My father a stiff gentleman who grew up in the eighties, lived a life you couldn't imagine. Unlike my mother who grew up in this county and lived the normal eighties life that consisted of listening to music, going to school, and getting a part time job to help her parents with the income. Was unheard of in Lebanon where my father grew up. Being from Beirut my father had to grow up fast. His childhood was short due to the high rates of poverty due to a tragic civil war, that will soon make him flee the country alone at just seventeen years old.
My father grew up in a condominium in the center of Beirut; the capital of Lebanon, where the sounds of cars beeping, the smell of smog burns your nostrils, and the fear of losing in a soccer game with
My father has proven that he has the aptitude to escape his comfort zone. He was born the youngest of eight children. Since his mother stayed at home to take care of the children, his father, who worked a blue collar job, was the only provider of income. My father was not the most fortunate in any way and had limited opportunities regarding his future. Despite his circumstances, he escaped his financial background and found success through hard work, leadership, and a keen problem solving ability.
One time, after a day picking cotton the man they were selling to just took their haul without paying. Being black, they had no recourse, they just had to accept it. They often could not afford basic necessities like shoes. In spite of this, his dad was extremely resilient man. He raised his children with the attitude that nobody owed them anything and whatever they want in life they needed to get themselves.
He is a fifty year old latino father to see the difference of how education might have been different back then how it is now. Then one can see how education even though put through different situations it is still very valuable. In the reading of Frederick Douglass you can see that he did what he possibly can because he knew that if he were to become educated it can lead to his freedom and happiness so that is what he did. As for my dad situation it is not the education was not there but I know that he had people to look after and education at the time was not priority as much as he wanted it to be he had to help provide for his nine other siblings, then help his father at labor work painting and planting.
Troubles within my family came to affect my life at school, which, in turn, only further exasperated my difficulties at home. But during this time my grandfather emerged as a source of both stability and personal wisdom.
The author Wes’s father demonstrated leadership, gentleness, and tranquility (The Other Wes Moore, pg. 11); while the other Wes’s father was a drug addict and wife beater who ended up on the streets and in jail. Their decisions as fathers had a direct impact on their children’s futures; where one ends up a decorated veteran and Rhodes scholar, and the other one ends up locked up in prison. This realization made me think about how blessed I am with the parents I have; who have been active role models, teachers, coaches, leaders, friends, and protectors through every step of my life. Never in my life have I questioned if my parents love me and want the best for me, something that I have probably taken for granted. It’s also forced me to question how I’m living my life today; am I setting myself up to be a good father in the future?
As a child I was very fortunate to have a family like my own; my parents were truly happy and wholly in love. I was incredibly close with my siblings and still am today despite our little fights. Along with being close to my siblings my father and I had a great relationship; most people who knew me would have considered me a “daddy’s girl”. Growing up my father was remarkably proud of my grades and who I was becoming as a person. Oftentimes he would brag about me to anyone who listened.
Have you ever dreamed about visiting somewhere and you started thinking your life there? Coming to Miami was my biggest dream in my entire life because I see how beautiful it used to be when someone came anywhere from the US and how other people treated them with respects. I guess all immigrants dream about coming to the US, although not everyone wants to come to stay, but I know for sure everyone in other country would like to visit one day. I grew up in a small city with my Mom and my Sister where life was kind of hard for us because My Mom was a single Mother that trying to raise two kids at that time. I have never had a chance to know my Dad because he came to Miami
However, when I look back now, I just couldn’t believe how far my family and I had come which I have my father to thank for. If it wasn’t for my father, I’ll still be going to school in India without ever knowing that this other half of the world even existed, because of the rough circumstances we were facing in India. The future wouldn’t have been as bright as it now and I feel truly blessed to have come to a new world which contained many great opportunities. The struggle of being an immigrant is one thing, but the challenges of being a teenager is another thing.
Yes, I agree with the statement from Ecclesiastes. Sorrow will always be followed by knowledge, it is inevitable. Some may argue that not all knowledge is miserable, so this statement cannot possibly be true. However, I believe that regardless of what kind of knowledge we obtain, it will certainly or at least indirectly be led to sorrow. With an increased knowledge of the world, we eventually realize how complex and overwhelming the world can be.
I say that my dad is a survivor I try to learn from him and I see him as a hero my dad name is Genaro he was born in Honduras in the big parts of poverty in Honduras. My dad was born in a family who was deep in poverty, my father could not go to school because he was too poor to go to school so he had to work also his parents thought it was a waste of time going when he could be making some money, he always wanted to go to school but he couldn’t he only went to third grade and stopped going because he had to help his dad maintain the family he would sell cigarettes and make some money or he would go work with his dad pulling sacks of potatoes in a cart. My dad would not have anything to eat some days and sometimes all he would eat was tortillas
Fatherless. Growing up as an African-American female, I have come to certain realizations that have made me more cautious of the people I chose to associate myself with on a day-to-day basis based on ignorance that society distributes for others’ use. For example, society portrays the black cultural without a father raised in a single-mother household in a low-income environment. By providing this image to the world, it allows them to interpret that image in any way they chose. In my case, my father was in my life for a short period of time which proved that stereotype right.
Growing up without my father was hard, especially because my mom was only there to feed, clothe and raise 5 kids including me. At 7 years old my father got 9 years in prison. I still remember the day as if it was yesterday. Approximately at 7 p.m., I saw a lot of police officers outside my house, I thought what is happening! Occasionally I kept peeking out the window to see what was happening.
"How serious is it mom?" “Cancer is very serious.” "Will papa die?" “...” I did not know how to react, a mini panic attack was occurring inside my head. Since I was thirteen, I did not know much about cancer.
Personal Narrative As a blossoming adolescent at the innocent age of eleven, my most prominent concerns were sneaking makeup past my mother, adapting to the overwhelming ecosystem that was sixth grade, and figuring out which cat-themed T-shirt I would purchase with my birthday money. My twelfth birthday came and went; I had a small party at which my friends and I watched Napoleon Dynamite and ate pizza. The doorbell rang, and my father appeared with his new wife. I scarcely acknowledged his presence, accepted his gift, gave the obligatory hug and “I love you,” and then he was gone.
Within minutes of his arrival, my mother’s water broke and I was born a few short hours later. My father’s stay in the United States was short-lived as he was uncomfortable with the seemingly loud, materialistic society and sensitive to the apparent oppression of underrepresented people in America. My father