Sometimes situations arise that make even the strongest people feel weak. The main motivator that keeps us going is persistence and resiliency. Being able to stay strong and find peace through difficult times seems impossible to the average person, but under extreme circumstances, the human spirit can be stunningly extravagant. Works like Into Thin Air by Jon Krakauer and “Master of My Fate” by James Stockdale are just two examples of people persevering through horrible circumstances and making it out alive. Persistence and resiliency are intertwined and are a key factor to human sanity. Persistance leads to resiliency because when people like Jon Krakauer and James Stockdale were put into hostile situations where they needed to rely on their …show more content…
He believed he was doing fine and was able to make it out of Vietnam completely sane due to his beliefs. “Epictetus once gave a lecture to his faculty complaining about the common tendency of new teachers to slight the stark realism of Stoicism 's challenges in favor of giving the students an uplifting, rosy picture of how they could meet the harsh requirements of the good life painlessly. Epictetus said: "Men, the lecture-room of the philosophers is a hospital; students ought not to walk out of it in pleasure, but in pain."If Epictetus's lecture room was a hospital, my prison was a laboratory, a laboratory of human behavior. I chose to test his postulates against the demanding real-life challenges of my laboratory.” James talks about a man from ancient rome to whom he looks up to almost like a childhood teacher or family member. He makes an analogy of his current situation in the prison is like if he were at a lab of human emotions. Even if James had a strong aversion to the people torturing him, he kept using his belief system and connected himself to statements from Epictetus to his own mental sanctuary amongst the virulent pain. Using the beliefs system of Stoicism, James Stockdale was able to stay strong and resilient while he was being tortured in vietnam. He found a way to persistently follow Epictetus’ …show more content…
In “How to be resilient” Maria Konnikova describes how people can develop resiliency after going through a lot of struggles, such as loss, neglect and so forth. In “The lady in number 6”, the old woman, Alice Herz-Sommer, describes how after knowing that it is almost certainly death after being put in a prison camp, she wanted to spend the last moments of her life being happy. She found small things to be grateful for, the world was her trove, and she kept telling herself to stay strong. The human spirit, filled with resiliency, telling her to stay strong is what she says is the reason she made it out alive. “Calmness is strength” is a statement from Alice herself that was her motto to staying alive while death was face to face, sitting right next to her. By “Calmness is strength”, Alice is saying that if she were to cower from the emotions inside of her she may have been killed because it would have showed she was weak, and was an easy target. “When you come up from hell, you see what matters” is another quote from alice, but this time describing her life after the events in the prison camp had occurred. In this quote she is talking about how after being in a dangerous environment where she was thankful for every day she was able to
In the short story “Life and Death” the lives of the two main characters, both named Wes Moore, were extremely identical. Suddenly, everything changed when one of them made a mistake that led to his imprisonment while the other one became a successful businessman. Well, if you are wondering how that happened it is because of 2 words “ Being resilient ”.The different outcomes happened because of access to opportunities, supporting systems, and willingness to take responsibility for their actions and learn from their mistakes. First off, Wes Moore's success was largely a result of his access to nice opportunities.
Adversity can bring out the positive and negative sides in a person. In “The Proof of Worth,” Edgar Albert Guest demonstrates how challenges in life can help someone understand what he or she is capable of during a hardship. Similarly, “The Importance of Adversity in Growth and Development” written by Patrick Kohan exemplifies how children will never learn how to conquer an obstacle if they are always given assistance. Additionally, Laura Hillenbrand’s novel, Unbroken, indicates that experiencing problems can affect the way a person’s body reacts and thinks about a difficult moment. Ultimately, the authors highlight that obstacles can be a complex or helpful task, as well as assist people in the future when they need to know their true
Throughout Commander Stockdale’s time in prison, the coping mechanisms that he used to keep his faith and discipline helped keep his men alive, while reflecting great courage on himself and his fellow aviators. During Stockdale's time in prison like Epictetus before him, he credits Stoicism as his ability to persevere through pain and the terrible conditions imposed on him by the Viet Cong. Stockdale ability to use the Stoicism philosophy assisted him in keeping faith with his fellow prisoners, as well as the Code of Conduct as it states in Article IV, “…If I am senior, I will take
Helen Keller once said "...although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it." This quotation means that in life, you come to find yourself in many struggles, but there is always a sense of accomplishment over such problems. The reason I agree with this quote is because such triumph can only be accomplished after the fact of the occurrence of a struggle. The realistic fiction book, Speak, by Laurie Halse Anderson, is a perfect example of my interpretation of the quote. The author uses conflict, figurative language and characterization to show that this quote is true.
