The Importance of Moderation
People often think that the more you have, the better and easier your life will be. In Part I, Chapter II of David and Goliath written by Malcolm Gladwell, he argues that it is more important to find a healthy balance, than have either extreme. Things are good in moderation. Having more did not make David win against Goliath, although it seems like it should have; having a lot of money does not make parenting any easier; And having less kids does not make a school better. One way M.G shows the importance of moderation, is by sharing the story of David and Goliath. David and Goliath are a great example of moderation because of the difference in their preparation for the battle. For example, Goliath wore an excessive
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That was some heavy armor! He also had “greaves of brass upon his legs, and a arget of brass between his shoulders… and the staff of his spear… weighed six hundred shekels of iron: and one bearing a shield went before him.” Due to all his heavy armor, he was weighed down and could not move very fast. In the Philistine’s mind, there was no way he would lose because of his size, and his armor. He was their largest and strongest soldier. It was a sure win. I was asked to give a talk a couple years ago, and decided to write everything down. Even down to the smallest detail. What I thought would help me in the end, ended up making it so I was not able to connect to the audience in the way that I had hoped. I thought that by overpreparing, I would do better, but that was not the case. David on the other hand didn’t come over or under prepared. He …show more content…
He tells us about how hard it would be for his children to learn all of these important lessons. He was worried that his children wouldn’t understand the meaning of work, or the value of money. They wouldn’t get to make their own way in t the world because of his success. They wouldn’t learn to work hard, or have their father tell them off for leaving the lights on. He realized how hard it would be to bring his kids up. He recognized that you need to find a balance in the middle. Not challenged economically, but not “living courtside” either. M.G then goes on to explain how “money makes parenting easier until a certain point.” He shows a parent-income graph, which shows us that $75,000 is where it peaks, before it starts getting harder again. I had a similar experience when my parents offered to pay for tuition for 4 semesters. I was extremely grateful, and instead of having more money saved up for college, I ended up spending more of my money. I spent a lot more money than I would have, instead of saving more up, because I knew I wouldn’t have to worry about tuition. At least for now. Going back to the story, the father talked about his upbringing. He talked about how hard it was for him growing up. He grew up in an impoverished area and had to work very hard. He worked several jobs, and always worked very hard. He made smart choices whenever he did spend his money. He lived
David didn’t go out with armor and swords, we went out on the battlefield with a sling and rocks. Casey went
He had a dream, and he fulfilled his dream, even if it meant he died in the process. Not only did this impact the people he met, but he was a genuine guy, and pleasant to be around, the complete opposite of what you’d expect from a homeless hitchhiker. Not only did his personality and morals impact the surrounding lives, but the fact that nobody knows his background or where he came from made people
His one only child of a drunk man and strong willed mother. He was raised in poverty even though sometimes he was taken to his mother family which they were a wealthy family. When he was 10 his family moved to New York at the age of 14 he started going to college supported himself writing novel and routine. While he was in New York he developed an interest for moral and social justice.
One time, after a day picking cotton the man they were selling to just took their haul without paying. Being black, they had no recourse, they just had to accept it. They often could not afford basic necessities like shoes. In spite of this, his dad was extremely resilient man. He raised his children with the attitude that nobody owed them anything and whatever they want in life they needed to get themselves.
He was respected in the community and easy to get along with. He was born in an Edgewater Hospital in Chicago and was raised as a Catholic and went to Catholic schools growing up. He was a quiet boy and worked odd jobs for spending money. He was well liked by his teachers, co-workers, and friends at school and the Boy Scouts. During his high school years due to his problematic family trouble he dropped out of school and began to save up money.
He had a very happy childhood, despite the harsh living conditions, and rough upbringings. He was born is the cusp of the era of black oppression. He went to an all black school and he disliked the unfairness of segregation.
This goes to show that by exploring his options and opening up his mind to things helped pull him out of this dark place he was in and start thinking of how he was affected by his environment and many other things. He realized that his environment, genetics, or just bad luck affected him more than he thought it did when he was younger. He shows how thankful he is when he states, “People who taught me that no accident of birth-not being black or relatively poor, being from baltimore or the Bronx or fatherless-would ever define or limit me”(5) and when he states, “What changes was that I found ii was surrounded by people-starting with my mom, grandparents, uncles, and aunts, and leading to a straight of wonderful role models and mentors-who kept pushing me to see more than what was directly in front of me, to see the boundless possibilities of the wider world and the unexplored possibilities within myself”(5). These quotes demonstrate how thankful he was for the people that helped take care of him and change him for the better even if he didnt treat them lively for a while. This shows that if you surround yourself with kind, loving, and caring people, you can
He said,"We were poor, but the glory of it was we didn't know it." This impacted him in his childhood, particularly in high school, in which he did excelled in school and was granted a Harvard scholarship,
Hopefully, he emulated that an individual must work hard, jump countless hurdles and stay resilient to truly make a positive impact on the
In addition, he also speaks of the only thing his father had said to him that entire evening - stating that he asks if he’s “going home now,” again, possibly back to work. One can infer that his father likely encourages them to work their hardest, considering that being the only thing he had said to
He even starved himself to show help people. He was a person who put people above him and never gave up on any cause he put his heart into. Never did he show weakness he was strong for the people he supported he was a hero. He didn't have to get better working conditions for those people he didn't have to keep living conditions equal after he made enough to survive he could have given himself so much more but he didn't he keep things equal.
He pointed out Mr. Cathey consistent bombardments of challenges and how he handle each situation. Every good point in his life such as becoming a father was met with a bad point in which he couldn’t go to school because he became a father. The author allowed us to feel happy for the situations that seemed any reasonable person would feel good about and upset about the unforeseen variables that tend to find Mr. Cathey. The author makes sure you feel the joy and pain of a young man who could have made it to a higher level but came up short because of his bad decision
In the midst of all of this he finds a balance by focusing on what really matters. At the same time this keeps him focused on his main goal which is education. Education will be his family's way out of poverty. Through seeing his younger brother that is unemployed and will be having a child soon he looks beyond this and is genuinely proud of where he comes from. He realizes how strong his family is when he seems them fighting through poverty and making things.
He does so by placing the audience into his childhood to display how he has worked hard and surpassed the barriers that worked against him. Therefore proving, when people work hard they can accomplish marvelous
His idiosyncrasy remains loving and understanding, even when his younger son returned home after many of been away with not a penny to his name. The young son showed disobedience to all the goodness his father had offered to him. The young son showed traits such as selfishness as well as being ungrateful. He had no worth for his father’s property nor did he want to work alongside his father on the family farm.