While I was growing up, both my mother’s and father’s parenting style was a combination of permissive and authoritative. I believe them being a mix of both influenced me in both positive and negative ways because no type is perfect. Although I am not a parent yet, I hope I am the same way my parents were with me. Based on what I know, I would explain to new parents that being too strict on your children can do more harm than good and it is a good idea to let your child express themselves. To begin, while I was growing up, my parents were a combination of permissive and authoritative with me and my three older siblings.
At the time, I did not think anything about their disputes. I thought that most parents disagreed like that and I was oblivious to what was going on. My mom is a nurse and worked overnight shifts at the hospital. So from time to time, she was not in the greatest mood when she got home due to lack of sleep. My mom worked a lot of overtime hours to support our family as my dad’s business did not always provide for us.
The mother puts too much pressure on the family to do what her family did. I can understand that the mother didn’t want to be alone, but as a mother you should want you kids to do better than you did and want them to succeed in life. When her only son was going to school , she said; “ I never though a son of mine would choose useless books over the parents that have you life”(Macleod 18). It shows how the mother was putting so much pressure and guilt
We can be hard to deal with and there are going to be, probably a lot, of times where we let you down. Hey, I’m an advocate for those of us with mental illness. I shouldn’t be encouraging you to get angry at us. Yet, I’m going to anyways. But, only under some very
However, what I felt was far more complicated than just sadness and shock. For much of my life, I had carried around the heavy burden of anger and resentment toward my mother. She was not the kind of parent one might call a good parent. Due in large part to her struggle with alcoholism, she was significantly neglectful to me as a child and was not supportive or nurturing. Nor was she the kind of mother I could count on when I needed her.
She showed me right from wrong and guided me and pushed me to do the right things in life and strive for success. As I grew up, my mom was always right by my side and accepted my dreams and wanted me to go out and pursue every dream I have. Looking back at everything my mom has taught me,
My mother has not only been my role model in these three ways, but many more ways. I hope one day I can grow up to be the woman she is. I know that my children will definitely be raised how my mother has raised me. I am forever grateful that my mom has been a great role model in my
Relationship Analysis Personally The relationship between my sister and I has been challenging primarily due to us never being able to understand each other’s perspectives. I have never been able to understand why she makes decision that hindered her. I felt as though I failed my sister based on the decisions she made in her life. I understood my role as an older sibling which is why I tried to be cautious about my life decisions. So it is hard to watch her make unnecessary mistakes in her life that could have been prevented if she would have listened to me.
How to Deal with a Passive Aggressive Mother If you have a passive-aggressive mother, you may feel emotionally neglected and insecure. It's not your fault—you just never really know what to expect from her! Although passive-aggression is much harder to detect than full-on aggression, you can learn to identify it and change the way you react. Also, dealing with a passive-aggressive mom can be stressful, so get support from friends or a counselor to cope. ==Steps== ===Responding Effectively=== #Spot the behavior when it's happening.
Of course not. Never question your ability to become a great mother. It is okay for you to feel the disappointment and guilt, but it is unhealthy to dwell on those feelings longer than it should be. Remember, you will become a mother. Regardless of the gender of your unborn or born child, your mother instincts are teh same.