Throughout the story Tuesdays with Morrie, Mitch Albom talks about the multiple life lessons or, aphorisms, that his former teacher Morrie Schwartz taught him. There are over thirty aphorisms throughout the book and I found that these three related to my life the most. First, “... love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone.” Second, “As long as we can love each other, and remember the feeling of love we had, we can die without really going away. All the love you created is still there. All the memories are still there. You live on-in the hearts of everyone you have touched and nurtured while you were here.” Finally, “Death ends a life, not a relationship.”
The main theme behind these three truths is that even when our loved ones are
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I was at her house every weekend and I had some of my fondest memories there. I was around seven or eight and I was spending the day with my grandma and it was raining outside, the clouds were dark and gray. I really wanted to go outside but unfortunately I could not because of the storm. I was so upset that I could not go outside that I started to cry. My tears were falling as hard as the rain outside. My grandma grabbed some crayons but she did not have any paper so she grabbed an old white lamp shade and told me to decorate it. She showed me how to make birds and said I could draw whatever I wanted. I separated the lamp shade into three parts. I drew birds flying through the sky and clouds. The sun was a bright yellow and I colored the sky with one of the brightest blues I could find. It almost looked like the birds were swimming. Another part of the shade was full of mountains. They were red, purple, black, and gray, pretty much whatever color I want. The final part of the lamp was the ocean. I drew different fish, sharks, and some starfish too. They were different sizes, shapes, and colors. They were bright with vibrant colors and it was the part of the shade with most detail. I even added plants and reefs. After it was all colored my grandma had me sign it and I gave it to my mom as a
Morrie’s Life Lessons Work, that is one thing that there is no shortage of in Tuesdays with Morrie. In the novel, Tuesdays with Morrie, one recurring theme is learning to live each day to its fullest. Mitch Albom, the narrator, chooses his career over his social life. He often takes things for granted, like Morrie did back in the day. Morrie wants to fix that for Mitch so he doesn’t do the same because he learned how not to take life for granted: “We think we don 't deserve love, we think if we let it in we 'll become too soft” (Albom, 1997).
When death occurs everyone is heartbroken and they try to give their condolences to the affected family. In The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian Arnold states, “When it comes to death we know that laughter and tears are pretty much the same. We said goodbye to my grandmother… Each funeral was a funeral for all of us. We lived and died together”.
She uses a balance of elements that mix together to form a beautiful piece of artwork known as “Clouds over Laguna”. She includes a lot of color into her piece. A combination of whites, greens, and blues add to the realism. These colors can be found in nature and are common
Generally speaking, humans cannot be entirely prepared for dying or the death of a close person in their life. Some people say that facing death gives a person both opportunity to grow mentally and the strength to carry on in life; however, it can be too much to handle alone. Help can be needed not only from relatives and peers, but also from the experts. Strong grieving is more than usual, but life must eventually carry on. Death can be both interesting and frightening at the same time because nobody knows what happens afterwards.
When a loved one dies, it can be difficult to cope with the loss. The loss can be overwhelmingly devastating which results in the desperate desire to connect with the person who has died. To compensate, people often insist on keeping the loved one’s spirit with them through memory. However, oftentimes the death is so unimaginable and the impact so great, it results in the denial of death and the subsequent altering of these memories. Denial of death undermines memory by fabricating understanding of events, and in Tim O’Brian’s “The Lives of The Dead,” Tim’s memories of a childhood crush Linda, demonstrate his denial through his altered visual, auditory, and emotional memories.
Another aphorism said by Morrie is “ The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.” Morrie talks about how important love is to people. He thinks that many people feel that they don’t deserve love. Because of this, they don’t give out love. I think that if people get affection and love, they learn how to give love to others.
There are unlimited ways to express healthy emotion. As everyone experiences this, loss is understood as a natural part of life. However, we can still be overcome by shock and confusion, leading to prolonged periods of sadness or depression. The sadness typically diminishes in intensity as time passes, but grieving is an important process in order to overcome these feelings and continue to embrace the time you had with your loved one.” (Nordal PhD, Katherine APA).
In the Nonfiction novel written by Mitch Albom, “Tuesdays With Morrie” tells of this author’s experiences with Mitch’s old professor, Morrie. Mitch recalls his experiences with Morrie very personal and impacted his life in a positive manner. Once it was time for Mitch to graduate, he promised his friend that they would stay in contact and continue to strengthen their relationship. Unfortunately, Mitch got caught in the trap of life and lost contact with his old professor for 16 years, until one day Mitch was flipping through channels on his T.V. and sure enough, there his old friend sat. It was on the Ted Koppel show that Morrie was talking about this disease he had encountered, ALS.
The attitudes to grief over the loss of a loved one are presented in two thoroughly different ways in the two poems of ‘Funeral Blues’ and ‘Remember’. Some differences include the tone towards death as ‘Funeral Blues’ was written with a more mocking, sarcastic tone towards death and grieving the loss of a loved one, (even though it was later interpreted as a genuine expression of grief after the movie “Four Weddings and a Funeral” in 1994), whereas ‘Remember’ has a more sincere and heartfelt tone towards death. In addition, ‘Funeral Blues’ is entirely negative towards death not only forbidding themselves from moving on but also forbidding the world from moving on after the tragic passing of the loved one, whilst ‘Remember’ gives the griever
LOSS, GRIEF AND HEALING As human beings, we suffer losses of many kinds and sizes in our life time. While some of these losses are small and do not hurt much, some are big and hurt deeply. Those that are accompanied by pains that are difficult to bear include the loss of a loved one through death or divorce, cheating or unfaithfulness in a trusted relationship or loss of good health when a diagnosis of a terminal illness is made. In all these instances of loss, pain and grief are experienced and an emotional wound is created which needs healing.
Losing someone you love dearly is one of the hardest things anyone can go through. Sometimes it hurts so bad that you may yourself, “What’s the point of being here anymore?” I ask myself that question all the time, ever since my Grandmother passed away. April 22nd, 2016, was a very emotional experience for my family and me. The day started off like any other day for us.
According to Dora Carpenter, “The loss of a loved one can leave you broken and heartless”( np). “The loss of a loved one can also help people to find and awaken their inner selves” (Carpenter np). In the book How we Grieve Relearning the World Thomas Attig gives multiple first hand account of what people have
When I was asked to think of my fondest memories as a child there were few far between. There was The time I spent with my step dads parents in Edmond Washington all the one on one time with my mom the memories of getting anything I want as the only child, the birth of my baby brother although that really was exciting but I can remember getting left out for the new child, the birth of my sister but that is just were things got wore cause they were mom and dads angels they did no wrong. The memories that I cherish so much to this day with the days that I got to spend with my granddaddy. There were several memories that I hang on to, since he passed away I cherish them more and more. There are so many memories that they may not go in order according to age but they are they ones that I hold close to my heart.
You never know when it’s time for someone to leave this world; enjoy spending time with them. One day when one of your family members are gone, you do not want to have any regrets. You do not want to think
Tuesdays With Morrie is a heart wrenching philosophical movie about a rekindled relationship between a former student Mitch Albom and his college professor Morrie Schwartz, who’s dying from ALS. Every Tuesday, Mitch visits his college professor and learns a valuable lesson on some of the most complex problems life has to offer such as dependency and fear. Throughout the film, there were numerous amount of quotes that represented a significant lesson regarding life, but there were three in particular that stood out to me. “When we’re infants we need other to survive, When were dying, we need others to survive. But here’s the secret.