The determination to live comes from human nature. But the urge of giving up when we come across a difficult problem is also a part of human nature. There a few people in this world that have the characteristics of resilience. As author Kendra Cherry describes them, "People that are able to keep their cool have what psychologists call resilience, or an ability to cope with problems and setbacks" (Source A; Cherry, 1). An example of someone who has the characteristics of resilience is a bombardier name Louis (Louie) Zamperini.
People want to believe that they will survive no matter what and having hope helps with that. These quotes are good examples of hope pushing people till the end. From the quotes, Hope has proven to be a splendid tool to help those in need. Hope can help people through the toughest challenges in life.
Father Boyle shows this by quoting a holy spiritual monastic tradition that says "the highest form of sanctity is to live in hell and not lose hope". This shows how important it is to hold onto faith in the darkest of times even the smallest amount of hope helps one to not lose focus and want to give up. Allowing yourself to believe in faith and staying true will also build your resilience to stay on track. Father Boyle uses the quote "Resilience is born by grounding yourself in your own loveliness" to explain the need to be resilient and how to build it. The quote shows how its key to be one with yourself and not lose hope, this will give one the strength and keep them sane in order to create resilience.
Timothy Findley explores an individual’s struggle to keep a sense of resilience while
The three-time United States Track and Field Olympic champion, Gail Devers once said, “Sometimes we fall, sometimes we stumble, but we can’t stay down. We can’t allow life to beat us down. Everything happens for a reason, and it builds character in us, and it tells us what we are about and how strong we really are when we didn’t think we could be that strong.” In the non-fiction book Unbroken, by Laura Hillenbrand, protagonist Louis Zamperini demonstrates his everlasting perseverance through his everyday actions. Like Devers believed, the resilient Zamperini refused to be defeated or demoralized and did everything in his power to keep his feet on the ground and his chin up.
“No matter how much falls on us, we keep plowing ahead. That's the only way to keep the roads clear.” the wise Greg Kincaid says. This explains resilience and that you can overcome bad situations with hard work and perseverance. In A Raisin in the Sun, by Lorraine Hansberry, this kind of resilience connects with Beneatha Younger.
Endurance of Survival What do we do in a world that is so cold, inhospitable and desolate? The Road is a book that Cormac McCarthy has written which is about a father and son struggling to survive the post-apocalypse. In a world where the dominance of inhumanity takes over, a son and father go through privation and destitution to make the best of what they have got left until they reach their destiny. Trust no one and be adamant on your goal to survival, love family to the fullest because in the end they are all we have left. Keep going no matter what hardships you have to face, struggling is the key to survival.
“Perseverance isn’t one long race; it is many short races one after the other.” - Walter Elliot. When someone is facing their idea of impossible, they must overcome many small bumps in the road and when they get over that small bump it can make them believe in themselves and make them stronger as a person. But perseverance can be well worth it in the end. Through determination, we can learn why perseverance is essential to making us stronger both mentally and emotionally, but we can’t just understand why but also how perseverance help in making us the strongest people we can be.
Fate, by definition, is the universal principle by which the order of things is seemingly prescribed. (Webster) Essentially, fate is events that are inevitable that we have no power to change. It is debatable that fate exists among everyone; however, humans are subject to making their own choices- free will. No matter what choices people make, they do not change our fate.
Hardy, Concato & Gill (2004) stated that resilient people are those who display “the capacity to remain well, recover, or even thrive in face of adversity”. Masten (2001) as mentioned that they are the ordinary person dealing with the challenges and tragedies of everyday real life. For instance, the response of many Americans to the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks and individuals’ efforts to rebuild their lives shows their resiliency. Being resilient does not mean that a person does not have or had experience difficulty or distress; the emotional pain and sadness are common but the path to resilience is likely to involve considerable emotional distress. Resilience is not a trait which people either has or do not have whereas it involves
Erasmus Mundus Master in Social Work with Families and Children 4th edition - 2016-2018 1st Semester Name: Rojika Maharjan 1. Social work has evolved with different “theories in social work”; either concepts derived from other social sciences such as psychology or sociology or “theories for social work” which are the core philosophy of social work practice specified to give a professional purpose and approach to practice (Healy, 2014). a) Regarding the context of children and families, system theory and strength theory are appropriate. i)