A person embarking on the journey of life is bound to stumble upon many crucibles that will help him grow as an individual. A crucible is defined as a severe, searching test or trial that challenges the mental, physical, or emotional strength of an individual. This test often requires a person to closely examine his life in order to find a way to resolve his crucible. While facing such a challenge, the individual is able to recognize his abilities and can have a better understanding of himself. At the ripe age of seventeen, I have faced many crucibles of my own that required me to use all of my talents and to reevaluate my values and beliefs. My crucibles have allowed me to improve my character and have contributed to my transition into adulthood. When I was in the eighth grade, I faced a crucible that tested my loyalty and my ability to make wise decisions. At the time, my best friend and I began to socialize with different groups of friends. I noticed that our interactions with each other were …show more content…
I feel like I should not have kept her secret and should have consulted an adult right away. Although my decision to keep her secret proved that I was a loyal friend, it was not a wise decision. If I had spoken to someone else, my friend's depression would have been treated while it faster. If my friend chose not to seek help when she did, she may not be alive today. This crucible proved to be a true challenge of my ability to make a wise decision. I have learned to become a more careful observer, and I always make sure to take note of even the slightest changes in my friends' and family members' behavior. Now, I realize the importance of seeking help from others, especially when I am in a situation that is out of my control. This experience has also reminded me the importance of companionship, and has made me value and cherish the presence of my friends and family in my