An Open Letter to Women
In Maya Angelou’s Even the Stars Look Lonesome, she writes, “The ax forgets what the tree remembers”. Such a powerful and true statement directly relates to my topic today. Sexual assault is a provocative and uncomfortable topic. Not only does it silence its victims, but those who are not victims turn silent as well. Nevertheless, we can no longer be silent.
Sexual assault is any type of sexual contact or behavior that occurs without the explicit consent of the recipient. Sexual assault continues because we do not believe it could ever happen to us. Statistically, 1 in 6 women have experienced attempted or a completed rape. 80% of girls and women raped were victimized by someone they knew - this is known as Acquaintance Rape.
In 2012, Saratoga High School sophomore, Audrie Pott passed out after drinking at a party. Three boys, two with whom she attended high school with, took off her clothes and sexually assaulted her. Ten days later, she hanged
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Activists have come to a strong conclusion that sexual education must be introduced to students before they become sexually involved. Today’s sex education needs to cover more than teenage pregnancies and diseases. It must include open discussions on what consent and sexual violence is. Learning how to ask for, give, and hear consent are skills that need to be taught, learned, and applied. However, this will not fully eliminate the issue. It is not enough to punish the perpetrators of rape and sexual assault. Moreover, it is not enough to include the discussion of consent in sex-education classes. The answer lies in education and early intervention. My goal today standing in front of you is not to shame you. My goal is to spread awareness of sexual violence that girls of all ages face. I didn’t make up the statistic 1 out of 6. And maybe you didn’t know it until today. But that you do, it exists and it can no longer be
Melinda is an outcast. Everyone, including her now ex-best friend, hates her after she calls the cops at a party. Why? She was raped. In the novel Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson, the author depicts a frighteningly real story about the fictional character Melinda.
However, even though they are usually not the ones at fault, nothing is ever said about the event. In a report by the Bureau of Justice Statistics, it was found that 75 to 77 percent of sexual assaults, attempted rapes, and completed rapes were never reported (“Sexual Assault and Rapes”). Furthermore, the blame of the whole event was never put on the person responsible. Instead, the victim was blamed for not denying the advances, or for not making themselves clearer in their intents(“Sexual Assault and Rapes”). This huge chip to carry often leaves the victims feeling isolated, scared, full of shame, depressed, and with a low self-esteem(“Sexual Assault and Rapes”).
Most teenagers complain about not having enough freedom. To be able to sit and eat ice cream out of the box at ten in the morning for breakfast or blast their favorite music as loud as possible. For most, college provides that, opening its campus to their students with gates of gold granting young adults the freedom that they dream about. Unfortunately, a new danger that once was cloaked from young minds is being revealed, making this freedom less obtainable. That danger is rape.
Sexual assault has been a controversial issue over a long period of time, with many new laws taking place all over the world. In this essay, we will be discussing the changing of laws & attitudes surrounding sexual assault in NSW over the past 4 decades. Sexual assault is the sexual contact or behaviour towards an unconsenting indivual, for example; unwanted kissing or touching. This also includes rape, incest, child abuse etc. In NSW sexual assault is heavily prohibited under the Crimes Act 1900.
Emma Sulkowicz was allegedly raped as sophomore in college at Columbia university. She states that it started off as a consensual sexual encounter, but then she was anally raped. After eight months and hearing from two other girls that had been sexually assaulted by the same man, she went and filed a complaint with the university. The man that was accused was found “not responsible” by the school. This lead Emma to take matters into her own hands and she started the Mattress Performance which was where she would carry her fifty pound mattress with her wherever she went until the accused either left the school or was kicked out.
In society and college campuses, sexual assault occurs quite frequently. According to an estimation one third of women experience a forced sexual experience at least once in their life and most of the time it occurs in colleges. Men have also been reported to be victim of sexual assaults mostly by other men. Most of the time the sexual assault is planned and perpetrated by a third person, who is known to the victim of incident. Drug and alcohol use play role in this issue and contribute to the problem as most of the time the victim and perpetrators are under the effect of alcohol or any other drug during the incident.
In today 's society rape is prevalent and people need to be educated about it. For this I do
Sexual encounters is a touchy subject and often poses many questions that create controversy. Time and time again there are cases of women, and occasionally men, who have been raped or sexually assaulted by those close to them and arguments that say because they were acquaintances that it was not rape. Rape is defined as “the penetration, regardless of how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of someone else without the consent of the victim”( ). Now with that being the Federal Bureau’s definition of rape, that term holds so much power that its interpretations are just as wide as its definition. With stories of cohesion, when someone is being pressured into sex, stories of under the
However, from the late 1970s through 2008, rape and sexual assault rates, as measured by the National Crime Victimization Survey, steadily declined (Mears, 2010, p. 82). This survey, however, does not consider all crimes that are considered sexual crimes. There is no existing data on all the various crimes that could be considered sexual crimes. Over the past 30 years, according to a new
According to the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network, another person endures sexual assault every 98 seconds. This information may have been shocking ten years ago, but for many, this news is a basic fact of life. Sexual assault cases have continued to become more and more common as time goes on. What is causing this surge in unwanted physical contact? The cause of sexual assault is one hundred percent of the time, the assaulter’s fault.
Nearly one in five women surveyed that they had been raped or had experienced a rape attempt once in their lives. If you are unsure what rape means I will provide you with a simple definition, Rape is unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration by another person without your consent. While according
Maya Angelou worked as a professor at Wake Forest University, in Winston-Salem, North Carolina, from 1991 to 2014. As an African American women, one whose life was full of racial discrimination and gender inequality, she had plenty of experience and wisdom to share with her students. During her time working at the university, she taught a variety of humanities courses such as “World Poetry in Dramatic Performance,” “Race, Politics and Literature,” “African Culture and Impact on U.S.,” and “Race in the Southern Experience” (Wake Forest University,
Rape culture is an idealist social norm that desensitizes sexual violence. When most people think of sexual violence they think of women being assaulted, but rape culture involves men being assaulted too. Rape culture has also changed the meaning of “no”, which in this society can mean “maybe” or “try harder” leaving both people wondering whether consent was actually given. The miscommunications and the ideals that are being taught about rape have led to the many problems that are caused in rape culture today. Heben Nigatu, Jessica Testa, and Ryan Broderick did a good job with their argument based on the pathos, however could have given better logos than what was used in this article.
Sexual assault and sexual abuse are two common types of sexual violence. Sexual assault is a sexual act that could be committed by anyone no matter what kind of relationship they have with the victim. Sexual abuse is an undesired sexual behaviour that was forced upon a person; sexual abuse can be possible to happen for any gender and at any age. So, in case you don’t know sexual assault can be a touch on somewhere you don’t want anyone to touch For example, your thigh, neck...
Learning to respect a woman or mans wishes regarding to having sex or not should be taught. 50 nos and a yes should not mean yes until that person is fully ready and means it. When a person says no regarding the situation that should be end of the topic. Learning that no means no in a sex ed class could potentially help with ending sexual violence. Respecting a person wishes keeps him/her from doing something they did not want to do, they solely did it to make the other person happy and that’s not right.