Women Are From Venus

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Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a book written by John Gray. He is an American author and relationship counselor .The book has sold more than 50 million copies and according to CNN it was the "highest ranked work of non-fiction" of the 1990s.
Best seller is the most suitable title to the novel men are from mars and women are from venus.Its a really splendid work from John Gray. The book was first published in 1992 and from the time onwards it’s a real sensation. It’s also notable that his next book is titled why mass and Venus collides essentially designed with some suggestions to improve the relationship of men and women in a stressful life situation.

As the title itself is a symbolically refers some inborn differences between
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He views that men need trust acceptance and appreciation while women are urgently in need of caring with love, understanding and respect.

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus starts by explaining the inborn differences between men and women. The famous author, Dr. Gray starts the book by making a comment on the phenomena that men mostly don’t ask for advice unless they have no more choice other than to seek for advice.
Furthermore in his book Dr. Gray also examines how men and women deal with stress. If men are bothered they always try to get isolated. In the other hand women have tendency to discuss their problems and issues they face. A woman normally ask question when the men starts behaving differently where as the man usually will get irritated by the woman 's inquiries when he tries to get alone and face with his stress by himself.
In addition the book extends with how to inspire the opposite sex. Dr. Gray reveals about how men feel motivated when are needed, while women feel motivated when they feel appreciated. Dr. Gray also indicate about the rubber band theory where men tend to get isolate when stressed, should be given sufficient time for him to recover and come back and also if women pulls too tightly the coming back may not be that
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Based on years of successful counseling of couples, he gives advice on how to counteract these differences in communication styles, emotional needs and modes of behavior to promote a greater understanding between individual partners. Gray shows how men and women perform differently in conversation and how their relationships are affected. He encourages readers to accept the other gender 's particular way of expressing love, and helps men and women learn how to fulfill each other 's emotional needs.
With practical suggestions on how to reduce conflict, crucial information on how to interpret a partner 's behavior and methods for preventing emotional "trash from the past" from invading new relationships, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus is a worthy tool for couples who want to develop intense and more satisfying relationships with their partners.
Being married for a couple of years and having some experienced ,I recommend all the couples to read this book which will help to improve the relationship much more better. I believe this is the best book to read if you are looking forward to a successful married
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