sexual and racial differences, but not on differences in class. According to Betty, this impacted las Chicas, not only in their educational setting, but also on their class futures. For instance, Betty claims that since the school personal saw las chicas’s performance as oversexualized, they placed them on
Throughout his journeys from his poor Indian reservation to a neighboring all-white school, Arnold Spirit, the main character in The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian by Sherman Alexie, learns various life lesson; Junior’s experiences on and off the reservation positively impact his life and help him understand that he shouldn’t be afraid to be different, don’t lose hope or he won’t succeed, and to follow his dreams, even if others disagree. One of the life lessons Junior learned throughout his experiences was don’t be afraid to be different. In the chapter ‘Dance, Dance Dance’ Junior has to wear his Dad’s old suit to the school dance. He believed everyone would make fun of him for being different.
Children are playing just to win and the real spirit of the game fades out. (Word count: 196) Response I strongly agree with the point of Jessica Statsky in “Children Need to Play, Not Compete”. The way Statsky explains the facts by referring to other people is not questionable. The parents forcefully ask their children to join sports for the development of their bodies and mind.
When you you win you feel accomplished happy and proud depending on your hard work and you fell recognized. I have felt that way. Even If you don’t win “you can learn many valuable lessons like the fact you can't win every